There are two categories that most men fall into at different stages of their journey towards success with women and the first part of this report is designed to help you figure out which one you fall into.

There are pros and cons of every category and at the end of this report, I’m gonna give you a strategy of how you can bypass all the “noise” and become successful with women.

My promise to you is this:  This material is years ahead of it’s time and is all the information you will ever need to become incredibly confident and successful with women.

The buck really does stop here and you’ll see why in a bit.

Depending on how much time you’ve spent studying seduction techniques and theory, you’re thought patterns and ways of operating are probably falling into  one of these two categories:

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Which Category Do You Fall Into?

Depending on how much time you’ve spent studying seduction techniques and theory, you’re thought patterns and ways of operating are probably falling into  one of these two categories:

1.    The “Winging It Model”
2.    The “Scripting It Model”

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The “Winging It Model.”

If you answer “Yes” to most of these questions then you are running the “Winging It Model”

• You have spent less then 10 hours studying seduction techniques and theory.
• You go into conversations with attractive women without a plan.
• You don’t like the idea of “scripting” a conversation.
• You have invested less then $50 on improving your ability to attract women.
• You’ve seen some stuff out there about the Pickup Artist Community like “The Game” or “The Pickup Artist Show” on VH1 but you know it’s not for you.
• You see beautiful women that you would like to meet but have no idea what to say to start the conversation or keep it going.
• You feel anxiety when you think about approaching her.

The biggest question that the men who “Wing It” have is “What do I say and how do I get her attracted to me?”

If this is you then congratulations, you are in the right place if you want to make the leap toward success and never worry about “What to say” again!

It starts with standing out from the pack.

If we want to stand out from the pack we first have to become aware of where the pack is standing.  Most men have no idea how to communicate with women.

When we find ourselves toe to toe with a beautiful girl, most of us get tongue-tied.  When we get tongue-tied we typically default into our standard operating procedure.

I like to call this operating procedure the “Boring Job Interview Mode.”

See if you can relate to this scenario:

You’re at a bar for happy hour with one of your buddies.  He catches you checking out a sexy and well put-together brunette and starts goading you into approaching her.  “Come on, don’t be a wuss!” He says.  You’d rather crash and burn then look like a wimp in your friends eyes so you walk over with no idea what you’re gonna say.  You don’t walk over with confidence, you walk over with anxiety and it feels like you are walking into the lion’s den.  You get there and blurt something out.

It’s typically one of these statements:

• “Hi… Uhhh, do you come here often?”
• “Hey… so you out drinking tonight?”
• “Hi… how you doing?”

She responds with one of these statements:

• “Hi, not really.”
• “Yup… I’m drinking.”
• “I’m fine.”

So you follow it up with one of these statements:

• “So where are you from?”
• “What do you do for a living?”
• “Do you live around here?”

She gives you one word answers and you continue to ask boring job interview questions because it’s the only thing you can think of.  Eventually, you run out of questions to ask or she excuses herself.

I’ll be the first to admit that this is how almost all of my approaches went with women went before I started studying seduction. The worst feeling in the world was walking away feeling like an idiot when I got a negative or bored reaction.

Sometimes, after having a few drinks, I could relax and crack some jokes but it didn’t happen very often.

If you are guilty of this behavior, don’t beat yourself up!  You’re about to learn a better way.

If you’re thinking “I bet this is just another lame book with PUA techniques, then think again, it’s radically different but first let’s talk about the “Scripting It” Model to find out if you are falling into this category.

