It’s funny how we make things a lot more difficult then they have to be.  By we I mean men, and what I’m talking about specifically is approaching women.

Has something like this ever happened to you before:

You see a woman you find attractive.

You walk up to her and compliment her and then ask for her phone number or date.  It probably went something like this:

“Hey I just wanted to tell you that you are really beautiful, would you like to have coffee with me?”

She blows you off by either rolling her eyes, flat out saying no or says “Sorry I have a boyfriend.”

You walk away feeling deflated and a little stupid but at least you tried.  Better to walk away having tried then regretting would could have been, right?

I’ve been studying this stuff for a LONG time and during that time I approached thousands of women.  Hundreds of these approaches went Read more…

It was a bootcamp that I’ll never forget.

For the first time in over 4 years of coaching, I found an EASY way to teach guys how to confidently approach and attract women in a way that is simple, fun and honest.

On Friday, they learned that women are most attracted to confidence.  I’m a little embarrassed to say this, but I didn’t really know how to define the phrase “Inner Confidence” for quite some time, even though it’s the name of my company.

For the longest time, the meaning of confidence was just an idea or abstract concept I was trying to teach.

It’s not easy teaching something abstract because guess what, you can’t really teach it.

Before last weekend, some guys would walk into my programs and get it and others would walk away a little bit confused.

But then it hit me like a ton of bricks.
I can’t remember what I was doing on the night about 3 weeks ago, but the exact formula for confidence and success with women just popped in my head.  I called one my clients and ran the formula by him.

We spent about 2 hours on the phone and went over every possible scenario trying to prove the formula wrong.  But we couldn’t do it.  I knew I was on to something.  I tested it in field and it worked amazingly well, the only thing left to do was find out how easy it would be to teach.

Turns out, it was even easier then I expected.  When I explained the formula to the guys on Friday afternoon of the bootcamp I could see their heads popping.  They were saying things like Read more…

This post is by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety.

The video below (safe for work) is probably one of the scariest things I’ve ever seen. Fresh out of one of my nightmares.

It shows what it’s like to climb to the top of a 1700 foot tower–with no safety lines.

If you had the opportunity, would you climb the 1700 foot tower in the video? Some of you would do it because have balls the size of Texas (or are extremely stupid). But most of you probably would not do it.

That’s your fear acting in a good way.

It’s same fear is trying to keep you alive when you go to talk to women. It’s a remnant of your primal brain telling you to stay alive Read more…

Have you been approaching women but not getting the results you want because you have too much anxiety?

Then read on!

There is a tragic mistake men make over and over when they approach women.

I did it for years without even realizing it.

And a lot of the advice out there actually makes the problem worse.

This mistake leads to more approach anxiety, more rejection and leads most guys to eventually give up on this area of their life.

It’s funny but it took me almost four years to come to this realization even though I had been doing this stuff and teaching it for all that time.

Everyone knows that women are most attracted to confidence, but here’s the conundrum. Read more…