Hey Robbie,

I met this girl online dating. We went on a coffee date that went well, I texted her the next day and we end up setting up a date for the weekend.

That date also ended up going really well, we kissed a few times, she was giving me a bunch of compliments, the conversation was easy and funny, etc…

The only mistake I can think of that I may have made was getting a little “ungrounded” towards the end (after a few drinks), when I realized this girl that I really like also seems to really like me. (I’m starting to realize how my internal state affects women’s reactions to me, but that being said, there weren’t any major screwups.) I take her home, kiss her goodnight, etc.

I wait two days and then text her, and I get no response.

This doesn’t immediately concern me since I remember her saying she’s a fan of “He’s Not That Into You” which teaches women that men will chase them endlessly if they are actually interested.

I also notice that she made it a point to end the dates at a high point (which is straight out of “The Rules”), so I figure she must be Read more…

It’s funny how we make things a lot more difficult then they have to be.  By we I mean men, and what I’m talking about specifically is approaching women.

Has something like this ever happened to you before:

You see a woman you find attractive.

You walk up to her and compliment her and then ask for her phone number or date.  It probably went something like this:

“Hey I just wanted to tell you that you are really beautiful, would you like to have coffee with me?”

She blows you off by either rolling her eyes, flat out saying no or says “Sorry I have a boyfriend.”

You walk away feeling deflated and a little stupid but at least you tried.  Better to walk away having tried then regretting would could have been, right?

I’ve been studying this stuff for a LONG time and during that time I approached thousands of women.  Hundreds of these approaches went Read more…

Today we have another excellent post by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety

“Okay, so you got the girl,” guys ask me, “but at what point can you just relax and let your guard down?”

The short answer: Never.

Look at it this way, when can you stop being a man around women and just be submissive and sexless? Never.

Once you get used to it, maintaining the sexual tension in relationships is actually quite easy and fun–as long as you set it up that way from the start.

Much of relationship management is not slipping into nice guy mode and instead always remaining a challenge. And a lot of this is done by being fun and playful.

Here are eight ways to maintain that fun, playful tension in relationships.

How much of an asshole can I be? The running joke is that I’m an asshole. I’m not really an asshole, I just play one around women.

She says she’s sore from working out.  I respond, Read more…

There are three ways to meet women, either you engage her, she engages you or someone else introduces you to each other.

This article will teach you how to make an immediate connection and eliminate any nervous or awkward tension during the first 30 seconds of an interaction.

I like to think of the first 2 Seconds – 60 Seconds as the do or die part of the interaction.

Stage 1: Break her bubble (So she realizes she is talking to someone)

Stage 2: Eliminate the “bad” tension if any exists

Stage 3: You are both comfortable, time to create “good” tension.

Stage 1:  Break her bubble.  Most guys get rejected because they fail to break her bubble.  Have you ever been in the middle of something when someone asks you a question out of the blue?

You never hear what they said because your mind was pre-occupied.  I watch guys approach women with hilarious comments and openers but if they fail to break her bubble, she won’t even hear the first 3-6 words that come out of their mouth and will stand there looking confused and say, “Huh?”

When this happens, most guys think that they’ve been rejected, huge mistake!  Make sure you Read more…

If a woman doesn’t put up at least a small amount of resistance, she isn’t interested in you!

In the video below I demonstrate how to deal with any type of emotional or verbal curve ball a woman throws at you.

This is a tough concept to get at first because most of the time, we think of resistance as something we want to avoid.  Growing up, I did everything possible to avoid these type of situations.

I wanted everyone to like me and I went out of my way to make sure I never offended anyone or said the wrong thing because if I did, I would have to deal with resistance.

When I first started approaching women during the day, I would usually open the conversation with this: “Hi, this may seem random, but I had to tell you that you are really cute.”

99% of the time, she would do one of two things:

1) Thanks! (big smile & she would light up like a christmas tree)

2) Ummm thanks (bored facial expression followed by eye roll to imply “nice try buddy”)

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