When I look back on my journey to become successful with women, it’s funny to see all the ways I slowed myself down.

At the time, I assumed that everything I was doing was what needed to be done but now, some of those mistakes are glaringly obvious.

This post is about the biggest thing that slows guys down from meeting the woman of their dreams… not looking in the right places!

If you are fishing for Marlin, do you think it would be a good idea to get a random boat, sail out into the middle of the ocean, use whatever bait you can find and cast away?  

Of course not, I don’t even fish and I know that would be stupid!

But that is how I tried to meet women for years.  I knew I wanted a Read more…

Random question… do you think gamers are typically good with women?

If meeting women was like playing a video game, most guys would be awesome at it!

This is obviously not the case, but in this article I’m going to show you how can create your own “Game” to become awesome with women.

It may not look exactly like a video game and you have to play in real life but it can be just as fun if you are creative.

Just to give you a mind boggling statistic, a child spends 10,080 hours sitting in a classroom from grade five through 12.

You know what else kids spend 10,000 hours doing between grades five and 12?

Gaming!

What would incentivise a teenager to spend more time gaming then socializing? Read more…

“I have a proven system that will get you more women then you can handle and if you just follow my paint by numbers system and you can have all the success that I’ve had.”

How many times have you heard this marketing message before from a “Pickup Guru?”

They’re irresistible offer hooks you into buying the product.  You follow the system and you’re disillusioned when it doesn’t work, thinking what is going on, what’s wrong with me?

So what is going on? Is it that these Guru’s systems don’t work?

Nope, they actually do work…

But they don’t work for every guy, they only work for guys who are exactly like the gurus who invented the system.

The vast majority of the men teaching pickup are what I label as “Reds” on my Inner Confidence Alignment Grid.”

A “Red” system will only work for a Red. There are three other colors, Green, Blue and Yellow and the video below is about helping you figure out Read more…

Hey Robbie,

I met this girl online dating. We went on a coffee date that went well, I texted her the next day and we end up setting up a date for the weekend.

That date also ended up going really well, we kissed a few times, she was giving me a bunch of compliments, the conversation was easy and funny, etc…

The only mistake I can think of that I may have made was getting a little “ungrounded” towards the end (after a few drinks), when I realized this girl that I really like also seems to really like me. (I’m starting to realize how my internal state affects women’s reactions to me, but that being said, there weren’t any major screwups.) I take her home, kiss her goodnight, etc.

I wait two days and then text her, and I get no response.

This doesn’t immediately concern me since I remember her saying she’s a fan of “He’s Not That Into You” which teaches women that men will chase them endlessly if they are actually interested.

I also notice that she made it a point to end the dates at a high point (which is straight out of “The Rules”), so I figure she must be Read more…