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The “Scripting It Model”

This model consists of a vast sea of components, a few of which are listed here:

• Routines or openers to start conversations with women that hook them in.
• Stories, questions, role plays, patterns and various conversational threads to keep the conversation interesting.
• Techniques to lower a woman’s value to even the playing field in hopes that she begins to qualify and prove herself to you.
• Qualification questions designed to goad a woman into qualifying herself to you or proving to you that she is worthy of dating you.
• Routines for escalating physically and methods for touching women in a way that leads to comfort, attraction and sex.
• Tactics to deal with an Alpha Male who may be trying to make you look like a fool or attempting to steal the girls you are trying to pickup.
• Hypnotic patterns to convince a woman who has a boyfriend to pursue you anyway.
• Hypnotic patterns and techniques to deal with her resistance to sleep with you.
• And the list goes on…

Maybe you are familiar with these techniques and maybe you are not.

If you are feeling overwhelmed by them, then I know where you are coming from.  Don’t worry, you don’t need to know any of them to be amazing with women.

Do you think there anything wrong with these techniques?  The answer is, “No!”

There are plenty of women who will be offended and men who will make fun of these techniques but if we put morality aside, I really want to acknowledge men who take the steps to better themselves and improve their relationships with women.

Some of the techniques may be a little bit manipulative or deceptive but at the end of the day, most of the men using them are really great guys who want a better life and how could you blame them for that?

Do these techniques work?  The answer is, “Sometimes.”

If they help you to draw out your natural attractive personality and you have fun using them, they will work.

If you are using them to compensate and cover up feelings of insecurity, fear, anxiety, and social phobias, then they will usually fail.  Here is why:

There is a very technical term for this phenomenon, called “Whipped Cream on Shit.”

If you teach an shy, insecure, or unconfident man the greatest pickup technique in the world, its not going to work very often, because behind the words associated with the technique, she will be able to see his true level of confidence.

These factors are going to give him away:

• His Body Language
• Tonality
• Vibe
• Energy

All of these factors are communicating that he is shy, insecure, and unconfident when he delivers the technique to a woman.

An extensive study conducted by Professor Dr. Albert Mehrabian at UCLA concluded that communication is 93% non-verbal.

Words make up 7%, body language accounts for 55%, and tonality accounts for 38% of what is being communicated from one person to another.

Attractive women are experts are spotting bull-shit because they deal with guys hitting on them poorly on a daily basis.

The guy using techniques may be able to fake it once or twice but its not going to take long until she smells the shit under that whipped cream, and walks away.

So when you only focus on the techniques everything you do is agenda based. And when women can sense that you have an agenda while interacting with them, they will usually be extremely turned off.

If you are in your head analyzing, plotting the next routine, “calibrating” the situation, then women will have a hard time feeling you.

If they can’t feel you they can’t get attracted to you or trust you.

I’ve watched thousands of men struggle for years to become successful pickup artists.

Very few actually made it and the ones that did, got bored of playing the game and decided that they wanted something deeper with the women they met.

If you don’t believe me, read the last few chapters of “The Game” and ask one of the most famous PUAs, Niel Strauss aka Style about it.

The bottom line is this.  Getting good with women using the methods described above can work but IT IS HARD!

Who has time to memorize a bunch of stories, lines and routines to impress women?

If you have nothing better to do and believe that this is the only way to attract women, then close this report right now because you won’t be able to hear anything else I have to say.

If you want to learn the simple and authentic approach to meeting, attracting, dating and relating with beautiful women that WORKS 100 TIMES BETTER AND FASTER, then you’re in the right place.

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Is There Another Way?

As a man interested in becoming more attractive to women and whether you’re a “scripter” or a “winger” at some point, you’ve asked yourself this question:

“What can I do that will work?”

If you are trying to find the thing that “works” to get a good reaction when approaching a women, you’re search is over.

If you ask a group of 100 women, 90 will tell you that what they are most attracted to in a man is confidence.

For all intents and purposes, let’s assume that women are primarily attracted to confidence and men are primarily attracted to physical beauty.  Are there other factors that go into it?  Yes, of course but this is how it is for most people.

But what is confidence? Have you ever really thought about it or is it just some pie in the sky term. What is the actual recipe or formula for confidence?

There is an actual “Formula For Confidence” and I want to share it with you.

