The Quickest Way To Move Past Social Fear


When you’re feeling fear or anxiety, the most important action to take isn’t one that reduces anxiety. It’s the action that reduces your avoidance, and makes you face whatever it is you’re anxious about. The next time you’re in a situation where you’re feeling a negative emotion, especially fear, takes these three steps. Over time, […]

Want to Hook Up with Her? Give it 7 Hours and You’re Usually Golden


One of my clients met a girl a while back who he really liked. She liked him too, and they texted back and forth for a while before setting up a date (side note: if you’re spending days texting girls and not meeting up with them, you suck at text game and you need THIS). […]

Building Your Ecosystem: Who’s Got Your Back?


One of the most important factors in improving your lifestyle, creating a better dating life, and having a masculine lifestyle, is who you choose to surround yourself with. Who you allow to influence your thinking dictates how you experience the world. You absorb the mental models and worldviews of the people in your ecosystems, and […]

Review of the IC Introductory Workshop

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We recently had 5 new clients join our Leverage Program from the Phoenix area. I always love when this happens because it creates a satellite community within our group and because the guys are local, it’s very easy for them to spend time together, wing each other, and push each other to grow faster. And […]

Why You Must Provide Uncertain Outcomes In Order to Stand Out In The Eyes of Women


Everything in dating is about user experience. If you want to do well, you need to be considering what kind of experience you’re providing for the people you interact with, especially when you’re trying to show your personality to make a good first impression. Most women have had countless dates with guys that start out […]