You ever notice the guy that is clearly “sharking” through the room looking for his next “target” girl to hit on?  Well chances are that if you are a guy reading this and you have noticed it happening, then women noticed it 10 times earlier then you.  Face it guys, when it comes to social dynamics and picking up on subtle shifts in energy, women have a serious leg up on you.  While we were out on the soccer feild at recess they were talking about social stuff so without years and year of training, you have no shot.  Fortunately for you, Brian and I have had years and years of training so we can break it all down.

So what if you are THAT GUY who is sharking around?  Don’t worry about it, i’ve been that guy MANY times in the past.  Sometimes it even worked out for me, but that was rare.  Think of the coolest guys in the bar or club, what is their demeanor like?  Chances are they are chilling and just being open, social and friendly.  Well what if you don’t have cool friends or friends to go out with at all?  Then you should start meeting them right then and there.  STOP sharking and looking for women and START talking to EVERYONE!  Becoming naturally attractive is not a quick fix, there is no technique.  Its a muscle you have to build, just like weightlifting.  You can make progress in the short term but you can’t get big in a day, you can’t get big in a weekend, and you can’t even get big in a week.  It will take AT LEAST a month if not 90 days to see dramatic results.  To build your social muscle you must start exercising it…

Practice simply making eye contact with strangers if that is tough for you.  If you look a little too long at a guy and it gets intense, just say, sorry I thought you were an old friend   Start talking to strangers, just say hi, ask for the time, ask for directions.  I DONT CARE HOW GOOD YOU ARE!  I constantly remind myself to be social and do these types of exercises because its so easy to fall back into the abyss of everyday life, people walking around in their anti social bubbles of ipods and earphones.

What i’m saying is, STEP INTO TENSION.  Learning the art of managing tension is the single most important thing you need to become powerfully attractive to women.  Think of your “managing tension muscle” as the “biceps of weightlifting.”  We broke it down for you in the two videos on our main site, check out the video HERE and download our mini-ebook on “Top 1o Mistakes Men Make While Trying to Improve Their Situation With Women.”  The following page features the second part of the video and will teach you all about managing tension and what you need to do right now to master it.  Above all, don’t forget to have fun!

-Robbie

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