About 4 years ago, I went out on a series of date with a beautiful Persian girl.

After the 3rd date, she stopped responding to my texts and phone calls.  This really shocked me because she seemed totally into me and things were going well.

Six months later I decided to send her a text message:

“Hey ____, I’m trying to improve my dating life and I was wondering if you could tell me why you decided to stop seeing me, please be brutally honest, I can take it. Thanks!”

She responded to the text and said that she stopped seeing me because on our last date when I was wearing sandals, she noticed I had really gross and long toenails!

I couldn’t believe it!  I lost a girl due to bad toenails?!?! That was amazing feedback and I really appreciated her honesty because it was from that point on that I really started to pay attention to my grooming and personal hygiene.

If you don’t think it’s important, think again! Here is what my girlfriend, Allison Volk has to say about it:

To the untrained eye, it looks like the man is spending boatloads of money while the woman gets a free ride when it comes to dating.

That may be the case in some instances, but most of the time women are spending just as much to attract the opposite sex… it just looks a little different.

Let’s go on a journey that most men never make, into the woman’s secret world of Read more…

You don’t have to be good looking, but you have to look good!

(Just Don’t Dress Like This Guy!)

Luckily for men, women are not nearly as interested in how good looking a man is.  Women are attracted to your confidence which also includes grounded presence and your ability to play with tension.

Your looks don’t make you sexy; your presence does.

Some guys have a little bit easier of a time because their looks can get them in the door, but without anything going on inside, they will not succeed with women any easier than a fat, ugly, bald, homeless man.

Your image and style matters!

Women will often judge a man based on how he looks to see if he is the type of guy that dates women like her. Women know that most men don’t have a clue when it comes to style and fashion, so if they see a guy with great style they usually assume he is either gay, or that he dates women with a lot of style who taught him how to dress.

These are usually women of beauty, and thus, the man will fall into the “potential mate” category if he has a personality to go with his style. It is amazing what something like image can do for you, and the best thing about it is that it is so easy to change.

You can upgrade your image in less than one day.

Secrets For Upgrading Your Image:

Good Stuff:

• A cool pair of jeans
• A cool pair of shoes
• Make sure your belt matches your shoes
• A nice watch
• Shirts that match your eyes
• Tailored clothing that fits your body and makes you look built
• For nice events: go for the “monochromatic look.” The same color and shade for the top and bottom, it helps you look 10 pounds lighter instantly and makes you look sophisticated.

Bad Stuff:

• Body odor
• Bad breath
• Cheap jeans or old tennis shoes
• T-Shirts with sweat stains or that are overly worn
• Anything with holes, except designer jeans
• Baggy Clothing
• White socks with dress shoes
• Sandals with socks
• Excessive jewelry
• GAY PUA thumb rings!  If you are wearing one now, you are officially a homosexual in disguise as a wanna be PUA and the only thing you are “picking” up is your nose!

Shopping Tip:

So what should I buy?  The key to shopping to upgrade your image is what I like to call shopping for value.  Most men make the mistake of spending $75 on a nice button down shirt but then skimp on the jeans and shoes.

To buy even 1 really nice outfit, it can cost north or $200 and that is not alwas in the budget.  When shopping for items you must ask yourself this question:  How often am I gonna wear this peice?

I will always spend WAY more on a pair of jeans then on a dress shirt.  Why?  I can wear the jeans 5 days a week for the next 6 months to a year.

You can wear a pair of jeans at least 250 times before they are worn out, so if I pay $150 for them, then im basically renting them for $0.60 cents per day.

THAT’S A DEAL!

Most guys spend $75 on dress shirt and wear it maybe 10 times at the most.  That comes to $7.50 per day.  Compared to the jeans, there is way LESS VALUE.

Make sure you own 1 nice pair of jeans and 1 nice pair of shoes.

Women check you out from bottom to top so make sure the first thing they see is nice.  If you wear killer shoes and jeans you can get away with an undershirt, I’m serious!

Apply For A Free Strategy Session

During this “Strategy Session,” we’re going to pinpoint your blind-spots and give you strategies to get in action and see results.

You may be asking yourself, “Why is he doing these Strategy Sessions for free?”  These sessions are a win/win.

1. You Win: Isn’t it obvious!
2. I Win: Market research.  My job is to provide relevant dating material to men like you, and I need to know what is going on with potential clients.  During these calls, I always learn a lot about what guys are struggling with and how to create content to serve people better in the future.  Also, during the call, we’re going to pinpoint your blind-spots.  Depending on what the blind-spot is and whether or not you are a good fit, I may offer you the opportunity to participate in one of the Inner Confidence training programs.

There is a limited number of strategy sessions available so apply now!  The more thorough and detailed your application, the better chance of being selected and the more value you’ll receive on the call.

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Cheers,
Robbie Kramer