7 Steps on How to Be A Man That Women Fall For We all want to be a man that women fall for. Whether you’re trying to get a girlfriend, or just trying to play the field for a while, you need to become a man first. As the old saying goes, women don’t want a boy… they want a man. Unfortunately, however, our society isn’t doing a great job of teaching boys how to be men. …that’s where we come in. Here at Inner Confidence, in conjunction with Robbie Kramer, we’ve come up with 7 surefire steps to help you learn how to become a man. Step 1. Find Your Bigger … [Read more...]
Does She Want Me Or Not? 10 Ways To Test For Attraction & Know When To Make A Move
Most guys don’t have a mental model of the process of seducing a woman. Our culture tells us is it should come natural but I’ll tell you in a minute how that ones out for me. Spoiler Alert: NOT GOOD lI’ll speak from my own experience and admit that until my early 20’s I was 90% the boring nice guy or 10% of the time the aggressive creepy guy in the club. This was my modus operandi between 1997-2005 age (15-23) - In social circle situations with girls I was interested in (high school and college) I erred heavily on the side of caution and acted as the wallflower. It was safer to … [Read more...]
18 Reasons Why Rock Climbing Is The Best Date Idea Ever
Why you should be rock climbing (for dating).... I googled ‘rock climbing gym’ then hit images. Notice how many girls are in the images. 18 reasons why you should do this: There are days I’ve gone to a climbing gym and there have been 42 girls and 26 guys. Groups of 2-4 girls often go climbing. Climbing is very social. It’s totally normal for one group of randoms to make friends with another group of randoms. In one session you could in theory talk to 20 people. You could also talk to zer0 if you choose. Both are common. If you meet a girl and she climbs, she’s in shape … [Read more...]
A Step-by-Step Guide to a Manly Bathroom Every Chick Will Love
Generally, men do not like girly baths where they trip over scented candles and essential oils. However, as a man, you also want to please your girl. So you need a bathroom that she will like just as much as you do. Here are suggestions you can use to help you decorate your manly bathroom in a way that your chick will love. Bathroom with walk in shower and white countertop basin 1. Mix dark and bright colors As a man, you probably like subtle and dark colors. However, most women like bright colors. It's a great idea to mix a little bit of both so that you have a balanced color scheme that … [Read more...]
Text Breakdown: First date was awesome but scheduling a second date is a challenge.
Context: Met on Tinder, missed getting together for like 3 weeks, finally went out Friday. She was pretty touchy, made out in uber on way to bar #2, closed out bar 2, it's 2am and she was going to come home with me but also had to be at work at 6:30 so ended up going home on her own instead, good call. She was a little drunk and kinda toppled over outside the bar when we were figuring out what to do, dragged me down with her, it was hilarious. Really like this chick a lot and she seemed enthusiastic but now don't know where I stand. I let it sit for for today, she never got back to … [Read more...]
What Women Really Think About Your Beard
My friend Wesley, over at iManscape. wrote an article around that subject that focuses on what women really think of men with beards. He broke down information from many studies into an easy to read article covering the topic and threw in some tips for the men. Some of the data might surprise you... https://imanscape.com/what-women-think-about-beards/ … [Read more...]
Meeting women through nightlife
My buddy Drew is on the short list of people I respect in the world of nightclub promoting. He’s the newest moderator in the Leverage Program, and he has a great story of how he stumbled on club promoting and became wildly successful at it. Last week I had him on the podcast where we talked about his story. He shares his tips of how normal guys can be successful in the nightlife scene. Check out the episode here. This week, I’m bringing him back to discuss how you can use nightlife networking skills to meet women and have fun when you go out. Meeting women through nightlife can be easy … [Read more...]
How to get more dates
As you know, the best way to get the dating life you want is to optimize your strategy as much as you can based on your lifestyle and personality. But just because you're being efficient and optimal doesn't mean you shouldn't also be exhausting as many funnels as you can to meet chicks and other cool dudes. This was inspired by one of my students, Jeff. Jeff is in his mid 20s and he's a solid likable guy who's got his life together and is fun to be around. The problem is that he's not getting nearly the amount of dates a guy in his shoes should be getting. I have reason to believe that this … [Read more...]
Why is this girl being flaky?
You meet a girl and things start out well, but she starts getting distant or flaky. It’s a situation we’ve all been in. Steve, a Leverage Program member, posted a great question in our private members area about this very situation. Here's his question: A girl I'm enthusiastic is being flaky about our third date. Our conversation has always been smooth and to me it seems like we share mutual chemistry. We met on Tinder and got drinks on our first date. Our second date was a cooking date at my place. We made out, cuddled in our underwear, and I cooked her breakfast the next morning. We … [Read more...]
The truth about confidence and rejection
If you don't feel confident in your dating life, it says nothing about your character. It's just an indication that you need more practice so you can stack more wins. There's a lot of nonsense out there on what confidence is, or what it takes to develop confidence. Confidence is the thoughts and feelings that result from a series of wins stacked together. It's your expectation of how you'll perform in a given situation, and it's different from self-esteem, which is your overall evaluation of yourself. I was reviewing Mate by Tucker Max yesterday and found a brilliant definition of … [Read more...]
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