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Most people think that flirting is about being funny. The first question I always get after telling people what I do for a living is this: “So what’s your best flirting line?”  That questions drives me nuts because flirting has very little to do with the lines or for that matter, the words.  So I ussually just answer by saying in a really stern and annoyed tone of voice “I don’t flirt!”  Then they giggle and say “That’s not flirting” and I say “Then why are you laughing?”

Flirting is about playing with sexual tension. Your ability to successfully initiate conversations with beautiful woman is dependent on your ability to play with tension.

Here is the definition of Tension: mental or emotional strain; intense, suppressed suspense, anxiety, or excitement.

To explain what this means lets start with an analogy.  Learning how to drive a stick shift (manual transmission car) is exactly like learning how to improve your ability to create intense sexual tension in women.  There are four stages to each of these activities.

Stage 1:  Learn the mechanics

Before we can drive a ‘stick’ we must realize that it operates differently then a automatic transmission.  It is essential to learn how the clutch functions, how the gear box operates and to realize that there is an extra pedal next to the brake.  Next we must learn the purpose of all the different gears and how to shift between them.

Similarly, in order to create intense sexual attraction in women, first we must realize the role that tension plays during an interaction.  What kind of tension is in the air during the stages of the conversation?  Is it nervous tension?  Is there too little or too much tension?  Is it sexual tension?  Is it excitement or anxiety?

Next we must have a step-by-step system to smoothly transition from one gear to the next.  Open the conversation by saying X, increase the sexual tension by saying Y, increase it a little more with your body language, etc…  This is your Personal Attraction System in action.

Step 2: Practice In Safe Place To Build Confidence

Let’s say you just finished reading a book on how to drive a car with a manual transmission and you know exactly how everything works mechanically.  Would it be smart to practice for the first time on a freeway in bumper to bumper traffic?  What if I told you to just do it?  Would you feel scared, anxious or nervous?  A better solution might be to practice in an empty parking lot with a mentor who can coach you through the process so you can get the feeling of the clutch and train your body to shift through the gears smoothly.  Once you feel proficient enough, you could drive around a quiet neighborhood to build your confidence.

Unfortunately, most men decide to practice playing with sexual tension by immediately hitting the bars and clubs and attempting to drink enough beers to approach the most beautiful woman in the bar.  That’s about as smart as the example I gave above about the bumper to bumper freeway scenario.  Start off by practicing in safe place.  In my workshop,
“Never Get Tongue-Tied Again”, we spend an entire day practicing playing with sexual tension with the incredibly sexy Inner Confidence Girls.  These girls along with my coaches and I give you personalized feedback on your approach and how to smoothly build sexual attraction with the most beautiful and intimidating women that most guys would never dream of talking to.

Step 3: Operate on Autopilot

Once you build up the muscle memory of smoothly shifting gears and operate the clutch, it becomes second nature.  You can drive a stick shift while eating a burger and talking on a cell phone while speeding down the freeway.  You don’t even have to think about it anymore, you can drive on autopilot.

Playing with sexual tension works the same way.  Once you get the feeling in your body, you no longer have to think about shifting gears or what to say.  You will be able to attract women unconsciously.

Step 4: Burn Rubber

If you really want to take the experience of driving to the next level you can start to compete.  You may decide to upgrade to a high performance sports car.   There are more tools available at this level like double clutching and high speed downshifting to really enhance the performance of your car.  High speed racing takes focus and precision and the stakes are high.

You can guess where I’m going with this one right?  The men who are masters with women have skills far more advanced than playing with tension.  They have the ability to create tension in any moment and use it their advantage.  These are the skills required to handle the most sought after and intimidating women, date multiple women, and live out your sexual fantasies.

And don’t forget to have fun with this stuff!

