@Eric Disco
Thanks Eric. I’ve witnessed some of that stuff first hand… pure gold! Glad you are posting again!

Excellent post. I totally agree. I tend to use a few things over and over and it’s the stuff that I came up with myself that has the best effect and is the most fun for me.

That’s why it’s good to understand the rules behind the banter so you can come up with your own banter.

It’s also good to remember what works for you and explore a lot of situations with many different women, not just ones that you are super attracted to. Some of the best stuff I’ve come up with has been just bantering with women when I really didn’t care about the outcome.

Eric

@Einar, that’s awesome keep it up.

@Dave, what about shame?

And just to clarify, it’s not that I don’t have embarrassing situations – there are plenty since I feel embarrassed so easily. It’s just that right now, I can’t remember any.

You know what’s funny? I get embarrassed pretty easily and live my life to avoid embarrassing situations.

At this moment, I have a hard time recalling even one! Irony!

Hi,
good post. It’s true most guys don’t realise how important it is to practise in a less challenging environment and get used to the mindset and “feel” of handling things differently.

It’s one of my biggest challenges with my clients to get them to see how useful it is to practise in all the common situations in everyday life.

Anyway. Good post,
Stephan

I sent a recording of myself trying to hit really high notes to my vocal teacher, Dave(yes our Dave) the friend that got me into singing and my parents. I was doing movement at the time and listening to music. I decided to just go for with it from that place and to try out a new breathing/placement technique for singing I found out in a book.
When I listened to it I thought it was wonderful although not perfect and was in awe so I sent it.
Next day I listened to it and was completely embarrassed.
I found out I’m getting closer to those high A5 without yelling which hurt my throat in the past.

Glad you guys enjoyed the post. Thanks for the support.

You didn’t just kill it – this is straight Dexter-ish murder.

And once again, you read my (full of shit) mind (that thinks of farts. Does that make you a shit-reader? But I digress…)

Style (yeah, that Style) had me write a bunch of qualities I wanted in a girl once. The purpose for that is to use it for negs/qualifying/pebbles etc. (aka techniques). Not sure what I did with that list but I’m sure a lot of what I am looking for has changed since. While not focusing on the techniques, maybe this is an exercise I need to do again, but then I know it isn’t a straight forward cerebral exercise.

It seems to me that a lot of PU techniques seem to focus on woo-girls*, who can be fun at times. They’re sometimes so hot (or maybe I’m so desperate) that I forget what I’m looking for. Then they either smell it and run away or something in me gets annoyed and says fuck it.

*See HIMYM Season 4 episode 8