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	<title> &#187; Playing w/ Tension</title>
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		<title>Ask for Forgiveness, Not Permission</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 05:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      One of my clients recently said to me, “I feel like you’ve given me permission to speak my mind.” He went on to talk about how he had always felt disrespected and belittled by his older brother but now he has the courage to stand up to him and tell him how he feels. I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Between Nice Guy and Asshole: I Cross the Line</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2011 12:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      Today we have another excellent post by my friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety I&#8217;ve talked a lot about how problematic it is to be too much of a nice guy. But how do you know when you&#8217;ve crossed the line between nice guy and uncaring asshole? This is a big fear for guys when [...]]]></description>
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		<title>For All The Haters Out There&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Feb 2011 18:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      What if they don&#8217;t like me? What if they think I&#8217;m a jerk? What if I piss them off? What if they talk sh*t behind my back? “I had a realization today,” said Marty, one of my students. “What I realized is that to be successful and confident not everyone is going to like me… [...]]]></description>
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		<title>8 Tips to Maintain Sexual Tension in Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 19:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      Today we have another excellent post by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety “Okay, so you got the girl,” guys ask me, “but at what point can you just relax and let your guard down?” The short answer: Never. Look at it this way, when can you stop being a man around women [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;If It Doesn&#8217;t Work, I&#8217;ll Give You This $10 Dollar Bill&#8230;&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Oct 2010 21:49:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      It was a bootcamp that I&#8217;ll never forget. For the first time in over 4 years of coaching, I found an EASY way to teach guys how to confidently approach and attract women in a way that is simple, fun and honest. On Friday, they learned that women are most attracted to confidence.  I&#8217;m a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Breaking The Grip of Fear</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      This post is by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety. The video below (safe for work) is probably one of the scariest things I’ve ever seen. Fresh out of one of my nightmares. It shows what it’s like to climb to the top of a 1700 foot tower–with no safety lines. If you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Have You Lost Your Sexual Polarity? – 3 Easy Steps To Get it Back!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      There are three ways to meet women, either you engage her, she engages you or someone else introduces you to each other. This article will teach you how to make an immediate connection and eliminate any nervous or awkward tension during the first 30 seconds of an interaction. I like to think of the first [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How does a guy who looks like that get a girl like her?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 19:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      Meet Matthew Vaughn, he&#8217;s Claudia Schiffer&#8217;s Husband. She is pregnant in this picture but we all know that her body is insane otherwise! So how does a guy who looks like that get a girl like her? Most men would say &#8220;It&#8217;s because he&#8217;s rich! Duh!&#8221;  Do you think Claudia needs anymore money?  I think [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Learn To Read Her Mind!</title>
		<link>http://innerconfidence.com/blog/do-you-speak-woman-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 20:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Closing The Deal]]></category>
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      &#8220;Always seek to be as objective as you possibly can by seeking out and weighing up all the evidence that supports and goes against your thinking.&#8221; A great mentor of mine named Karl Wolfe, told me that awareness is the first step to change.  In order to be aware, you must be able to think [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pass Her Tests</title>
		<link>http://innerconfidence.com/blog/pass-her-tests/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 01:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
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      If a woman doesn&#8217;t put up at least a small amount of resistance, she isn&#8217;t interested in you! In the video below I demonstrate how to deal with any type of emotional or verbal curve ball a woman throws at you. This is a tough concept to get at first because most of the time, [...]]]></description>
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