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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Last night I attended Game 7 of the NBA Finals at Staples Center and watched the Lakers win, it was INSANE!  I was sitting right in front of the suite where Fergie and the rest of the Black Eyed Peas were sitting.  Fergie’s husband, the dude from Las Vegas was also with them.  It was really interesting to watch the dynamic between them.  He is very grounded and laid back, and she was bouncing all over the place chatting with everyone.  The fans around were almost more interested in them then they were in the game.

The most interesting thing I noticed about being at the game is how the fans were interacting with each other.  Everyone was incredibly friendly and open even before the game started.  It was a combination of people being excited to be there plus the feeling of camraderie of rooting for the same team.  It made me wonder why people don’t act like this all the time.  It’s WAY more fun for everyone involved.  It made me think of all the times I see a group of people or even an individual having a ton of fun at a bar.  That energy just sucks everyone else in and it’s awesome.  Most people are too scared to let loose and get excited, it’s a shame that it takes something as big as a Game 7 to really get people going and feeling connected.  The same thing happened after September 11th when patriotism was sky high.

So how does this relate to dating and meeting women?  When you are in a crowd you are most likely going to feel one of two ways.

1.  If you’re not interacting with anyone you will feel left out, tired and overwhelmed.

2.  When you are engaged you will feel revitalized, happy and you’ll have tons of energy.

It comes down to a basic choice.  Are you going to let the fear of saying the wrong thing to the stranger next to you stop you from having fun?  It doesn’t take much to get people going and having fun.  The next time you’re out just go up to a group and say “Let’s hear it for beer!”  Chink glasses with everyone and say, “Do you guys know the beer chant?  It’s the coolest thing ever… Beer, beer, beer, beer, beer!” It’s really that simple.

Leave a comment and let me know which team you were rooting for.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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This post is about rounding the bases and I’m not talking about baseball.  Unfortunately, women are labeled as “sluts” in our society if they get too sexual too fast.  It’s an incredibly unfair double standard and unfortunate because it stops them from getting with you even if they really want to.  If you follow the advice below you will be able to physically escalate the interaction without her slut alarm going off.  Obviously this is a win/win scenario for both of you because come on, everyone loves getting booty!

Most guys make the mistake of trying to round the bases by following this formula.

1.  Meet her

2. Talk to her

3. Try to kiss her

4. Hold her hand

5. Play with her boobies

6. Hand up her skirt

7. Get in her pants

8. Slide into home plate

The problem with following this formula is that every time you try to transition to the next sexual move, her built in anti-slut defense system goes off.  For example, if you try to kiss her in front of her friends at the bar they might call her a slut.  Kiss denied.  If you try to play with her boobies on the first date she might feel like a slut.  Boobies denied, etc…  The ridiculous thing about the whole situation is that both of you know that eventually, sex is gonna happen and afterward you’ll laugh about how hard you tried to get in her pants and how she made you wait.

So do this instead!

Don’t try to round the bases!  If you do something different you will bypass her anti-slut systems and you’ll both end up happier because of it.

Trick #1 is to mess with the order.  For instance, rather then going in for this kiss, skip to hand holding.  If you are caressing each others fingers, that is more intimate then kissing so when you do go in for the kiss, it’s a sure thing!  If you want to take it up a notch, caress her breasts before you kiss her too.  If you do this she will get so turned on that she will basically maul you.

Trick #2 is to voice her objections before she gets a chance. This one is pure gold!  I think I learned this first from my mentor Lance Mason.  It’s really simple and it makes for amazing flirting.  I’m even gonna give you the exact thing to say for each transition point to really make your life easy.

Going for the kiss:

You: “Your smile is way too sexy, and I’ve gotta tell you, if you keep smiling you’re in grave danger of being kissed!”

Her: HAHA (smile)

You: (Kiss her!) I warned you!

Going for the boobies:

You: Listen honey, I know you think I’m a hot beef cake and all but you have to stop staring at my boobs.

Her: haha whatever

You: Ok, just go ahead and feel me up, I know you want to. (grab her and rub it on your chest)

Her: LOL

You: Ok, my turn! (go for playful boob grab)

Getting her to come up to your place:

You: You’ve gotta come over and see this crazy new jacket I bought.  I’m not sure if its cool or really lame and I need a woman’s opinion.

