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The 3 F’s: How to Become An Expert At Anything

by Robbie Leave a Comment

I love when someone tells me that something is "simple, but not easy." Many of the best things in life fit this saying. Fitness. Nutrition. Confidence. Meeting women. Day game. These areas have simple rules for success, and then they require hard work applying those rules. Expert performance is the same way. It's simple, but not easy. How simple? The path to becoming an expert can be broken down into three steps that anyone can understand and apply immediately. 1. Focus This doesn't mean a general sense of focus. This is referring to taking a microscope on the skills that comprise … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: become an expert, Inner Confidence, meet more women, meeting women, Robbie Kramer

Why Getting Rejected Is Good…

by Robbie 21 Comments

Why is rejection so scary? Our society does a great job of instilling shame in men. Growing up as kids, and even into our adult lives, we’re told toxic messages that can hold us back for a lifetime. Sometimes this shame originates from the people around us. Our parents or friends tell us these messages explicitly: that guy’s a player and you shouldn’t be like that. Or they could be more subtle messages from the media and movies: in order to get a girl to like you, you need to be nice and submissive. People mean well when they give us this kind of advice. Despite their good intentions, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: dealing with rejection, fear, get rejected more, getting rejected by women, meet more women, meeting women, rejection, social anxiety

How To Start Taking Responsibility Like An Adult

by Robbie Leave a Comment

When things don’t go your way, it’s easy to place the blame on anything but yourself. It's a natural reaction for most people. Didn’t get that promotion? Boss must have it in for you. Car accident? You’re a perfect driver so it was the other guy’s fault. Can’t lose weight? Bad genetics. Regarding injuries, contact the best car accident lawyer near you. While it's easy to say this is bad, this tendency has some value. It can serve as a psychological defense mechanism that prevents people from thinking depressing thoughts. If we were to act as if everything negative in our lives is our … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable

Why is approaching so important for building confidence?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

You've heard me say it over and over, but if you expect to get results and you're not crushing approaches or already dating multiple women, it's just not gonna happen. If you wanna get good at basketball you've gotta take a ton of shots right? You can't expect to show up at the court, stand around with the ball and expect to improve can you? Well, that's what many of you guys are doing, and then whining that you suck and the program isn't working. That line of thinking is actually offensive to guys who have put in the work. Robbie crushed 10k approaches by the time he was in his late … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Social Skills, Uncomfortable Tagged With: approaching, authentic dating, building confidence, date more girls, dating, dating advice, daygame, get a date, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, social anxiety, social skills

Can Hypnosis Get You Laid?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Here’s my interview with hypnotherapist and Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP) Master Practitioner Jonny Dupre on how to form emotional connections with women. PART 1 PART 2 The idea that hypnosis and NLP could be used to attract women first occurred to me when I read The Game in college. One of the more memorable scenes in the book is when Ross Jeffries runs an NLP routine on an unsuspecting waitress.  Soon enough, the waitress falls into a trance and admits to Ross that she's attracted to him even though he’s not her type. When I first read the book, I assumed that the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Inner Game Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, building confidence, date more girls, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid asap, Inner Confidence, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, sleep with her, starting a business

Why is it hard to stop chasing girls?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A common piece of advice for men is "don't chase girls." It's good advice, and it's a piece of advice I've given before. And yet, a lot of the advice from beginners is still “how do I get this girl to like me when she doesn’t?” Why is it so hard for beginners to follow? Before we answer that, let’s take a step back. It's crucial to understand that the only lasting method of having women in your life is to first, develop the characteristics that women find attractive, second, learn how to display those characteristics, and third, put yourself in situations where the kind of women you want to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: become dynamic, building confidence, Cosmo Kramer, dating advice, get better with women, get laid, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, sleep with her

Why Your Life Depends On Being Assertive

by Robbie 1 Comment

Like most guys on this journey of self-improvement, one of the hardest things I ever struggled with was overcoming social anxiety. Often I knew how I'd like my life to be different, and I recognized how I'd behave in a world where I had unlimited confidence. Some part of me knew what to do, but anxiety stopped me from doing it. Getting past that anxiety and starting to develop true inner confidence and self-acceptance was tough. And not just tough as in the way our society views hard work, but tough in the way that only comes from challenging who you view yourself as a person. Tough doesn't … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: assertive, assertiveness, authentic dating, dating, expressing yourself, get better with women, how to be assertive, Inner Confidence, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, standing up for yourself, taking risks

Why You Aren’t Making Enough Mistakes

by Robbie 1 Comment

We all know the cliches about how you fail your way to success, or how you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. It’s common knowledge in our culture that the way you get better at something is by making mistakes. But is it really? A lot of guys don’t realize that they’re looking for dating coach because they’re looking for permission to make mistakes. They might “know” that they need to make mistakes to get better, but they don’t actually believe it. They get a coach because they want someone else to tell them it's ok to mess up. One area where this shows itself is when guys are too … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, building confidence, dating, get a date, get better with women, making mistakes, meeting women, mistakes, Robbie Kramer, taking risks

Why The Stories You’re Telling Yourself Don’t Help

by Robbie Leave a Comment

One of the most popular features of the Leverage Program is that guys post writeups of social experiences and interactions they have, and they get feedback from other members and experts in the group. The best way to get systematic step-by-step advice based on what we know works is to be objective. Both when you're looking at your own life and your own interactions, you need to get specific about behaviors. Here's an excerpt from a writeup of a Leverage Program member recalling an interaction while out at a bar: "She then gets mad at me over something stupid (I went out to check on her … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, dating advice, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, leverage program, Robbie Kramer, value of mentors

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