Meet Matthew Vaughn, he’s Claudia Schiffer’s Husband.

She is pregnant in this picture but we all know that her body is insane otherwise!

So how does a guy who looks like that get a girl like her?

Most men would say “It’s because he’s rich! Duh!”  Do you think Claudia needs anymore money?  I think she’s doing quite well on her own and doesn’t have much need to go gold digging.

I’ve never met the guy but just by looking at this picture, you can tell he’s probably not the funniest guy in the world.

So we know that it’s not his looks, it’s not his money, it’s not his sense of humor, so what is it?!

He is GROUNDED!

The best way to describe what being grounded is, is to describe what being grounded isn’t. Being grounded is not: being in your head thinking, nervous laughter, awkward gestures, nervous tics, twitches, fidgety hands, apologetic language, darting eyes, and being a pussy.  Somebody who is NOT grounded is filled with anxiety and nervousness.

A grounded man is calm, cool, collected and swiftly and easily deals with any situation or curve ball that life throws at him.  When you are grounded, you are literally plugged into everything happening around you.

Your awareness and vision turns on and you can see things happening in slow motion.

All amazing athletes are grounded. Being grounded is Brett Favre’s ability to stay calm and centered and throw perfect passes from the pocket while a horde of 300 pound men are clamoring and clawing to knock his ass down.

A grounded man can handle himself in the board room.

He knows how to deal with the tough questions while other men get flustered and loose their cool.

Do you think he makes more money?  You bet!

Who would you want running your business, someone who is going to freak out when things get crazy or someone who is going to stay calm and take the necessary action steps to get things in order?  I’d pay guy #2 the big bucks!

When it comes to women, grounded men can play with sexual tension which is the key to turning women on.  If you are grounded, you can deal with tension and even use it to your advantage.

If you are nervous, all you’ll create is nervous tension and women will run away.

How do you get grounded?  You put yourself in uncomfortable situations and you learn to deal with them.  You cannot become grounded by reading a book or watching a dvd.

My advice is to get out of the house or office and do something today that pushes your comfort zone.  It could be anything.

An opportunity will present itself and you will think, “Is this it?”  The answer is YES, take action or you will regret it!

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer