Adam V – Photographer, Los Angeles, CA

Sergio Laff – Student, San Diego, CA

Gary Konieczny – Realtor, Fresno, CA

Eli Naim – Entrepreneur, New York, NY

Cameron Harris – Engineer, Los Angeles, CA

Eric – Consultant, Chicago, IL

Eric Schleien, Co-Founder/Director of Development at RevoluTimes

I did one workshop with Robbie a few years ago. His stuff is great. As someone with a background in personal development I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t work and unfortunately in the relationship coaching world, many of the relationship coaches are very ineffective and are all about using inauthentic techniques and tricks. Robbie’s ability to work with people and really get to the heart of the matter with what people are dealing with has made a difference for a lot of people and I have seen that first hand. Whether it was working with someone like me who already had a pretty abundant dating life where he could coach me on seeing blind spots and ways to take my dating life and what I was up to in the world to the next level, I have also seen him work with people whose dating life is nonexistent or with men who simply so in the way of themselves, they have trouble simply emotionally connecting with women. I would HIGHLY recommend Robbie as a dating coach for anyone who wants to take their quality of relationships to the next level or who might be struggling with something where their relationships are just TOTALLY NOT WORKING. Whoever you are, Robbie can handle you and make a difference in your life. He is an amazing human being and someone I’m proud to throw my name and support behind.

John E.– Banker, New York, NY

I started working with Inner Confidence because I wanted to learn how to be “in the zone” so I could approach women without hesitancy or fear and have more natural and fun interactions. My experience was incredible. The personal attention given to each of us and our own specific sticking points was great. It was like having your very own team of personal coaches. I learned a great deal about myself. I am able to recognize when I am over-thinking and how to correct that on the fly. Since the workshop, I found it easier to approach women on the street and I don’t feel the hesitancy and reluctance that I used to.

Gary K.– Realtor, Fresno, CA

I just got back from the bootcamp w/ Robbie @ Inner Confidence. Man, am I glad I went and stayed the whole time. I learned some VERY valuable stuff but my biggest take-away was how to stop thinking so much!

It worked all the way from opener to trying to get 2 of 4 british girls to take me home with them and everything in between.  I had HUGE Approach Anxiety and I’ve gone on 3 bootcamps and could never get over it. Every time I got stuck in my head, Robbie would say “Use the formula,” and guess what? It freaking worked!

Now life is easy. Who would have thought you could just speak your mind and do great with beautiful women?!

I used to be a banter machine. But I never told anyone what I wanted or how I felt and never really connected to them and it usually didnt go anywhere.  I can’t recommend this thing enough to people who are stuck inside their heads. I think it would benefit anyone really but I had a couple MAJOR breakthroughs this weekend and I realized that I wont ever be happy no matter how many women I “nail” because I was after them for the wrong reason.

Now, Im not afraid of girls and I WANT to build a connection with people.

Oh yah. There was probably about 2 hours MAX of actual instruction/theory. Everything else was either drills with GORGEOUS women that scared the bajeezus out of me or in field.  I’m trying to figure out a way to get some money to do some kind of advanced program with him. It’s THAT good and this style fits me as it’s true to my heart and not some “flash game” crap or lines that I have to memorize and feel like a weirdo for saying.

Anyone who wants to not have to actually “game” should check him out.

Thanks again Robbie!

Kevin T.-  Engineer, New York, NY

I would just like to thank Inner Confidence, especially Robbie, for helping me improve my life. I started coaching with Robbie back at the end of 2009, because I was really frustrated with myself.  I was so lacking in confidence I would continuously beat myself up, which just re-enforced the attitudes.

Robbie helped me finally get out of my PUA mentality, which was really holding me back.

Thank you, Inner Confidence!

Eric – New York, NY

After working with Robbie at Inner Confidence, I’ve been a lot more confident and really asking for what I want. I had a girl I hardly knew (just from class) tell me today, I should call her sometime, slept with a beautiful girl a few days ago, and had another girl who I’ve only hung out with twice ask me if I was single and if I dated a lot! This isn’t to brag it’s to say this stuff really works if you put your mind to it and commit to getting the results!

Cameron M.– Glasgow, UK

I flew over to LA to take a workshop with Robbie. It was awesome. While I was there I got some coaching from Robbie in field at a couple of bars on The Strip (even the famous Saddle Ranch). What struck me was how incredibly simple and effective his coaching was. He would grab my attention and kinda do this exaggeratted super slouch and make fun of me, and I’d be like “Oh, fuck I’m slouching” and I’d stand up straight and get a much better reaction straight away. Or he’d be like “Dude, your not touching anyone” and I’d do it and the way people would respond to me would change instantly. Thats kinda a theme of Robbies coaching, he has this knack for pointing out the areas that would make the biggest difference for you (and often you don’t know about it until he told you).

