Taking A Quantum Leap
It’s been a CRAZY two weeks. To all my loyal readers, I hope you missed me and you’re not too choked up about my posting hiatus. 
Last week we ran the first ever Masculine Evolution Bootcamp. It was 5 days of gut wrenching fun at 7,000 feet above sea level. Activities included paintballing, hiking, flame throwing, search and rescue and some very interesting sports. That’s all I’m gonna say about it for now but if you attended the event, please leave a comment below describing your experience.
This weekend I attended Lisa Sasevich’s Speak To Sell Bootcamp in San Diego. One of the main focuses of the event was the idea of a quantum leap. A quantum leap is best described as a tremendous burst in performance. Let’s say you are consistently going on 1 date per week and you suddenly start getting 5 dates per week. That would be a quantum leap. So how do you make this happen. I was talking to my good friend and client Kumar, who was asking why he wasn’t having more success with women. He explained that he was working 10 hour days with a 3 hour round-trip commute while living at home with his parents. Do I need to say anymore? If you don’t set yourself up for success you are eliminating any opportunity for a quantum leap. I asked Kumar why he was living at home, 3 hours away from his work. He said it was convenient and cheap. He then told me that he felt like a wimp because he wasn’t approaching women like he usually does. I asked him how he expected to find any time in his day to approach women.
The funny thing about Kumar is that I hear this same story ALL THE TIME. If you can see yourself in him, then stop being so hard on yourself. Here are a couple of solutions.
1. If you want to take a quantum leap you first need to set yourself up for success. Living at home is simply not gonna fly. You have a better chance if you live out of your molester van. A three hour commute is also not gonna fly because you are either going to meet women close to where you live or close to where you work. Either way you are screwed. You don’t want to bring a date back to your parents house and you don’t want to commute 3 hours to go on a date.
2. “You can’t become the person you want to be by remaining who you are.” If you are on a flying trapeze, the only way to get from one bar to another is to let go and risk falling. If Kumar wants success, he’s simply going to have to choose between women and comfort. He could do this by moving to a place close to his job eve if he can’t afford it. The funny thing is that as soon as he makes the bold commitment, the money will come. But as long as he plays it safe, he’ll stay exactly where he is at.
Are you playing it safe in life? Think back on the most memorable moments in your life…
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I bet they are the ones when you did something TOTALLY out of your comfort zone and everything worked out great. So if you want to shift your results and take that quantum leap, ask yourself this question.
Where am I playing it safe and avoiding the actions I know I really need to take?
The next step is simple, JUMP!
Cheers,
Robbie Kramer
@ivy on how to approach women
I personally don’t care if I sound irritating because I’m not looking for a particular reaction. As you are here. I went to your blog, you seem kinda of cute in the cheesy pickup lines video. Where exactly do you live?
It’s good to know that there is something like Masculine evolution going on to help those who have difficulty approaching women or starting a conversation in general and try to really express their feelings and thoughts in a very nice and respectful manner.
I hope those who have learned to finally voice out won’t overdo it so they may not sound irritating.
The Masculine Evolution workshop was a lot of fun. We all bonded on different levels, played paint ball, camped and did some awesome exercises. I learnt a lot about myself and where I’m at. Every since the workshop I’ve been speaking up and voicing how I really feel and stating my intentions.
Great time!
Dear Senior Sing Singao,
About the masculine evolution. I sang and I Jumped, next weekend I’m going to my very first singing workshop. I haven’t told you yet, but the closing day we went out on that workshop I approached every time from wherever I was emotionally, and I didn’t cared about the outcome. They were probably the easiest approaches I’ve done. One more thing I notice is that interacting with women has A LOT more to do with your internal state and your conditioning on handling your emotions than it has to do with the actual interaction with the girl.
I drove a truck with less than a year of experience on driving on Saturday. I got complimented as the perfect archetype of a trucker. (Sorry for the snotty reply, I changed my Facebook comment)
I spent the whole Sunday locked up in my apartment, which now has a couch and is “girl ready” because I was feeling depressed. Should had done something about it to change that state. But I figured out it was due to that damn sucralose (Splenda) they put in sports drinks: http://www.holisticmed.com/splenda/ . Don’t drink VitaRain.
Yes, the Masculine Evolution workshop is life-changing.
About the quantum leap thing. It was interesting because I was inviting friends to your next workshop, and I didn’t even mentiion money at all to them. So for all they know the only thing they have to pay is air fare. I told them what it was about and that it will make them a lot better with women. Those were two people who I could see were open to this type of stuff, but both declined because they didn’t feel like it.
I have another friend who’s into MMA, and I invited him to my judo team, which is free, and right at his campus in his city and could not possibly clash with any work or class schedule. As of yet he has not shown up once.