Before I discovered this formula, the work I did with men produced lackluster results.  I always felt like I was in a pickle because I knew the techniques didn’t really work but I also knew that walking up to a woman without a plan and trying to “wing it” didn’t really work either.

After months of searching for a better way I was ready to quit, but finally it hit me!

I discovered a way to make building confidence and attracting beautiful women something that is incredibly simple, fun and rewarding. I turned this discovery into a simple formula.

With this formula:

• There is nothing to remember, there is nothing to memorize, and there is nothing to avoid. You can use the formula to build confidence and become fearless.

• You can use the formula to start a conversation with a beautiful woman.

• You can use the formula to rid yourself of approach anxiety.

• You can use the formula to keep the conversation going and never worry about what to say next again.

• You can even use it to have a difficult conversation with a boss or family member. Sounds pretty awesome, huh?!

It doesn’t matter if you are a total beginner when it comes to attracting women or if you’ve studied seduction techniques for years. This formula will make your life easy.

It’s not a magic pill but it’s the closest thing to it.

The reason why it is so effective is because it deals with the root problems.

Most of us try to overcome approach anxiety, fear, nervousness, shyness, social anxiety and a myriad of other self-diagnosed problems we feel are holding us back.

But the formula allows us to use these “problems” to our advantage. To make a silly but accurate analogy, it’s like turning garbage into gold.

This formula is an incredibly powerful tool that can transform your life.  Not just with women, but with your ability to connect with people, communicate more effectively and get what you want in any area of life that requires partnership with others.

Just like any other powerful tool, what matters most is how you use it.

For example, you can use nuclear technology to both power and destroy entire cities; the formula works the same way.

While most guys are “Winging It” and others are “Scripting it,” the formula allows you to “Structure It.”

With a structure, comes freedom and with freedom comes fun!

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How To Use The Formula:

The Formula for Confidence is designed to help you build – you guessed it, confidence!

This is not a long drawn out process, it actually happens incredibly fast.  As you build confidence, you will become more and more attractive to women.

There are a ton of products available to teach you to seduce women.  Some of them work, but most of them don’t.  I know this because I bought most of them, followed the instructions to a “T” and saw very little improvement at best.

They don’t work because they are slightly missing the mark.  The products don’t teach you how to be confident, they teach you a bunch of stuff to do so you can look confident and meet women.

This is called the “Fake it till you make it” approach to confidence.

It’s a long, windy and expensive road.  This road cost me about $30,000 in a wide variety of personal growth, pickup bootcamps and communication courses and 5 years of hard work.

I committed my life to it and would stop at nothing to figure this stuff out because it was my passion.

Most men do not share my passion, but they’re still interested in creating a successful love life.  The good news is that it doesn’t have to take you that long.

What took me 5 years can take you 3 months.

What makes The Formula For Confidence so effective is the fact that every time you use it, you are not only building confidence, you’re also benefiting from the amazing byproduct of confidence… an abundance of women!

So what really sets the formula apart from everything else you may have encountered is this:

Formula For Confidence:      Result = Confidence           Byproduct = Women
Most Dating Advice:             Result = Women                Byproduct = Confidence

Let’s be honest, if you are reading this report, having women in your life is probably more important then having confidence.  Having women may not be as important as having confidence, but I bet it is more urgent.

Paying taxes are urgent, deadlines at work are urgent, fulfilling on your sexual desires may be urgent but as important as building your confidence may be it’s probably not urgent!

It’s not urgent because there is no consequence associated with not doing it!  Urgent things get done and important things get pushed back.

But here lies the problem:  Products that provide solutions for attracting women don’t work, because solutions don’t attract women!  Confidence attracts women!

So you can waste your time learning a bunch of “stuff” and pilling more whipped cream on top of your shit but let me warn you, that is the hard way.

It looks easy but in reality, it’s really hard.  If it were easy, you probably would have figured it out by now.

