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		<title>By: Einar Coutin</title>
		<link>http://innerconfidence.com/blog/techniques-to-get-the-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-1124</link>
		<dc:creator>Einar Coutin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-1122&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Eric Disco &lt;/a&gt; 
It is when you&#039;re truly non needy that you free yourself so your mind just flows. I&#039;ve wondered why is it that girls I&#039;m not attracted to are always chasing me. And this is the answer. So the secret must be to unlink being attracted to a girl from expecting anything from her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-1122" rel="nofollow">@Eric Disco </a><br />
It is when you&#8217;re truly non needy that you free yourself so your mind just flows. I&#8217;ve wondered why is it that girls I&#8217;m not attracted to are always chasing me. And this is the answer. So the secret must be to unlink being attracted to a girl from expecting anything from her.</p>
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		<title>By: Robbie Kramer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:17:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-1122&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Eric Disco &lt;/a&gt; 
Thanks Eric. I&#039;ve witnessed some of that stuff first hand... pure gold! Glad you are posting again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-1122" rel="nofollow">@Eric Disco </a><br />
Thanks Eric. I&#8217;ve witnessed some of that stuff first hand&#8230; pure gold! Glad you are posting again!</p>
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		<title>By: Eric Disco</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric Disco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post. I totally agree. I tend to use a few things over and over and it&#039;s the stuff that I came up with myself that has the best effect and is the most fun for me. 

That&#039;s why it&#039;s good to understand the rules behind the banter so you can come up with your own banter.  

It&#039;s also good to remember what works for you and explore a lot of situations with many different women, not just ones that you are super attracted to.  Some of the best stuff I&#039;ve come up with has been just bantering with women when I really didn&#039;t care about the outcome.

Eric</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post. I totally agree. I tend to use a few things over and over and it&#8217;s the stuff that I came up with myself that has the best effect and is the most fun for me. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s good to understand the rules behind the banter so you can come up with your own banter.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s also good to remember what works for you and explore a lot of situations with many different women, not just ones that you are super attracted to.  Some of the best stuff I&#8217;ve come up with has been just bantering with women when I really didn&#8217;t care about the outcome.</p>
<p>Eric</p>
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		<title>By: Robbie Kramer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robbie Kramer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 17:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad you guys enjoyed the post. Thanks for the support.</description>
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		<title>By: Dave F</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave F</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 14:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You didn’t just kill it - this is straight Dexter-ish murder.

And once again, you read my (full of shit) mind (that thinks of farts. Does that make you a shit-reader? :) But I digress…)

Style (yeah, that Style) had me write a bunch of qualities I wanted in a girl once. The purpose for that is to use it for negs/qualifying/pebbles etc. (aka techniques). Not sure what I did with that list but I’m sure a lot of what I am looking for has changed since. While not focusing on the techniques, maybe this is an exercise I need to do again, but then I know it isn’t a straight forward cerebral exercise. 

It seems to me that a lot of PU techniques seem to focus on woo-girls*, who can be fun at times. They’re sometimes so hot (or maybe I’m so desperate) that I forget what I’m looking for. Then they either smell it and run away or something in me gets annoyed and says fuck it.

*See HIMYM Season 4 episode 8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You didn’t just kill it &#8211; this is straight Dexter-ish murder.</p>
<p>And once again, you read my (full of shit) mind (that thinks of farts. Does that make you a shit-reader? <img src='http://innerconfidence.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  But I digress…)</p>
<p>Style (yeah, that Style) had me write a bunch of qualities I wanted in a girl once. The purpose for that is to use it for negs/qualifying/pebbles etc. (aka techniques). Not sure what I did with that list but I’m sure a lot of what I am looking for has changed since. While not focusing on the techniques, maybe this is an exercise I need to do again, but then I know it isn’t a straight forward cerebral exercise. </p>
<p>It seems to me that a lot of PU techniques seem to focus on woo-girls*, who can be fun at times. They’re sometimes so hot (or maybe I’m so desperate) that I forget what I’m looking for. Then they either smell it and run away or something in me gets annoyed and says fuck it.</p>
<p>*See HIMYM Season 4 episode 8</p>
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		<title>By: Einar Coutin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Einar Coutin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bravo!!!I salute You.</description>
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