This post is about creating a lifestyle that draws beautiful women to you without any extra work on your part.

I’m gonna walk you through my step by step process I created to get more dates with minimal effort rather then going out and stressing about meeting women at a nightclub.

I’m gonna call it Passive Opening as opposed to actively going out to meet women (‘sarging’ in pua lingo).

I like to make the analogy that meeting women is kinda like sales because you are always selling yourself.

If you are in sales, you can either go out, hit the street and hustle or you can setup a website with a sales page, drive traffic to it and make money in your sleep.

If you do a little of both, you increase your success.

The beauty of today’s society is that we are becoming increasingly social by never leaving the house or office. Social media allows us to interact with 100′s of our friends and others via facebook, twitter, match.com etc…

The trap is when you decide to never actually go out because you lose your ability to think on your feet, be witty and experience life outside your comfort zone. Here is what I did.

Step 1: Get comfortable in social situations, or in other words, get out of your house!

Here are two great exercises to get you past the fear of interacting with strangers.

1. Talk to 100 people in less then 2 hours. I don’t care how you do it, just do it.

2. Go to a bar by yourself and just stand around.

You may be thinking, Robbie these exercises are lame and stupid I would feel like a douchebag doing them!

Well, you’re right!

The exercises are designed to push your comfort zone, that’s it!

If you talk to 100 people and 99 of them tell you to get lost or ignore you completely, then your doing something wrong and your lacking an awareness of basic social skills.

The standing at the bar exercise is great, because you’ll realize that no one really gives a shit about anyone except themselves.

Trust me, the hot girl is way to preoccupied making sure her boobs look good to care whether or not you came with anyone. If you already feel confident in social situations you can skip this step but I recommend it anyway because it did wonders for me.

Beware, if you are not socially aware and you skip this step, the next steps will not work you.

Step 2: Build your online social circle.

If you are already spending lots of time online and chances are high if you are reading this, then start interacting with your friends more on facebook.

You can take this a step further by creating a blog about your passion and writing about it.

Don’t judge your passion, there is no such thing as a lame passion.

I don’t care if you are passionate about World of Warcraft, it doesn’t matter.

But if you blog about something you’re not passionate about, you will get bored. So why blog? Because you are creating value for others and building your own personal brand.

To learn more about building your personal brand and why it’s the absolute best thing you could do for yourself, read Gary Vaynerchuk’s book “Crush It.”

In a short period of time, you will be connected with tons of people who are interested in what you have to say.

Step 3: Turn your online social circle into your face to face social circle.

Create a profile page on Meetup.com and start attending events that look fun for you. You can meet like minded people and attend events that are right up your alley.

It’s great because everyone is a stranger so they usually have ice breakers so you can meet new friends easily. It’s like going to a bar full of people who are just like you. Need I say more?

Step 4: Take it to the next level by hosting your own events.

As the host, you are the MAN! No one in the room is more sought after then you and everyone is vying for your attention. You can throw parties or setup your own meetup group about your passion.

For an example, check out mine: http://meetup.com/innerconfidence I setup mine for business but I also have one for one of my favorite hobbies – Golf.

The better your events are, the more people will show up and pretty soon, you’ll be at the top of social food chain.

Step 5: Reap the Rewards. Remember, it’s all about FUN! If it’s not fun, don’t do it.

So there you have it. If you combine these 5 steps with your typical social activities, you will meet a LOT more women and increase your social circle exponentially.

Cheers,
Robbie Kramer