This post is about rounding the bases and I’m not talking about baseball.

Unfortunately, women are labeled as “sluts” in our society if they get too sexual too fast.

It’s an incredibly unfair double standard and unfortunate because it stops them from getting with you even if they really want to.

If you follow the advice below you will be able to physically escalate the interaction without her slut alarm going off.

Obviously this is a win/win scenario for both of you because come on, everyone loves getting booty!

Most guys make the mistake of trying to round the bases by following this formula.

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1.  Meet her

2. Talk to her

3. Try to kiss her

4. Hold her hand

5. Play with her boobies

6. Hand up her skirt

7. Get in her pants

8. Slide into home plate

The problem with following this formula is that every time you try to transition to the next sexual move, her built in anti-slut defense system goes off.

For example, if you try to kiss her in front of her friends at the bar they might call her a slut.  Kiss denied.  If you try to play with her boobies on the first date she might feel like a slut.  Boobies denied, etc…

The ridiculous thing about the whole situation is that both of you know that eventually, sex is gonna happen and afterward you’ll laugh about how hard you tried to get in her pants and how she made you wait.

So do this instead!

Don’t try to round the bases!  If you do something different you will bypass her anti-slut systems and you’ll both end up happier because of it.

Trick #1 is to mess with the order.  For instance, rather then going in for this kiss, skip to hand holding.

If you are caressing each others fingers, that is more intimate then kissing so when you do go in for the kiss, it’s a sure thing!  If you want to take it up a notch, caress her breasts before you kiss her too.

If you do this she will get so turned on that she will basically maul you.

Trick #2 is to voice her objections before she gets a chance. This one is pure gold!  I think I learned this first from my mentor Lance Mason.

It’s really simple and it makes for amazing flirting.  I’m even gonna give you the exact thing to say for each transition point to really make your life easy.

Going for the kiss:

You: “Your smile is way too sexy, and I’ve gotta tell you, if you keep smiling you’re in grave danger of being kissed!”

Her: HAHA (smile)

You: (Kiss her!) I warned you!

Going for the boobies:

You: Listen honey, I know you think I’m a hot beef cake and all but you have to stop staring at my boobs.

Her: haha whatever

You: Ok, just go ahead and feel me up, I know you want to. (grab her and rub it on your chest)

Her: LOL

You: Ok, my turn! (go for playful boob grab)

Getting her to come up to your place:

You: You’ve gotta come over and see this crazy new jacket I bought.  I’m not sure if its cool or really lame and I need a woman’s opinion.

Her: Ok

You: But just so you know, there will be no funny business or trying to get in my pants.  I’m a good boy, got it!

Once you are up at your place:

You: I have no idea where I put that damn jacket, but here you gotta try this wine, its amazing.  But just so you know, I’m kicking you out after 20 minutes, I told you that you weren’t getting lucky.

While you are making out:

Put her hand on your crotch.  Or grab her hand and put it on her crotch.

If she is really resisting and none of the other stuff is working:

When in doubt, whip it out!  Seriously, this is an amazingly effective technique.  Simply start to take off your clothes like it’s no big deal.  Once you are naked, jump into bed and wait.  Most of the time she will follow your lead.

Sealing the deal:

This one is simply too good and a little too raunchy to post on this blog so if you want it, leave me a comment saying “give me the good stuff” and include your email and I will send it to you.

Remember, you only want to use these tools if she is resisting or you think she is gonna resist.  It will completely screw with her mind but its all in good fun.

Some people would say that this is manipulative but you can’t mess with free will.  She has already decided whether or not she is gonna sleep with you, it’s just a matter of when.

I love this stuff because it’s fun, flirty and really takes the awkward tension away.

Cheers,
Robbie Kramer