After hearing about The 21 Convention from a few different people, I decided to send Anthony “Dream” Johnson and email requesting to speak at next years event.

To be honest, I didn’t really expect a reply back and figured I’d never hear from him, considering the event has gotten pretty big over the past few years and I didn’t expect him to know of me.

But lo and behold, he invited me to speak after meeting him at last years Pickup Artist Summit.

If you never ask, you’ll never get a yes, right? Read more…

One of my clients recently said to me, “I feel like you’ve given me permission to speak my mind.”

He went on to talk about how he had always felt disrespected and belittled by his older brother but now he has the courage to stand up to him and tell him how he feels.

I think that is freaking cool and it has EVERYTHING to do with confidently attracting women.

I used to be the classic “In-Authentic Nice-Guy” you hear about in the seduction community.  I couldn’t handle confrontation so I made sure to keep my mouth shut and avoid pissing people off.

I thought this was a good strategy until I realized the incredibly negative impact this was having on my confidence.

Every time I bit my tongue, it felt like a small part of me died.

Looking back, I can see how things got progressively Read more…

Today we have another excellent post by my friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety

Lies We Tell Ourselves in Bad Relationships

Love.

There’s no feeling like it in the world.

When you’re into a girl, everything in your life seems different.  Colors seem more vivid.

Everything you do has a different purpose. Life seems more worth living.

It’s not surprising that Stanford researchers found that the feeling of being in love is extremely addictive.

The effects on the brain are almost indistinguishable from the most potent drugs like cocaine or heroine. Read more…

Today we have another excellent post by my friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety

I’ve talked a lot about how problematic it is to be too much of a nice guy.

But how do you know when you’ve crossed the line between nice guy and uncaring asshole?

This is a big fear for guys when they stop being nice and start being “real.”

What if you accidentally go too far?

The answer is that there is no way to know if you’ve gone too far until you actually go too far.

It happens to me all the time. I’m constantly crossing that line between simply being confident and being a selfish dick.

A woman will Read more…