Random question… do you think gamers are typically good with women?

If meeting women was like playing a video game, most guys would be awesome at it!

This is obviously not the case, but in this article I’m going to show you how can create your own “Game” to become awesome with women.

It may not look exactly like a video game and you have to play in real life but it can be just as fun if you are creative.

Just to give you a mind boggling statistic, a child spends 10,080 hours sitting in a classroom from grade five through 12.

You know what else kids spend 10,000 hours doing between grades five and 12?

Gaming!

What would incentivise a teenager to spend more time gaming then socializing? Read more…

Think about the last time you were confronted with a difficult task.

Did you find yourself torn between following a set of rules or using a technique versus winging it and going with your gut and what feels right?

If so, then this post will help you improve your confidence when you are faced with a similar problem the next time around.

For example, let’s take the problem of approaching a woman and asking her out on a date.

If you don’t feel exceptionally confident doing this, chances are you’ve searched for advice on this topic.  You may even be reading this post for this exact reason.

Odds are, if you searched on Google, you found a gazillion articles that all say that they have the solution.  But if they all say that have the solution and there are a gazillion of them, you know that most of them are wrong.

Sadly, a HUGE problem I see in the dating industry is that guys simply have too much information that is conflicting.

There are so many methods and gurus out there all offering the same thing in a different way that it is almost impossible to cut through all that noise and find answers that work for you. It doesn’t matter if you’re searching for Read more…

I often get a lot of questions about specific pickup skills from guys who are trying to improve with women.

“How do I open a mixed 5 set?” (mixed 5 set = a group of 5 people with both men and women)

“How do I isolate my target?” (target = girl I like)

“How do I deal with LMR?” (LMR = resistance women give you before sex)

Do you ask yourself questions like this? If so, you are probably making life much harder on yourself than it has to be.  The language we use creates our context for how we view the world.  Kinda like how a pair of sunglasses makes everything look darker then reality.  If you are writing in pickup lingo (targets, LMR, HB, sets, DHV, etc…) then you are thinking in terms of pickup lingo.  If you are thinking in terms of pickup, it means you are using strategy to meet women.  Even if you are really good at the strategies and a master at the game, you are shooting yourself in the foot!

If you think you need a strategy or game plan, you are telling yourself that you are not good enough as you are.  Women are attracted to one thing Read more…

I recently had an experience that taught me an important lesson about using techniques to meet women.  First of all, think about the definition of a technique.

Technique: the body of specialized procedures and methods used in any specific field

For a technique to become a technique, someone has to create a method and test it over and over to make sure it works.  Eventually, they share it with other people to help them achieve a certain result.  For example, let’s say I think of a great opening line to meet women and I test it out.  I find that almost every time I use it, it leads to a great conversation and the result I want, getting her number for example.  Next I blog about it and people like you search on Google for techniques to “open a conversation with women,” and find my technique.  You’ll ask yourself, “Will this work for me?” Maybe you’ll try it maybe not, it doesn’t matter.

Consider that the technique will ALMOST ALWAYS work much better for the person who invented it, then for someone who is using it. Mystery created the Mystery Method to attract women.  It worked fantastic for him because Read more…

What if I told you that I could flirt with a girl for 5 minutes plus without her even saying a single word? You would probably think that I’m full of shit but I can and I’m gonna show you how. First off, there is no reason why you would ever need to flirt for 5 minutes or even 2 minutes for that matter if a girl is saying nothing back. If she isn’t saying anything back, she is either completely not interested, or she is laughing to hard to speak. My girlfriend loves when I do this to her. Its really funny, she tells me to pretend like I don’t know her, walk into the room and flirt with her.

OK Robbie, what is this amazing technique?!?!

It’s what I like to call “Flirty Direct.” and its just 1 of 7 different forms of flirting styles that I teach.  Not all techniques will work for everyone because everyone has their own sense of humor and way of communicating.  But in a couple weeks I’ll be releasing an audio program that teaches all 7 in detail so you can pick the one that matches your personality best and perfect it.

‘Flirty Direct’ is basically exactly what it sounds like.  You are showing interest in her in a fun/flirty way and the mindset to have is that you are a victim of her seduction.  What I do, is immediately reprimand her for looking too fucking cute and tell her that she is ruining my day. For example girl walking down the street:

Me: You know I really don’t appreciate what is going on over here.

Her: ??? Huh, what do you mean?

Me: I’m just a nice guy trying to enjoy my day and mind my own business but you had to come over here looking all fucking cute and ruin everything for me. I mean seriously, how am I supposed to concentrate with these sorts of distractions! ))))))

(The key here is to over exaggerate A LOT! If you don’t, you will look really weird.)

Her: HAHAHAHA I’m sorry

Me: Yeah you better be! I wasn’t prepared for this at all. My dog ate my guide to flirting book and I have nothing. I have absolutely no game at all, and I can’t even get it up!

Her: HAHAHAHAHA

Me: But, I do like romance novels, long walks on the beach, ponies, unicorns and rainbows.

Her: HAHAHA

Me: So you are just gonna sit there and laugh, you are very evil, do you enjoy inflicting this sort of pain on people?

I good literally go on all day. Its a simple formula, call out the elephant in the room which creates humor, then just accuse her of being a seductress and manipulating you. In the example I gave above, she really doesn’t have to say anything and I can just go on all day, but that would never be necessary. I challenge you to send me a scenario that would not work using this model.

Cheers,

Robbie Kramer