This post is by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety.

I’m sitting in the park at a table with my client as he explains what is keeping him from approaching women.

He works in a restaurant and doesn’t have a college degree.

This bothers him.

“Every time I go to approach a woman, I think about the fact that I don’t have a college degree and it stops me from approaching her.”

“The best guys I know,” I tell him, “do not have college degrees. In fact, they’re not what you would call typically book smart. They’re emotionally smart.”

“Does that make you feel better?” I ask him.

“Yeah, it does.”

“Well, guess what?” I inform him. “You’re still Read more…

There are three ways to meet women, either you engage her, she engages you or someone else introduces you to each other.

This article will teach you how to make an immediate connection and eliminate any nervous or awkward tension during the first 30 seconds of an interaction.

I like to think of the first 2 Seconds – 60 Seconds as the do or die part of the interaction.

Stage 1: Break her bubble (So she realizes she is talking to someone)

Stage 2: Eliminate the “bad” tension if any exists

Stage 3: You are both comfortable, time to create “good” tension.

Stage 1:  Break her bubble.  Most guys get rejected because they fail to break her bubble.  Have you ever been in the middle of something when someone asks you a question out of the blue?

You never hear what they said because your mind was pre-occupied.  I watch guys approach women with hilarious comments and openers but if they fail to break her bubble, she won’t even hear the first 3-6 words that come out of their mouth and will stand there looking confused and say, “Huh?”

When this happens, most guys think that they’ve been rejected, huge mistake!  Make sure you Read more…

Meet Matthew Vaughn, he’s Claudia Schiffer’s Husband.

She is pregnant in this picture but we all know that her body is insane otherwise!

So how does a guy who looks like that get a girl like her?

Most men would say “It’s because he’s rich! Duh!”  Do you think Claudia needs anymore money?  I think she’s doing quite well on her own and doesn’t have much need to go gold digging.

I’ve never met the guy but just by looking at this picture, you can tell he’s probably not the funniest guy in the world.

So we know that it’s not his looks, it’s not his money, it’s not his sense of humor, so what is it?!

He is GROUNDED!

The best way to describe what being grounded is, is to describe what being grounded isn’t. Read more…

Last night I’m out with a small group of students at a new bar in West L.A.

At one point in the night we are talking to a group of cute girls on the patio. One of the girls mentions that she has to leave by midnight or she’ll turn into a pumpkin.

Then she says that if she keeps drinking she’ll get bloated and her face will get filled with pox.

I misunderstand her and say “Did you just say that you’ll get bloated and you’ll get filled with cock?”

She starts laughing hysterically and playfully punches my arm. I exit the conversation in hopes that the attraction she’s feeling towards me will wear off on the student next to me.

Prior to going out we did a bunch of drills to help them get over their approach anxiety and have fun opening conversations. We were using some fairly edgy openers. But all of the guys in attendance had zero approach anxiety by the end of the night and we all had a great time.

How is it possible to say edgy things and deliver risky openers without worrying about what happens afterward? Read more…

There are a million and one ways to spark up a conversation with a beautiful woman, this post is about how to find one that will work for you – EVERY TIME!

Most guys make the mistake of trying to come up with something really clever on the spot.

For this to work you have to not only be clever, but quick witted and very observant.

It’s scientifically proven that men get dumber in the presence of a beautiful woman so this strategy is pretty much worthless.

By the time you think of something clever the opportunity will have came and went.  The next mistake guys make is to open with something innocuous and situationally relevant.  “Lots of people here tonight, eh…”

This is just boring!

And the third mistake I see is guys opening with something indirect and unexpected.  “Who do you think lies more, men or women?”

This doesn’t work because most women will see right through your plan and think you’re creepy for having a hidden agenda.

They know you are interested because you approached them and they also know you don’t really care about the question you are asking.  They’ll sense the agenda and close off.

So let me explain what will actually work… Read more…