Turn Her on From Across the Room
If you are having trouble maintaining eye contact with people then it is a sign that you are having trouble managing tension. I used to struggle with this big time. I would always look away if a girl caught me looking and I would break eye contact first with men.
Try this exercise: when you are out in public, make eye contact with everyone and hold it. Make them be the one to look away first. Word of warning – if you do this to a man it can be misconstrued as aggression and that is obviously not what you’re going for. So feel free to give him a head nod or gesture to acknowledge the connection as friendly rather then hostile. As you get comfortable, start giving the women a sly smile or flirty look. When you can master this, you’ll be in the top 1% of men who can attract a woman from across the room without saying a word. Your eyes say everything.