Peter A.- Seattle, WA

I have read AND TRIED nearly every pickup tactic under the sun and I must say that Robbie’s latest teachings have helped me more than anything.

I can attest to Robbie’s advice. I’ve been doing cold approaches consistently and I have noticed a distinct trend: Every time an interaction went well, it was because I was open and honest about the situation and my emotions. Every time an interaction didn’t go so well, it was because I was trying to posture and “plow through” the awkwardness.

If you call out the pink elephant in the room, women will RESPECT YOU for being authentic. Respect is a critical concept that is overlooked in the pickup world but I believe that it is the foundation that a woman’s attraction to a man is built on.

Nathan S.- Detroit, MI

“I don’t know whats with you Robbie, but seems like every time we talk I end up meeting an amazing girl.”

George S.- Artist, Los Angeles, CA

Robbie,

Ive been meaning to write this letter for a while, and i didn’t want to write it until it actually meant something to me to write it.. I want to sincerely thank you both from the bottom of my heart for everything you two have done for me..

Over the past two years you have helped me come out of my shell, in almost every aspect of my life.. i started off as a boy who couldn’t see two inches outside of my own mind, was completely unaware of anything having to do with people, real connection, and the world we live in for that matter, and worst of all i had absolutely no real sense of my purpose for being.. You helped me move from that to being a man, who knows exactly what i want in life, knowing how to get it, how to not give two shits if i fall, to have the courage to actually pursue it, and how to meet hot chicks along the way.. i absolutely love every single second of it!

I am now the man Ive always wanted to be.. Its now a reality for me.. Everything I’ve ever wanted in this life is within reach and currently falling into place.. and I will damn sure get it all! I am now on a path that lets me wake up every morning with a smile on my face.. every day my paint brush hits my canvas, i walk proudly, and i get a smile from a pretty woman.. there are definitely rough times.. but I now welcome those too.

All this time I’ve spent working with you, will be an experience I will never forget, and I cant wait to see what happens next.. Now maybe this has gotten a bit campy.. but I’m in touch with all my sensitive feelings and what not now.. so I’m going with it…

But really, thank you for everything!

Einar C.- Engineer, Costa Mesa, CA

I’ve been working with Inner Confidence since February 2010. I had a long way to go. I came to America from Venezuela with the purpose of meeting the PUA community and I must say I was creeped out and quite disappointed once I personally met some of the Gurus and went deeper into their teachings. I started my journey with David DeAngelo and his Cocky and Funny, 6 years ago. From his videos I met Mystery, Neil Strauss, Sean Stevenson, Tyler Durden, Dr. Paul Dobransky and some more. Those videos got me a couple of dates but that was about it. There was something at a deeper level I needed to deal with. I remember coming to Inner Confidence free workshop with a lot of doubt and distrust in my head, that was after I started claiming to Robbie they were the same as other PUA services and that they only cared about the money. The first thing I did in the workshop was stand up and talk to an audience about my habit of staying home and not doing what I wanted to get to where I wanted to go. Basically I was running with sloth because I wasn’t having any fun that will motivate me to move forward. I signed up to their program that day.

As I’ve progressed I have also seen Robbie develop his teachings and give feedback to his students in many ways. Today I was thinking that, after all that I’ve learned (I’ve been researching, trying and experiencing a lot of things) Robbie has come to a point where he has thought about the learning process and getting to the objective from many angles and he has now forged a way of teaching this that is suited to every person. He makes it look simple, but most importantly he helps you find a way to make it fun for you so you get to where you want to go, fast.

The other day I was with Robbie and some classmates at a bar talking about self growth. I had the best piece of advice that I could finally hear and actually have it sink into my mind so I could use it as part of a conversation between Robbie and one of the guys:-”You don’t need to wait to be perfect to move forward with your life”- Said Robbie

A week later I met my current girlfriend. She couldn’t be more right for me. Let’s say that every time I talk to her I end up with a smile in my face. The day I met her I felt so good about myself because I just started going for what I really wanted.

What’s important to know is that you have to be ready to really listen. Once you’ve experienced the process you’ll know exactly what to do.

Brent – Engineer, Los Angeles, CA

I was hopeless with women. I went into the workshop not really knowing what to expect; I had been to similar workshops before but never really felt they worked for me. But, Robbie was really psyched about this one, so I figured I’d give it a shot…and I’m really glad I went! The biggest thing I got out of the workshop was an experience of making an emotional connection with other people. I’ve lived in my head my whole life, and was really surprised (in a good way) to have my first experience of a genuine emotional connection at 37 years of age. I can say it’s opened a whole new world of possibility for me, and I’m really excited to be able to learn to do this on my own outside the controlled tutorial environment of the workshop. I now have a much better understanding of exactly why some guys get all the girls, and others don’t…it’s really not about the “dating resume” – money, success, looks, etc. It’s also not about the pickup lines, or the “moves”, or any of the other stuff that most of the pickup/dating workshops focus on. Instead, it’s about inner confidence, and in hindsight now see that I’ve spent my life to build up my dating resume when in fact I should have been focusing on building my own inner confidence.

