How Do I Get Motivation to Reach My Goals? You don’t. Everyone is wrong about motivation. You don’t need motivation to reach your goals, or to achieve success in life. So what is it that’s actually important? We all have this idea that becoming “successful” is a huge concept: a far away point to be reached, and when we get there, everything will be great. Along with this line of thinking is the idea that it takes a ton of motivation and major life changes to solve the everyday problems we face. But here’s the thing we’re never taught: that line of thinking is wrong. New research in … [Read more...]
How To Crush A Job Interview – 18 Nuggets of Wisdom
We surveyed 60 members in the Become A Social Genius group and asked them to how to crush a job interview. Here is what they had to say. Before we get into the list, the most important of all is not to freak out during the interview for any reason, like these people: http://youtu.be/hCLYh4JSus8 1. Ask questions. I am always taken back when I do an interview and the candidate just sits there and answers questions but doesn't actually have a conversation. Your inability to converse JUST with the person hiring you is a red flag! (Though I went against this when hiring developers aka the … [Read more...]
8 Rules For Being An Awesome Wingman
Every guy loves the experience of meeting an awesome girl and hitting it off with her for the first time. And that experience is even better if you are out with your buddy and you both meet girls! Going out to hit on girls together is one of the best ways to bond with your boys. So if you're gonna do it, you might as well do it right! This guide will walk you through every step of the process of having a great night out with the guys and hopefully meeting some nice ladies. Rule 1 - Looks Matter: Find a wingman who is similar to you in every way except his looks. Your wingman should dress … [Read more...]
7 Ways You’re Cock-blocking Yourself On Dates
-Another great post from on of our moderators in Leverage. Excuse my rant and how fucking OBVIOUS this shit is but I felt I needed to state all this shit cuz dudes are clearly still fucking up out there... So my roommate (female) just got back from like a month in New York. Before she left I advised her to go on as many dates as she could, basically rep the shit out of Manhattan. To give background, she is an attractive girl, well dressed, cultured, intelligent but in reality, too mature for 25 years old to be dating dudes her age and thus she has not had that much luck in Boston or … [Read more...]
The New Years Eve “Get Lucky” Guide
I hope you've got something fun planned for tonight to kick off 2014, and if you're single, I want to make sure you get some action when the ball drops! You don't wanna be THAT guy looking around for someone to kiss as the clock strikes midnight, that sucks! NYE is amateur night, everyone goes out. This is good and bad. You'll face long lines, tons of crowds, transportation headaches, etc ... so make sure you have a plan for getting to and from. I would recommend using UberX, it beats taxis and its way more convenient. Don't leave things up to the last minute, you'll likely end up … [Read more...]
Is it Possible to Change my Personality?
Where does personality come from? People describe each other by describing their traits: friendly, nice, arrogant, easy-going, etc. Traits are a collection of behaviors: if someone is charismatic, it means that they show behaviors that others think are charismatic. If someone is shy, it means they don’t go out of their way to connect with others. Any personality trait you wish to have can be broken down in terms of repeatable actions. Even something that seems abstract, like confidence, can be defined in terms of actions. For example, a confident guy is someone who approaches women … [Read more...]
The Four Reasons Why You Aren’t Reaching Your Goals
Once you’ve set goals and decided what it is you want to pursue in your life, it’s easy to get distracted and fail. For whatever reason, things come up and prevent you from accomplishing the goals you’ve determined are meaningful for you. What most people do when this happens is blame external factors: the economy is bad, it was someone else’s fault, I didn’t actually care about that goal anyway, etc. Instead of minimizing your disappointment when you fail to reach a goal, it is more important to focus on what responsibility you did play, and stop these common failure points from occurring … [Read more...]
Why Your Gut Instincts Are Often Wrong
When I work with clients, they participate in a private invite-only VIP group with me, moderators who are life beasts, and a collection of other guys who are all improving their skills with women, getting ripped, dressing like a boss and increasing their income. Almost every single one of them ended up in this group after a conversation with me where we discussed their sticking points and I presented them with this group as a solution. It probably felt uncomfortable, nerve wracking and possibly even annoying when I asked them to bust out their credit card because that was the point when … [Read more...]
How To Tell If You’re Wasting Time Talking To A Girl In A Bar…
I have a buddy who is the king of approaching a girl at a bar, asking a few questions, pulling up a stool and lighting 3 hours on fire without ever finding out if he is good or not, only to get "I have a boyfriend." at the end of the night. Ain’t nobody got time for DAT. I refuse to not know where I stand within 10 minutes. I’ve pulled 8+ numbers out of one bar many times. This is because I move along. Here are the 3 steps to make sure you never waste your time talking to a girl who isn't interested in you for too long: I identify if she is into me by touching her at the end of a … [Read more...]
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