Sometimes a person may feel trapped by their own shortcomings, and this can result in some very strange and antisocial behavior. What kinds of things should you be on the look out for? You’re Learning Your Weaknesses If you’re interrelating with people, you may have stumbled upon things you don’t know or things you can’t do at all or as well as you’d like. In your quest to be a more fulfilled and a more fulfilling person, you’re probably taking steps to correct these things, to learn what you need or want to know and acquire the skills you seek. But these things take time. Don’t … [Read more...]
Forget every motivational speech you have ever read/heard- the real secret is coming
Forget every motivational speech you have ever read/heard- the real secret is coming....and this applies to getting women Ive read em all, watched em all. Every Steve Jobs keynote speech, Mark Cuban interview about execution, Kobe Bryant talk about hard work. We talk about this stuff a lot in the Leverage program: Taking pride in your work Executing no matter what, even if you have to kill yourself to do it Beast mode-ing Positioning yourself for opportunity Investing in human capital Etc... I think successful people have several skills that separate them from others, … [Read more...]
When you are offered a seat on a rocket ship, don’t ask which seat
I’ve discussed this before; I want to spend more time on it: Product Market Fit, also known as PMF. In tech, especially in mobile you want to achieve something called PMF. The way you do this is by offering your users a "frictionless experience". The more friction that the user is confronted with the less likely they are to use your product. If flights are 50% off then my desire is through the roof and I will tolerate an error 404 or "Time-out", but unless you are offering something like 50% off you will lose me at that moment and possibly for life if I have to deal with friction en … [Read more...]
Want more second, third, fourth dates? Add some color to your personality.
Guys ask about why they aren't getting second dates; I accuse them of being boring, vanilla losers. Well, here is some food for thought.... Most guys offer nothing unique or shocking in their conversations. It is vital that in a few small paragraphs, one can offer more insights as to how he views the world, his stance, small things about himself, etc... than most guys offer in a year of conversation with me. For example, I can tell a buddy of mine clearly doesn’t care, he doesn’t apologize, he understands human behavior and has tested different approaches. He's well written, … [Read more...]
Angry Rant – Stop Spewing Your F*cking Cash
It's amazing to me how people hemorrhage their hard earned money on a daily basis. It's also amazing how many opportunities aka layups people miss. Lets take just a few examples from members of Leverage this week: I had a private call with Rich which resulted in a bet to get him to participate more. He lost that $100 bet because he was too lazy and scatterbrained to post about a call I setup for him with a friend of mine who is very advanced in a field he wants to be in. He had 5 days to get this done, it took him 6, and I reminded him to do if after swiping his credit card. Jad is moving … [Read more...]
What makes “naturals” different?
By naturals, I mean guys who – without studying game -- consistently attract hotter and higher quality girls than what their looks and social status would normally predict. Almost every natural I know has one important thing in common: a versatile, adaptable personality. Naturals intuitively adjust to the social situation at hand. They sense the emotional vibe in a room and act accordingly. They understand how to relate to different people in different ways. At work, they are analytical. In sports, they are competitive. They are loud and funny at the bar, more subdued in smaller … [Read more...]
Are you a boob or butt guy?
I have a buddy Jason who is always talking about "big tittied blondes" his words, not mine. When I'm out with this guy every girl he sees he turns to me and says "look at those titties!" It's like he's in 7th grade and girls have grown boobs for the first time. When I look at all my friends who always date beautiful women are all ass guys. The reason is simple, having big boobs isn't a challenge. Any girl who is fat, is gonna have big boobs. But the only way to have a nice ass is to be in really good shape. It's like a skinny guy with a 6 pack, that shit doesn't count. … [Read more...]
A Great Example of How to Get Her Number on Tinder
What should I do when a girl cancels a date?
It’s a situation we’ve all been in: you recently met a girl and things seemed to click. You set up a date, and she either tells you she can’t make it, or cuts off any contact whatsoever aka "ghosts" you. When a girl cancels a date, you may find yourself in a painful situation. But how do you react? The worst thing you can do is to show that you are upset or angry. Guys often do this by texting something emotionally charged, or demanding an explanation for why she cancelled the date. The best thing you can do is to show that you aren’t phased by it. Your response should be casual and … [Read more...]
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