Her: Ok

You: But just so you know, there will be no funny business or trying to get in my pants.  I’m a good boy, got it!

Once you are up at your place:

You: I have no idea where I put that damn jacket, but here you gotta try this wine, its amazing.  But just so you know, I’m kicking you out after 20 minutes, I told you that you weren’t getting lucky.

While you are making out:

Put her hand on your crotch.  Or grab her hand and put it on her crotch.

If she is really resisting and none of the other stuff is working:

When in doubt, whip it out!  Seriously, this is an amazingly effective technique.  Simply start to take off your clothes like it’s no big deal.  Once you are naked, jump into bed and wait.  Most of the time she will follow your lead.

Sealing the deal:

This one is simply too good and a little too raunchy to post on this blog so if you want it, leave me a comment saying “give me the good stuff” and include your email and I will send it to you.

Remember, you only want to use these tools if she is resisting or you think she is gonna resist.  It will completely screw with her mind but its all in good fun.  Some people would say that this is manipulative but you can’t mess with free will.  She has already decided whether or not she is gonna sleep with you, it’s just a matter of when.  I love this stuff because it’s fun, flirty and really takes the awkward tension away.

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It’s been a CRAZY two weeks.  To all my loyal readers, I hope you missed me and you’re not too choked up about my posting hiatus.

Last week we ran the first ever Masculine Evolution Bootcamp.  It was 5 days of gut wrenching fun at 7,000 feet above sea level.  Activities included paintballing, hiking, flame throwing, search and rescue and some very interesting sports.  That’s all I’m gonna say about it for now but if you attended the event, please leave a comment below describing your experience.

This weekend I attended Lisa Sasevich’s Speak To Sell Bootcamp in San Diego.  One of the main focuses of the event was the idea of a quantum leap.  A quantum leap is best described as a tremendous burst in performance.  Let’s say you are consistently going on 1 date per week and you suddenly start getting 5 dates per week.  That would be a quantum leap.  So how do you make this happen.  I was talking to my good friend and client Kumar, who was asking why he wasn’t having more success with women.  He explained that he was working 10 hour days with a 3 hour round-trip commute while living at home with his parents.  Do I need to say anymore?  If you don’t set yourself up for success you are eliminating any opportunity for a quantum leap.  I asked Kumar why he was living at home, 3 hours away from his work.  He said it was convenient and cheap.  He then told me that he felt like a wimp because he wasn’t approaching women like he usually does.  I asked him how he expected to find any time in his day to approach women.

The funny thing about Kumar is that I hear this same story ALL THE TIME.  If you can see yourself in him, then stop being so hard on yourself.  Here are a couple of solutions.

1.  If you want to take a quantum leap you first need to set yourself up for success.  Living at home is simply not gonna fly.  You have a better chance if you live out of your molester van.  A three hour commute is also not gonna fly because you are either going to meet women close to where you live or close to where you work.  Either way you are screwed.  You don’t want to bring a date back to your parents house and you don’t want to commute 3 hours to go on a date.

2.  “You can’t become the person you want to be by remaining who you are.”  If you are on a flying trapeze, the only way to get from one bar to another is to let go and risk falling.  If Kumar wants success, he’s simply going to have to choose between women and comfort.  He could do this by moving to a place close to his job eve if he can’t afford it.  The funny thing is that as soon as he makes the bold commitment, the money will come.  But as long as he plays it safe, he’ll stay exactly where he is at.

Are you playing it safe in life?  Think back on the most memorable moments in your life…

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I bet they are the ones when you did something TOTALLY out of your comfort zone and everything worked out great.  So if you want to shift your results and take that quantum leap, ask yourself this question.

Where am I playing it safe and avoiding the actions I know I really need to take?

The next step is simple, JUMP!

