7 years!

Four hundred, one-on-one conversations.

The most common problem I see as a result of these conversations is that most men don’t really understand how attraction between a man and a woman works. 

And because they don’t understand it, they struggle to improve their ability to confidently create that attraction.

My intention for writing this article is to clear up any misconceptions you might have about how to attract women.

You know those situations where you spot a gorgeous woman?  You know you want to talk to her but you just can’t bring yourself to do it.

What about when you’re out on a date?  You want to make a move, you know it’s time to make a move, you know she wants you to make a move, but you just can’t seem to make the move!

You feel paralyzed and don’t take a chance.  Then you regret it! Read more…

Ok, you’re NOT an idiot and I STILL want to be your friend (virtual friend if we’ve never met) but check out this funny story:

Joe was a young man who decided to take up the game of golf. The first thing Joe did was buy a really expensive set of the top-of-the-line golf clubs. He wanted to make sure he looked the part so he also purchased the latest and most fashionable golf khakis, polo shirts, golf shoes and even some personalized logo golf balls.

Joe felt like a million bucks as he walked onto the driving range for the first time to hit a small bucket of balls. Joe had never swung a club before but he had watched plenty of golf on TV and even attended a PGA Tour event.

Joe was hoping to hit the ball long and straight but he ended up completely whiffing more often than not and the balls he did make contact with very rarely got airborne. Joe was upset with his performance so he concluded that the problem was his golf clubs. So he returned his set and picked up a new one. The next day, Joe tried his luck at the driving range again. His results were identical, mostly ground balls and whiffs. Joe was frustrated so he booked a lesson with a golf pro.

During the lesson, the golf pro gave Joe a few tips and he did Read more…

Have you ever met someone who speaks very slowly and inserts extended pauses into the conversation?

Is the person you are thinking of a good communicator?

Is he successful with women?

My friend Dave fits this description.  It’s funny, when he speaks I feel compelled to listen extra closely because at any moment I feel like he might say something incredibly profound and enlightening.

The funny thing is that most of the stuff coming out of his mouth is neither profound nor enlightening, its usually just wise cracks and jokes.  I feel compelled to listen to Dave because he is a master at using a technique I call “The Pause.”

Let me give you an example to illustrate my point, then I’ll show you how this relates to meeting women. Read more…

Today we have another excellent post by my friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety

How Much of Your Life Do You Spend NOT Taking Action with Women?

I quit going to the gym.

Why?

Is it because I’m lazy?

Nope. I’m driven as hell.

Is it because I don’t want to get huge and muscular?

Nope. I’d love to have a killer physique.

It’s for one reason: Time.

Every morning, I get up and I workout for about 20 minutes before breakfast.

Sure, if I spent an hour or two at the gym every day, I would get bigger a lot faster.

But I know something about myself.

I know, that if I set myself up to do an hour a day, I won’t do it!

I may be able to keep it up for a week or two or three. But then something will happen. Read more…

“5 Secret Strategies To Meet Women With Confidence”

Robbie Kramer has a special talent for seeing the exact steps it takes for men to build unshakable confidence and attract the women of they desire. He’s spent the last 6 years leading workshops and trainings and his work has been featured on Sirius Satellite Radio, The Los Angeles Times and USA Today.

Listen in on this FREE teleclass as Skip Weisman, interviews Robbie.

On this information-packed teleclass, you’ll learn:

You won’t want to miss this content-rich teleclass, loaded with the step-by-step strategies and practical tips you can use immediately.