Brian and I just finished an exhausting but fun weekend at this years PUA Summit.  The theme was transitioning to sex and we gave a 45 minute talk on the subject.  The other speakers included David Wygant, Adam Lyons, Brad P, Johnny Wolf, Vince Kelvin, Daxx, Kosmo, Adonis, DJ Fuji, Speer, Daniel Rose, Mehow, Asain Playboy, and a couple others I’m probably forgetting.

In recap, the most commonly talked about concept was logistics.  Logistics – meaning the type of logistical things you need to do to make a smooth transition from the bar stool back to the bedroom.  Logistics are important but in my opinion, not what the students should have been focusing on.  Lets face it, if you’re attending a PUA Summit, you’re probably not getting laid very often.  My guess would be that no more then 25% of the audience was getting laid on a regular basis (1/month).  And if you’re not getting laid, the problem is not logistics, the problem is attraction.  I’m starting to see a trend in guys coming into the community.  It happened to me, it happened to Brian, and it is probably happening to you.  At first, you are enamored with the idea that you can actually learn to be attractive.  Gurus offer their latest and greatest routines, techniques, fool proof methods, tactics and tricks that seem like the coolest thing you’ve ever heard of.  You go out and try this stuff for a few weeks, have virtually no success but decide that your problem is that you didn’t do enough approaches.  WRONG!  Or maybe, you decide that you have too much approach anxiety and never even try out the methods, but you talk a lot about them and theorize on the local forums and discussion boards.  Maybe you find some wingmen who you stand around with and talk about game in the club.  90% of the guys that go down this road quit in less then 3 months.  But why?…

Because you are getting suckered in by a bunch of GIMMICKS!!!  There is no such thing as a fool proof attraction routine. Every woman is different.  YOU CAN’T GET EVERY GIRL!  Nor should you try to.  If you really want to get good with the opposite sex, you’re gonna have to put in the effort.  And you’re gonna need some guidance.  The only surefire way of being successful in this endeavor is to follow this formula.

Be Unstoppable & Get Support

Otherwise, you will fail.  Simple as that.  Stop looking for the easy way out and give yourself at least a year to improve.  And as David Wygant said at the Summit, don’t be a PickUp Asshole (PUA).

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