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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Passion is one of the most important topics in dating and also, the least talked about.  I’m not talking about sexual passion, I’m simply talking about what turns you on.  What gets you excited and smiling every day? Knowing your passion and speaking about it is straight up sexy because it’s authentic, its honest, its the raw form of you, take it or leave it.  People are attracted to passion, because its so rare to find someone who has found their calling.  Most people are stuck doing what society tells them is the right thing to do, rather then following their dreams.

In his book “Crush It,” Gary Vaynerchuk writes “Even the dullest introvert has pizzaz when talking about something he’s passionate about.” Take the guy who has the rustiest social skills and have him talking about this new chemical element discovered on Mars, and he’ll shine and draw people in.  You” find that by focusing on your passion, your skills with women will improve because you will no longer be psychologically wrapped in her world. By discovering your passion, you start to think for yourself, define yourself, and know yourself.  That’s powerful because most people are lost and are looking to others to tell them whats cool or not (inherently not attractive).

Guys have it Wrong
Guys who want to learn how to talk to women typically think in reverse:  “What sort of topics do women find fascinating?  Should I study fashion, health, astrology so I know how to speak her language?  Let me go learn about those things!”  While learning that stuff could occasionally help you in your interactions, it could also make you a woman-appeasing maniac.  What does she like?  What does she want to talk about?  Let me talk about that!  While it is counter-intuitive, women want to hear what you find interesting.  They want a glimpse of your reality.  They want to be taken on an adventure.  When you make women your total focus, you can start to forget about who you are and what you stand for.

Discovering your passion
When I was a young kid, I used to love playing basketball during lunchtime at school.  I would buy and trade basketball cards.  I would play basketball video games and, of course, I would watch basketball on TV.  There wasn’t anyone else at the time who was more passionate about basketball as I was because I was living basketball.  And that’s the trick to discovering your passion: you must be living your passion somehow. While work and other things may have distracted you from interests, your passion is something you have somehow kept in touch.

An example: I know a few friends who are passionate about music.  They subscribe to music magazines, they follow their bands religiously, they download the latest music, and they go to concerts.  Are they living their passion?  Yes.  Even though they may not be playing music, they are actively involved with music, their passion.  They just don’t read, they ENGAGE in the content.  They talk to their friends about it, they blog about it, they tweet about it, they make plans to go buy the CD or go to the next concert.

Are you living your passion?
If you’re not sure if you’re living your passion, here are a few questions that might indicate a passion:

- If you had 10 million dollars, what would you do?  What would you spend your day doing?
- Was there a class you took that you loved the subject?
- What kind of books do you enjoy reading?
- Who are your role models, heroes, or people you want to be like?

Dormant and Changing Passions
So I mentioned earlier that things in our lives may have distracted us from our true passions.  Work, family, other responsibilities often force us to spend less time doing things we truly love.  Look to your past or even your present.  Are there topics, hobbies, or activities that always light you up, or spark your interest?  If so, those might be indicators of passions that you haven’t developed yet.  Also, remember this: Passions change.  Today I don’t play basketball as much as I used to and that’s OK.  I have changed as a person so it’s natural my passions have changed.

Uh…What again does this have to do with women?
To best way to illustrate how passion helps you on your quest to meet amazing women, let’s take an example of Bob, the farmer. While farming may not be the most attractive profession out there (no offense to any farmers out there right now), Bob is passionate about farming.  He lives it, breathes it, and eats it (literally, he eats his produce).  Yup, that’s how much he likes farming.  Now Bob is a lonely dude, who doesn’t get many dates.  He’s determine to meet some fine ladies so he goes out there learns some Mystery Method.  For the next four months, Bob goes out clubbing.  He gets a pair of sparkling overalls, drives a red convertible tractor, and asks girls “Who lies more, men, women, or hogs?”  When women ask Bob what he does for a living, he tells them he’s in a band or he’s a doctor.  They can obviously tell he’s lying.  Now I commend Bob for pushing his comfort zone and going out there and trying something new, but Bob’s results are horrible. He’s forced into an environment where he doesn’t shine, where he talks to women about fashion or some other topics that doesn’t really interest him.  After 4 months, Bob gives up.

What should have Bob done?
Bob should have remembered these 2 important rules:

* Rule #1:  Follow your passion.  It’s fun, it’s unapologetically you, it’s in your DNA.
* Rule #2:  Self-acceptance before self-improvement.  While it’s OK to improve yourself, first accept yourself with all your likes and dislikes and strengths and flaws.

Bob should have followed his passion for farming and accepted that he was a farmer.  Not just a farmer, a badass sexy farmer. He could have made farming sexy, instead of being embarrassed by his natural interest in it.  How can you make farming sexy, you ask?

Since Bob loves farming so much, he could have invited all the local farmers to a Largest Vegetable Contest.  By doing that, he could become a leader in the community and women (and men) would admire that.  His popularity would increase.  The women in attendance would have the same interest as Bob, making conversations more fun for Bob and the women.  Bob also could have joined the Farmers Organization Group that meets twice a month.  His passion for farming would shine in that group and whether he met women or not, he would make some really good friends who might invite him out to parties where other women folk might be at.  Bob also could have taken Farming classes at the local college near him.  There would be tons of girls there.  In the end, he could accept himself, blue overalls and have tons of fun.

So what’s your passion?  Use the comment box below to brainstorm or talk about your lack thereof.

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You may have noticed a lot of pushy guys try to con a woman into giving him her number or force his business card on her. If they get the number, they win. If not, they lose. That is why people have a bad reaction to men hitting on women. Women are very savvy to this.

As soon as women feel manipulated or pressured, they will pull away and ignore you. You may or may not be very intuitive and receptive to women’s signals, but this will help you become more conscious of it, which will make life and dealing with women much easier for you.

Below is a scale called the Attract-O-Meter. On the left side is Aggressive and on the right side is Passive. Most men fall into the “Passive” category.

{ ______________ I __________________}
Aggressive                                                             Passive

Being passive is tragic, because if you are a passive pushover, you rarely increase the sexual tension and ask women to take the next step, thus robbing them of the experience to be with you. At the same time, you dont want to push women away by being too aggressive. The higher quality women will not tolerate this type of behavior and will walk away.

In the Pillars of Concrete Connections Workshop you get to practice being sexually forward with beautiful women who will give you feedback.

During the workshop we encourage you to be aggressive so you can see just how far to take things. You would be amazed just how aggressive you can be if you are connected to her and picking up on her sexual cues. I have walked up to women and starting making out with them without saying a word numerous times. A gorgeous woman I met in a bar demanded that I take her home to bed after knowing her for five minutes!  I’m not saying this to brag but simply to illustrate what’s possible.  You have more permission than you think you have if you can handle sexual tension. And I’d rather you experience this in the safety of the workshop so you can really push your limits. Because out in the world, you may get a drink thrown in your face or you may get yelled at.

Now, if you are not so bold with people that they occasionally confuse you with an aggressive pushy guy, you are playing it too safe. As a man, you’ve got permission to be upfront with your intentions if you don’t apologize for it.  That doesn’t mean you have to say anything, it’s more of the energy your exuding.  This is different then being attached. Once you get attached, they may pull away. Now, knowing what to do after they pull away is what separates the men from the boys. In fact, many women will intentionally pull away to “test” you to see just how badly you want them.

If you are not willing to fight for them or stick around when things get intense, how can they trust you? Here is the secret: when you start to get attached, simply admit it by calling it out with a smile. “Im feeling a little bit pushy, but how can you blame me? Look at yourself, how can you not expect me to be turned on?” Just by saying it, you can let it go.

At any given time, the woman you are interacting with may be directing her energy toward you or pulling away from you. Dont worry if she is pulling away from you a little bit. As I said before, she may be testing you, and if a woman does not test you, she is not interested. Women fall in love through resistance, and she has to test you to see if she can trust you with her emotions. If she leans away and every time you come crawling back begging and pleading with her to not be upset or angry with you, she will feel smothered and run.

