The Art of Peacocking


Most of us have heard about peacocking: the idea of wearing an outrageous outfit or set of accessories to get a girl to notice you at a bar. Traditionally, peacocking might mean wearing black nail polish or goggles or Matrix-style trench coats to get attention. I’ve even seen dudes dress up in full-on costumes in […]

The Secret to Being a Social Beast: Breach the Dork Forcefield and Hang with the Cool Kids


People ask me all the time, “What’s your secret to dating hot chicks, and how can I be more like you?” I can tell you, and I’m going to in just a minute, but you have to understand that you’re not going to become a social master in a day. Pulling your ideal chick is the […]

The 3 Stages of Cool


The ability to integrate with the cool kids is crucial to being able to attract hot girls. A lot of people think that “cool” is a group, and when we talk about “cool kids,” it’s slightly misleading. “Cool” is not a group. It’s a way of being, and there are three stages to it. Stage […]

The Easiest Way to Become More Dynamic: Stop Dressing Like an Idiot!


At the end of the day, being dynamic is the greatest pitch ever. The “be all” and “end all” is becoming a man who’s witty, charismatic, driven, spontaneous and grounded: he’s dynamic. Being dynamic is the whole package – 360 degrees of awesome — and girls will pretty much do anything to be with a […]

“Did you get my text?”

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One of our Leverage members, Tom, recently posted this text exchange in our group and asked for feedback. Backstory from Tom: I met a hot Mexican hottie yesterday. She spoke broken english with a sexy accent. I was at Jumpstreet trampolines with my kids. Alondra gets to the place with 4 kids at the same […]