Neerav – Photographer, Los Angeles, CA

Robbie, I can’t thank you enough for the life changing experience and knowledge you have injected in my life.  I am not sure what has changed in me after that class but I am suddenly getting dates from the women I’m attracted to. I used to get No’s left right and center everyday.. Man this stuff def works!

Thank you. Thank You. Thank You….. continued million times

Sean S. – Student, Toronto, Canada

Hey Robbie!

Eric – Student, Buffalo, NY

I want to thank Robbie for forwarding my personal growth and development with my dating life.  I’ve gotten to a point now in my life where I’m actively dating and really enjoying myself no matter who I’m with and even if I decide to never call them again, I’m able to really enjoy myself the one or two times I go out with them. One of the biggest things I’ve gotten just from the conversations I’ve had with some brief video work I did with them, private conversations I’ve had with Robbie, and interacting with people on the Inner Confidence Forums is just being able to enjoy myself on dates and not take things so seriously. It’s heightened my awareness in seeing where I may have been trying to steer situations and has allowed provided me greater access in connecting with people. The other big thing I’ve gotten from this work is really being able to undo a lot of the habits I formed from reading pickup books and having my pickup artist phase which was just a way to overcompensate for me feeling incompetent with women and feeling that I needed to someone how go above and beyond doing ridiculous things not because I wanted to or because I had fun doing it but because I thought it was the only way for me to have a chance. The thing was that when I realized this approximately two years ago it was all compensation I still had a lot of the old habits in place and the pick up tricks would still get in my way from time to time. Through being in conversation with everyone whose part of Inner Confidence it’s really sped up my progression in not having these old habits even come back up for me and I can honestly say to myself today they really don’t much anymore. By having fun, I’ve also learned how to slow my pace down and while I still have incredibly high energy to be able to not be all ADD about it. So thank you from the bottom of my heart. It means a lot to me to have the opportunity to be able to participate with Inner Confidence and interact with everyone associated. I think it’s great the work that Robbie has developed and with time he’ll be helping more and more people and I just think that’s amazing. The people whose lives they’ve affected won’t just stop with the people they work with directly but also the friends of their clients. I have friends who have told me I’ve shifted the way they see women, dating, in general and it’s great to be able to contribute my insights and realizations here to share and contribute to others. Thanks a lot!

Sam – Lighting Technician, Los Angeles, CA

If you are On the fence about taking a dating workshop I would recommend you check these guys out. It goes right to the core of who you are and what’s going on with you emotionally in the area of romance. No funny names, no pick up routines no fake stories tricking women into liking you, just 100% real emotional connection and strengthening your inner confidence. This is the necessary evolution of so called pick up arts into something more meaningful and organic.

L.P. – Dentist, Santa Barbara, CA

I started to work with Robbie just a few months ago after completing workshops from two other companies. Their personal, one on one approach made me feel comfortable right away and I was convinced that their program will improve my skills, because instead of teaching me lines and tricks they helped me to improve my self-esteem and they were able to help me to convince myself that I can be the man I want to be. During their workshops I learned a lot about women and relationships, but I learned and understood more about myself than ever before through self and even professional analysis. One of the most important things I got out of the program is how to be confident and present around people general, but especially in the presence of attractive women. There is lot more work ahead for me and with three girlfriends it’s not easy, LOL.  After all I have to create a brand new life after my divorce and this I have to do myself. However with the guidance and support of these guys I am 100% sure that I will make it and having a great deal of fun on my way there too. Thanks guys! It is not an understatement that you guys changed my life forever.

Jay Leonard – Author of What I Wish I learned in School

Robbie Kramer teaches a program called Inner Confidence (innerconfidence.com).  He has dedicated his life to helping guys become skillful with women and maximizing their potential in this area.   One of his workshops  is purely about the approach, that first 90 seconds.  He takes approaching to a highly artistic level using interesting and fun techniques. However, he  emphasizes that it’s more about how you feel about yourself than what you say. If you are a guy who is what he calls “grounded” you can say just about anything because it’s your relaxed confident energy that is being communicated. His work is about helping guys get to that state. He also acknowledges that different things work for different guys based on their personalities. It has to feel right for you. His material is solid and useful, and it goes beyond the simple introduction and giving the girl your contact info.