It is okay to stand your ground, even if she is angry with you. Give her the gift of being angry and allow her to experience her emotions; they will pass quickly if you stop resisting them. Rub your hands together until they get hot and then move them so they are six inches apart. Can you still feel the connection between your hands? That’s like the connection between you and a woman. As your connection gets stronger, they will lean in to the point where your fingertips are touching, and then you may say something to trigger them or they will test you and lean away. You never know, but instead of playing tug-of-war with her, you dance with the sexual tension.

How you respond to her energetic lean away and tests will determine how successful you are with women. Unless you have a really strong lean in, do not ask them to take the next step with you!

In other words, the only time you ask her to take the next step with you, whether that be kissing her, getting her number, asking for a date—make sure you have a strong lean in. When the moment is right and she is leaning in, that is when you go for the kiss.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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Most people have a very difficult time making decisions.  Sometimes these decisions aren’t that important like a choosing between going to Knotts Berry Farm or Disneyland. But other times, they are hard, like choosing between giving your dieing uncle a kidney or not. Do you wanna know how to make every decision easy?  Trust your gut and GO WITH IT! Let me throw out some scenarios where being wishy washy and sitting on the fence hurts you.

1. Career Choice: What if you don’t know what you want to do with your life? Maybe you are about to graduate college and you need to find a job to make some money and satisfy your nagging parents who just spent $100,000 to put you through school. If you don’t know what you want to do for a career, your best bet is not picking some mediocre job to pay the bills because it will probably suck all your time away. You should choose something that allows you the flexibility to find out what you really want to do, and make a smooth transition into it. Its really not that hard.

2. On a date: Women don’t like guys who can’t make a decision. It shows you are an approval seeking wussy without a backbone. She would rather you pick a mediocre restaurant and go with it then drive around asking her “what are you in the mood for?” I know this because I used to do it all the time. Can you think of other scenarios in a relationship or with meeting women where you need to make decisions quickly? I can think of tons.

3. Sports (On the golf course): What if you are between clubs on a watery 178 yard par 3 and don’t know whether to hit an easy 5 iron or a hard 6 iron. You can stand up on the tee and think about how you might have the wrong club during your backswing and dunk one in the pond or just pick the hard 6, commit to it, and probably hit a good shot. If you hit it short in the water, you may be wet, but at least you’re not an indecisive wimp.

4. In Business: What if you are deciding whether or not to invest some money alongside your friend in some real estate venture or buy a house of your own. You could tell your friend that you need to review the documents you don’t really understand and not get around to doing it for weeks which would really piss your friend off, or you could be honest with yourself and either say no, yes, or have a professional review them for you. If you are deciding on a property to buy, you could look around for a year and waste 20,000 on rent because you couldn’t pick a place, or you could have put that 20,000 toward your mortgage on a place that maybe isn’t the best deal in the world but at least you didn’t squander 20K.

I could continue on with more examples but I hope you are getting the point here. MAKE A DECISION, EVEN IF IT IS WRONG! Not only do other people appreciate someone who doesn’t waste their time but it actually helps your self esteem and inner confidence more then you may realize. When you make a decision, you grow as a person because you are accomplishing something.

Time is our most precious resources because it is the only resource we can’t get back.  If you sit on the fence for awhile then make a decision, you have lost those 3 months, and you’ll never get it back.  The worst decision is always the decision to not make a decision.

So try this out, go a week or even just a day without being indecisive and see how it makes you feel. Let me know your results and if you have a really tough decision to make, post a comment and I’ll give you my two cents.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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Another great tool for having fun flirty conversations is Banter. I first learned this from Lance Mason and it’s an amazing tool.  Below is a compilation of Banter Lines. Instead of memorizing a bunch of random lines, it is much easier, more fun and generates more attraction to use them in the form of a role play described below. Keep in mind, these lines will not work unless you deliver them with the right tone and energy. Its not the lines, its how you say it.

