I recently polled a group of 10,000 women aged 18-35 who live in the LA-area who all belong to a private group on Facebook about what they consider to be DO’s and DON’Ts when it comes to sex. The thread was one of the most popular I’ve seen posted, with over 300 enthusiastic responses from various women telling their tales/horror stories. It was a hilarious read, to say the least. Keeping all anonymity, I read through all the responses and with their permission and selected the most memorable mentions to share with you, along with my own commentary. The original posts are in italic … [Read more...]
Women Tell All: The Worst Turn Offs in the Bedroom (Part 1)
I recently polled a group of 10,000 women aged 18-35 who live in the LA-area who all belong to a private group on Facebook about what they consider to be DO's and DON'Ts when it comes to sex. The thread was one of the most popular I've seen posted, with over 300 enthusiastic responses from various women telling their tales/horror stories. It was a hilarious read, to say the least. Keeping all anonymity, I've read through all the responses and with their permission have selected the most memorable mentions to share with you, along with my own commentary. The original posts are in … [Read more...]
8 Keys To Bottle Service (From a Bottle Service Girl’s Perspective)
I was a bottle service cocktail waitress at a popular nightclub in San Francisco for 6 years. I've been around the block :) There are typically a few types of guys you will run into that buy tables. Once you have a better perspective of what everyone else is doing, it's easier to understand where you fit in and whether or not you're the type of person who would enjoy bottle service or if it makes more sense to meet women somewhere else. The 4 primary types of dudes who you'll see getting tables in the clubs these days When you understand the four different types of guys that girls … [Read more...]
25 Ways to Know if You’re Dating a Grown-Ass Man
1. He involves you in things on his own. He makes you a part of what's going on and always includes you. This is one of the best feelings there is; being included automatically by someone you like or love. If you have to ask or put effort into be included, you were probably never really welcome in the first place, as sad as that sounds. And if this is the case, I think it's safe to say that your efforts would be better spent on another person. 2. When he goes out with you, he doesn't feel the need to change who he is to impress you/others. Ugh, the chameleon. There's just something annoying … [Read more...]
36 Turn Offs in a Man
I've already written a list of the biggest turn-ons in a man...now comes time for the list of what not to do. Jealousy when not played off well. Everyone gets jealous, it's a natural thing. It's how you act on your jealousy that defines you as a person. If a guy either 1. Starts pouting like a child or 2. Starts raging like a psycho in response to myself receiving attention from another man, it's a big turn off. The correct thing to do: let it happen, notice it...then take another sip of your whiskey as you whisper in her ear about how her ass is in demand, and it's yours. Then, remind her … [Read more...]
14 Ways To Be Fun
More than looks, more than money, more than whatever hard-to-grasp definition you want to give to “value” or “status”, the most attractive aspect of a man, that x-factor that gets him attention, attraction and dates is… …fun. That's right! Fun. My actual favorite subject :) Making the transition from someone who wouldn't describe themselves as fun to being one of the most fun people in a room will involve forcing yourself to forget about nervousness or insecurity. Personally, I think the definition of being "fun" is being comfortable with who you are, while doing your best to … [Read more...]
21 Things Every Man Needs to Know How to Do
Guest Post By Genevieve Some guys have it, and other guys simply don't. I don't want to undermine it by calling it swagger. Swagger, charm, appeal....they know what to say to a woman and how to say it. They know how to touch a woman. How to make the most uptight person smile. These aren't always the most attractive men, but one thing is definitely for sure—these are men. Whatever the scenario, and as cliche as it sounds - there is a distinct difference between men and boys. There is a certain...wisdom that comes after three decades of trial and error, bad mistakes and wonderful … [Read more...]
The Real Value of Money For Attracting Women
Guest Post By Genevieve Today I want to place focus on our personal worth, value and how it has a great affect on your life! In your opinion, do you bring value to other people around you? Be honest with yourself. If I'm ever questioning my own place within a group setting, the first question I ask myself is: what am I adding to this dynamic/situation? If the answer is nothing, the next question is always what can I add? My goal is to steadily provide something to that is going to make my being there appreciated, and that will make them appreciate and notice me. Be honest with yourself. … [Read more...]
3 Ways To Read Social Cues & Why They Matter
By Genevieve, innerconfidence.com contributor Social cue: a verbal or nonverbal hint that guides conversation and other social interactions. I want to go in depth regarding the importance of recognizing social cues and understanding why an engaging and successful interaction with a girl completely depends upon them. The importance of this topic can't be overstated! Social cues are an example of behaving the way others anticipate us to, and living up to expectations of how we're supposed to interact with each other. When we behave in a way that makes other people feel comfortable, we do it by … [Read more...]
10 More Things that Never Fail to Turn Women On
Showing Passion or Intelligence About Something I absolutely love when a man goes on excited and spirited tangents about things. It could be something as significant as the global water crisis or something as simple as how annoying your love/hate relationship with autocorrect is. It may sound strange, but intelligence and passion are huge big draws for my attention. On the contrary - they could just have the glittery-eyed expression when they explain things to me and realize that I get it. Most people tend to get frustrated and embarrassed explaining things, but I see patience and the … [Read more...]