Here’s a more accurate depiction of the chart above:

Formula For Confidence:     Result = Confidence          Byproduct = Women
Most Dating Advice:            Result = Struggle              Byproduct = Quitting

The reason why I say that this stuff is ahead of it’s time is because most men are not ready to give up the idea that they are broken.

The personal growth and pickup gurus are making a fortune on convincing you that you are broken and then selling you products to fix you.

As long as you buy into this, you will stay on the slow track.  Every solution creates a new problem and once you get on that train, it’s hard to get off.

It’s so addicting that you probably won’t even realize what is happening to you.

But here’s the giant truth:

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!

The reason you have not yet achieved the success you are looking for is because you have been focusing on the wrong areas!

Women want confidence.  If you get confident, you will get women.  If you want women, don’t work on getting women, work on building confidence.

If you’re ready for this to be easy, then I can’t wait to share it with you.

Here is a breakdown of what The Formula For Confidence can do for you.

• Are your anxiety, fears, nervousness and other emotions that you consider detrimental keeping you stuck? The formula allows you to use these “detriments” to your advantage and propel you towards success.  You’ll see how every detriment is actually an asset in disguise.

• Why NOT seeing these detriments as assets is a recipe for disaster. (In fact, NOT going through my simple formula could be costing you THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS in money, time and lost opportunities. Not to mention, you’ll be stuck feeling like crap!)

• By applying the formula, you’ll have amazing conversations with women that suck them in and leave them thinking “Who was that guy and how can I get more of him?!”

• You’ll see every interaction as an opportunity to build confidence rather then as a process you have to “get right.”

• You’ll be able to ask for exactly what you want.  Think about it, if you had no fear of rejection or hearing the word “no” you would have no problem asking people for exactly what you want.  Using the formula gives you the confidence to do this.

• It’s time to get out of your head!  If you’re struggling, you’re spending a lot of time with your thoughts.  These thoughts are typically negative that make you feel bad and keep you beating yourself up.  As you use the formula, those thoughts will fade away and be replaced with confidence.

Here is a story from a recent client named Gary who had a lot of fun using the formula during the “Formula For Confidence Bootcamp” he attended.

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I just got back from “The Formula For Confidence Bootcamp” w/ Robbie @ Inner Confidence . Man, am I glad I went and stayed the whole time. I learned some VERY valuable stuff but my biggest take-away was how to stop thinking so god-damn much.

It worked all the way from opener to trying to get 2 of 4 british girls to take me home with them and everything in between.  I had HUGE Approach Anxiety and I’ve gone on 3 bootcamps and could never get over it. Every time I got stuck in my head, Robbie would say go use the formula and guess what? It freaking worked!

Now life is easy. Who would have thought you could just speak your mind and do great with beautiful women?!

I used to be a banter machine. But I never told anyone what I wanted or how I felt and never really connected to them and it usually didnt go anywhere.  I can’t recommend this thing enough to people who are stuck inside their heads. I think it would benefit anyone really but I had a couple MAJOR breakthroughs this weekend and I realized that I wont ever be happy no matter how many women I “nail” because I was after them for the wrong reason.

Now, Im not afraid of girls and I WANT to build a connection with people.

Oh yah. There was probably about 2 hours MAX of actual instruction/theory. Everything else was either drills with GORGEOUS women that scared the bajeezus out of me or in field.  I’m trying to figure out a way to get some money to do some kind of advanced program with him. It’s THAT good and this style fits me as it’s true to my heart and not some “flash game” crap or lines that I have to memorize and feel like a weirdo for saying.

Anyone who wants to not have to actually “game” should check him out.

Thanks again Robbie!

Gary K. – Realtor, Fresno, California

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I Can’t Give Away The Formula For Nothing

The first reason is obvious but of no importance to you.

1.    I’m running a business and this is how I support myself.

The second reason may come as a shock to you.