Boyfriend Girlfriend / Married Couple Routines

1.”I was gonna kidnap you to vegas and get us married by elvis, but
nevermind..:)”
2.I’m too high maintenance for you.
3.Careful girl, I’m a heartbreak waiting to happen.
4.Well, It wouldn’t work between us. It’s just not possible. We’d get along
TOO well and the sex would be TOO good.
5.”ok were broken up. i want my cds back”
6.I’m so out of your league
7.Don’t get your hopes up. I’m not easy.
8.”THATS IT! I WANT A DIVORCE! I’m taking the HOUSE and the CAR! You can get the kids”
9.that’s it, im breaking up with you! it is so over. i’m sorry im just a needy
guy and im not getting enough attention.
10.”you are the worst girl friend EVER!” “i feel like i dont even know you
anymore!”
11.Hey! I’m not just some trophy husband you can use for sex! I have feelings
too, you know!
12.”you’re sleeping on the couch tonight!”
13.You: We’re too much a like. We’d never get along
Her: Why?
You: Because we’d never have anything significant to argue about. So we’d
have to make
up petty little things to fight about… And I’d always win.
Her: No you wouldn’t
You: Yes I would
Her: No
You: You see, we’re arguing right now… And you started it
Her: No I didn’t. You did
You: OMG, just let it go. If you’re going to keep acting like this, I will
so have to break up
with you
You: Do you want to have an argument?
Her: No
You: Yes you do

Bratty Little Sister

1.We would never get along, you are like my cute bratty little sister.
2.I’ll beat up the boys that make you cry and you can tell me which of your little friends think I’m cute. We will go out and you can help me pick up chicks
3.You must’ve driven your parents crazy.
4.”This is the LAST time I let you out unsupervised”
5.You seem very poke able”. Poke her. If you want to do a take away, say
something like “Eh, maybe a little.” ALSO “Your hair seems very pullable/yankable”

Hired Gun

Her: Can I help you?
You: Yeah, I need a back rub and a warm bath
You: So what do they pay you here, like $10,000 a week?
Her: No
You: Oh, that’s too bad. I was going to ask you out. But I’m looking for a
rich girl.
Her: Have a nice day.
You: Hey, don’t tell me what to do. I’ve known you five minutes and you’re
already trying
to control me!

Stop Falling In Love with Me!

1.Did you come over here just to flirt with me. My mother warned me about girls like you.
2.I don’t think my girlfriend would like it that you’re hitting on me.
3.”Stop undressing me with your eyes”
4.”Yeah right, you’re totally going to write about me in your diary tonight.
It’s going to be all like…”
(said in a girly voice) “DEAR DIARY, I MET THIS TOTALLY CUTE GUY NAMED TODAY, HE’S REALLY COOL AND SMART AND FUNNY, AND I HOPE HE LIKES ME BECAUSEI TOTALLY LIKE HIM! BUT I CAN’T TELL ANYONE BECAUSE BOYS HAVE COOTIES! HEART SMILEY FACE
!”Cue the laughing & arm-punching.
5.Stop trying to impress me
6.Stop trying to make me jealous (whenever talking about other guys)
7.Are you always like this, or just with guys you’re attracted to?
8.You better be getting back to your friends before they realize you’re over
here flirting with me. But before you go… (awesome time constraint)
9.I’m not gonna go back to your house to “[finger quotes] check out your
stereo” or your “stamp collection” or whatever. I need trust, comfort, and connection first.
10. You’re either the coolest girl I’ve met in a long time, or you’re a total
weirdo, I can’t tell. Probably a little bit of both.

Random routines/lines

1. Get a digital camera and have a “photo shoot”: one smiling, one looking tough, and one with her kissing you on the cheek. Afterwards say “we make a great couple don’t we?” if she agrees, you’re in.

