Robbie Kramer – The Flirting Expert

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Robbie is a social arts instructor and coach dedicated to changing the lives of his clients. His focus is always on finding a way to make life easier and more fun. Something more than leading edge and beyond what has been done in personal transformation. His customized training gives his clients the tools to achieve consistent, real-world results in their personal and dating/relationship lives.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’ve been leading workshops and trainings all over the world for the past five years including North America, Europe, Asia and Australia.  I feel really blessed because I have dated beautiful women all over the world and found the best one, in my opinion of course, her name is Allison.  But a few years ago, things were not so good.  I was a junior in college at UC San Diego and dating a girl who was good enough.  When I say “good enough” what I mean, was that the only reason I was with her was because I knew if we broke up, it would be a long time before I had sex again and it seemed like a difficult chore to go out and find someone new.  I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach but I had no clue how to talk to them and the thought of approaching a beautiful woman freaked me out.  So I ended up settling for sex with a girl I was not really that into and figured that was good enough.  And then out of nowhere, she dumped me.  As she got in her car and drove away, I stood on the street corner feeling a very odd sense of freedom.

The next day, a buddy of mine told me about this underground community of men who called themselves pickup artists.  I was fascinated and started reading and studying everything I could get my hands on.  After spending some time on forums and meeting some of these so called pickup artists I realized they were a bunch of nerdy guys trying to fake being cool by wearing retarded hats, painting their nails black and running hypnotic patterns on people.  I wondered if these crazy gimmicks worked but after going out with them for a few weeks I realized that they did not.  Basically all these guys did was stand in the corner and talk about theory instead of actually socializing and talking to people.

So I stopped hanging out with them and just started trying some techniques I learned from a company who taught more of a natural and playful approach.  I’ve always been a playful person so I started to playfully tease women every chance I could.  I started seeing a lot more interest in the women I talked to and started getting dates.  I wanted to become fantastic with women and live out all my fantasies so I invested in myself and signed up for a series of workshops.  The workshops took me to a whole new level and the head of the company offered me a job as a coach.  I gladly accepted and spent the next two years flying all over the world teaching men how to attract, connect with and seduce women.

Some of these men would see amazing results almost instantly because the style of flirting we taught was a perfect match for their playful personality, just like it was for me when I got started.  But other guys would struggle with the material because it simply wasn’t the right fit for them.  Not everyone is a goofball and when these guys went out pretending to be something they were not, they got rejected over and over, lost confidence and ended up getting more stuck and quitting.  These guys were paying over $2500 to attend these workshops and when I realized this problem, I decided I needed to do something about it.  This is a little embarrassing to admit, but even though I was leading these workshops and having what most men would consider great results, I felt like a con man because I didn’t feel that confident.  The guys at the workshop thought that I had magic powers that allowed me to pick up any woman I saw and that simply wasn’t the case.  Just like many of my students, I still felt scared and inferior to the women that REALLY turned me on.

So I left the company and started to look at my belief systems, behavior patterns and insecurities.  Some people call this “Inner Game” but I hate to call it that because most people think Inner Game consists only of hypnosis and NLP (nuero-linguistic programming).  Most importantly, I started telling the truth and got really clear on my starting point.  When this happened, I became much more available and open to the people around me, including women.  I learned how to make an emotional connection and be honest with my wants, needs and sexual desires as a man.  Not surprisingly, I started to attract the women who were previously out of my league.  I was honest with myself about my career in the banking world and how it wasn’t working.  This allowed me to leave my job and with my new found confidence, I started Inner Confidence with my good friend Brian Begin.  We transformed the lives of hundreds of men from 2008 to early 2010 and a few months back, we decided to part ways as business partners.  I bought him out of the company and we remain great friends to this day and do our best to support each other.

I’m always looking for new ways to improve the curriculum and the programs I teach so my content is always evolving.  Rock solid Inner Confidence is built on the foundation of a few key points.  It starts with telling the truth and being honest about your starting point.  The next step is facing your fears and taking action anyway.  Once you get in action, you get immediate feedback on what’s working and what’s not working.  It’s simple to tell, you just look at your results!  Next, you make minor adjustments here and there and continue to take risks.  When you take risks, you learn how to deal with crazy situations that you never expected to encounter.  Out of those situations, you learn how to deal with tension and communicate with people under any circumstance.  The confidence comes from realizing that you’ll be fine no matter what, and the only thing there is to do is keep taking risks and growing as a person.

This journey is definitely not for everyone and the weak at heart need not apply.  If it were easy, everyone would be doing it.  When you are ready to get started on the path, I can certainly show you the way.  This process allows you to be yourself, have fun and attract a ton of women and there is no reason why this isn’t possible for every man out there.

To get started, I suggest you read some of my blog posts and see if the material is a good fit.  If so, sign up for my free teleseminar: “Get Hardwired For Success With Women” and I’ll give you the tools to go from there.

Hope to meet you soon,

-Robbie Kramer

Inner Confidence

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