If you haven’t heard me say this, then get used to it because you will continue to hear it if you continue to read my articles.  Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity.  So if you are doing this, STOP IT!

Ponder these questions for yourself:

1.    How long have you been stuck with accomplishing a specific goal in your dating life?
2.    Have you ever mapped out exactly what you want and written it down?
3.    What are your normal course of actions when it comes to meeting members of the opposite sex?
4.    What is working?
5.    What isn’t working?
6.    What do you keep telling yourself to do over and over but are still not doing it?
7.    Where are you operating like an insane person?

I see this time and time again.  Guys are fed up with their situation with women and they just sit around and hope something will magically change.  The odds of that happening are slightly better then the poor guy who sits around all day and hopes to become a millionaire.  The only way that happens is if he wins the lottery.  See the correlation?

First off, if you are reading this and fall into the category I described above, don’t beat yourself up, because you are already taking action by simply reading this article.  The first step to change is consciousness.  If you can’t see what you are doing, then you can’t change it.  So as a practice, write down all the ways you are going about improving your relationships with women and really examine them.  If you are too lazy to do this, then at least think about it.  Next, write down exactly what you want.  For the first 3 guys that email me this assignment, I’ll give you a free 30 minute coaching call to get you on the right path.  Email me at Robbie@innerconfidence.com