2. Embarrassment Contest
Have an embarrassment contest with her. This work’s best if you’re both not
shy, but you’re even less shy. “I bet I can embarrass you more than you can embarrass
me”. Go up to random girls and say, “My friend thinks you’re pretty, she’s a little
shy, but she wants to meet you.” Start introducing her to random people as your wife, who’s
pregnant. “Want to feel the baby?”. This is pretty limitless. Get creative and crazy.
This work’s best if you’re both not shy, but you’re even less shy. “I bet I can embarrass
you more than you can embarrass me”. ” this one is gold, I swear!

I did it with a girl and you really build up a connection
I used this:
I took her close to a group and started screaming:
” No woman! I don’t want to have sex with you in the bathroom, is it all you
ever do? Relationships are also about love you know…..”
Then I walked away, she was really embarrassed but she laughed about it later.

Blowouts

1.”Ah I’m sorry! I totally skipped the part where I was supposed to impress you.”
2.You are just like one of those mean girls from high school that used to pick on me!
3.If she’s busting on you: “”Damn, it’s a good thing I have such high self
esteem. That could’ve really hurt my feelings.”
4.Or if you showed already a cocky funny attitude:
“Oh my god! As if my self esteem wasn’t low enough already!”
5.If a girl acts grumpy, tell her “you know if you were a Smurf you would be
grumpy Smurf.”
6.If a girl tells you ‘I will talk to you later’ I respond with “don’t
threaten me!”
7.”There is nothing about you a complete personality change couldn’t fix.”
8.If she says something to hurt my feelings. “WHY MUST YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL LIKE THIS!?”

Please help me add to this collection, post a comment below with your favorite banter line or routine.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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What if I told you that I could flirt with a girl for 5 minutes plus without her even saying a single word? You would probably think that I’m full of shit but I can and I’m gonna show you how. First off, there is no reason why you would ever need to flirt for 5 minutes or even 2 minutes for that matter if a girl is saying nothing back. If she isn’t saying anything back, she is either completely not interested, or she is laughing to hard to speak. My girlfriend loves when I do this to her. Its really funny, she tells me to pretend like I don’t know her, walk into the room and flirt with her.

OK Robbie, what is this amazing technique?!?!

It’s what I like to call “Flirty Direct.” and its just 1 of 7 different forms of flirting styles that I teach.  Not all techniques will work for everyone because everyone has their own sense of humor and way of communicating.  But in a couple weeks I’ll be releasing an audio program that teaches all 7 in detail so you can pick the one that matches your personality best and perfect it.

‘Flirty Direct’ is basically exactly what it sounds like.  You are showing interest in her in a fun/flirty way and the mindset to have is that you are a victim of her seduction.  What I do, is immediately reprimand her for looking too fucking cute and tell her that she is ruining my day. For example girl walking down the street:

Me: You know I really don’t appreciate what is going on over here.

Her: ??? Huh, what do you mean?

Me: I’m just a nice guy trying to enjoy my day and mind my own business but you had to come over here looking all fucking cuteand ruin everything for me. I mean seriously, how am I supposed to concentrate with these sorts of distractions! ))))))

(The key here is to over exaggerate A LOT! If you don’t, you will look really weird.)

Her: HAHAHAHA I’m sorry

Me: Yeah you better be! I wasn’t prepared for this at all. My dog ate my guide to flirting book and I have nothing. I have absolutely no game at all, and I can’t even get it up!

Her: HAHAHAHAHA

Me: But, I do like romance novels, long walks on the beach, ponies, unicorns and rainbows.

Her: HAHAHA

Me: So you are just gonna sit there and laugh, you are very evil, do you enjoy inflicting this sort of pain on people?

I good literally go on all day. Its a simple formula, call out the elephant in the room which creates humor, then just accuse her of being a seductress and manipulating you. In the example I gave above, she really doesn’t have to say anything and I can just go on all day, but that would never be necessary. I challenge you to send me a scenario that would not work using this model.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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