2.    If I just give it to you, you probably won’t use it.

You probably won’t use it because you are programmed not to.  Even though the formula allows you to push your comfort zone in a fun and exciting way, you will always find an excuse to push it off and do it later.

Remember the difference between things that are important and the things that are urgent?

You are 100 times more likely to do something if there is a consequence associated with NOT doing it.  If it’s free, we remove that consequence and force you do it on your own.

Studies show that 95% of people will avoid doing anything challenging until they have to.  The other 5% will go right out and do it but do you really want to leave your success up to a 5% chance?

I care about your results too much for that and if you use The Formula For Confidence my name is on the line!

This formula is far too valuable to just be something you think about using.

At the end of this report, you can find out more about the Inner Confidence trainings that allow you apply the formula to your life.

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Are You Blind Without Even Knowing It?

Apart from “Winging It & Scripting It”, there is one other factor that will sabotage your chances of being successful.  That saboteur is what I call a “blind-spot.”

What is a blind spot? A blind spot is an area or subject about which one is uninformed, prejudiced, or unappreciative.

When it comes to dating and building confidence, 9 out of 10 of the men focus their attention and energy on the wrong areas.

Let me tell you a story:

I was talking to a guy named Steve who was getting a lot of phone numbers when he went out but most of these women would flake on the date.

Steve was convinced that the reason why they were flaking was due to his sub-par “Text or SMS game.”

Logically, it made sense to Steve that if he improved his ability to communicate via text, he’d have a better chance of stopping her from flaking on a date.

He purchased a couple of e-books on how to seduce women via text.

Steve was spending hours sending text messages back and forth with women but having no luck getting them out on a date.  He was convinced that he just needed to improve his texting skills.

I explained to Steve that he had a “Blind-spot.”

When women flake, it is not because your text game is lacking, it is because she was not convinced that going out with you was a good enough use of her time in the first place.

Your problem isn’t texting, the problem is attraction. If she was really attracted to you, she’d make that date a priority.   I then gave Steve a strategy to address the blind-spot, and told him not to worry about texting. 

He reported back a few weeks later that he was getting two dates a week!

Even though it may not be the most leveraged use of my time, I always devote a few hours a week to speak with guys individually over the phone.  During these session we pinpoint the areas of their life to focus on to build confidence.

You might be surprised but 9 out of 10 of the guys are focusing on the wrong areas, just like Steve.

They are investing their time and hard earned money on things that aren’t really helping because they are blind to what’s really going on.

To make another silly analogy, imagine if one day your car stopped working.  Rather then taking it to a mechanic to get it checked out, you decide to just put new tires on it.

That doesn’t work so you replace the steering wheel.  That doesn’t work either so you give it a new paint job.  Finally you take it in and Moe the mechanic explains that you need a new ignition switch.

He installs one for you on the spot for $50 and five minutes later your car is running like new.  Too bad you spent $1500 on those tires, steering wheel and paint!

Blind-spots are deadly because they will keep you stuck and guessing.

If what you’ve read so far in this free report has intrigued you, you’ll be happy to learn about this last freebie you’ll benefit from.

I’m not sure how long this free offer will be available, but for the time being, you’ve got the opportunity to get live coaching from me one-on-one over the phone.

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Apply For A Strategy Session

During this “Strategy Session,” we’re going to pinpoint your blind-spots and give you strategies to get in action and see results.

There is a limited number of strategy sessions available so apply now!  The more thorough and detailed your application, the better chance of being selected and the more value you’ll receive on the call.

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Most importantly, I really hope you enjoyed reading this free report and got a ton of value from it.

I also hope to get the opportunity to connect with you individually and support you to become the most confident version of you.

If you have a specific question you would like to ask, or you just want to say hi please contact me via my website: http://innerconfidence.com/blog/ask-robbie/

To Your Success,

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Robbie Kramer
robbie@innerconfidence.com
714-329-2535