This post is all about creating a system for success to meet and attract women.  Do you go into conversations with attractive women completely blind and clueless? If so, your results are probably less than stellar.  But sadly, this is the case for about 99.9% of men.  If you are not in the .1%, don’t feel bad you have lots of company and you are in the right place if you want to make the leap toward success.

I’ve always been fascinated by the power of persuasion.  Getting others to do what you want is a pretty powerful skill to have but with great power comes great responsibility.  Are you going to con people and manipulate them into doing something that will affect them negatively or will you use it to create win/win situations to impove your life and the lives of those around you?  The tools are pretty much same, but please use caution…

So what are they, Robbie?  Let me give you quick background.

I started working in sales for a venture capital firm when I graduated from UC San Diego.  My job was to raise large sums of money for high risk/high yield investments.  I basically knew nothing about the product (investments) I was selling but sold a ton of them because I believed in it and my network really trusted me.  The problem was that I always felt very uncomfortable on the phone because I wasn’t sure what to say, how to say it, or how to react to people’s questions, etc… So I started to study sales.  It was fascinating and a lot of fun and I got really good at it.  I noticed that there are a ton of similarities between selling a product and selling yourself.  In fact, in order for anyone to buy a product from you, they have to first be sold on you.  If not, they will go buy it from someone else.  I started studying from the best sales experts in the world and adopting their systems and strategies.  I improved little by little and eventually I developed my own personal style and system that worked much better.  The same exact thing happened when I started studying attraction and how to meet women.  I had trouble getting other people’s methods to work for me and I felt like a phony using canned material and systems created by someone else.  So I said screw it and made up my own.  Did it work, HELL YEAH it worked and it improved my results drastically. Do you want to know what it is?

If you want to know what it is, you are asking the wrong question!  MY SYSTEM WILL NOT WORK FOR YOU! Why?  Because it’s MY system, not yours.  That is why I created a system to help you design YOUR OWN system.  Cool huh!?  I walk men through this step by step process in my free 2 hour seminar “Be Yourself, Have Fun & Attract A Ton of Amazing Women Into Your Life.” so if you are in LA, sign up!

I’m also going to be doing a live tele-seminar soon for the guys who can’t make it to LA so keep a heads up for that.  But let me give you a little taste to help you get started.

Here is the first step:

Take a look at what you are currently doing.  Do you have a system?  Your damn well right you do!!  Everyone has a system whether they are aware of it or not and some systems work so poorly that you would never bother labeling it a system.  The average dude’s system is to engage a woman in conversation by making some ‘chodeball’ obvious comment that she’s heard a gazillion times.  “Wow, its really crowded in here, huh?”  “You out with your friends tonight?”  “Cool place, huh?”  LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME LAME did I mention….. LAME? The next thing they do is ask a douchey interview style question.  “You from around here?”  “So where do you work?”  Also lame.  That system will even be dysfunctional for a guy who looks like Brad Pitt.  It pretty much shows you aren’t original and have no personality.  If you are guilty of this behavior, don’t sweat it, you didn’t know any better an no one ever taught you until now!   It doesn’t mean you are a douche or chodeball, it just means you don’t have a functional system for bringing out the awesome personality you have that only closest friends get to see.  So pat yourself on the back for finding this information because most guys will never have a clue.  What I’m saying is, notice your patterns and how you typically operate.  Think about the last really successful interaction you had with a woman.  How did it go?  What happened?  What sort of things did you say or do that you seem to say or do every time?  These are the steps to uncovering the current system you are using and pinpointing the parts that work and don’t work.

Your assignment is to post a comment below and explain your system and why or why not it’s working for you. If you skip this step, the others will not work and it is the foundation for everything else.   And like I said, I map this out in detail at my free workshop.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer

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