1. He involves you in things on his own. He makes you a part of what's going on and always includes you. This is one of the best feelings there is; being included automatically by someone you like or love. If you have to ask or put effort into be included, you were probably never really welcome in the first place, as sad as that sounds. And if this is the case, I think it's safe to say that your efforts would be better spent on another person. 2. When he goes out with you, he doesn't feel the need to change who he is to impress you/others. Ugh, the chameleon. There's just something annoying … [Read more...]
How To Throw A Party- 21 Tips
#1 Girls will flake. A large % of them. #2 Dudes will bring dudes. #3 Always have enough alcohol and mixers. You can return what you don't use (if you are poor or don't plan on any future parties). Just make sure you keep some hidden and only break it out if needed as some addicts can empty everything before you know it. If you know any such people, get them enrolled at a Miami addiction rehab centre to help them. #4 have sufficient cups/glasses/wine glasses/shot glasses etc #5 A good play list always helps. #6 Invite every girl you have ever met or know. Relax- 90% of them … [Read more...]
What Would You Say To Your 15 Year Old Self About Picking Up Girls?
One of the things I have my clients in my Leverage Program do once a quarter is to submit an essay about where they were 3 months ago and what they've learned since, so that they can consciously see how far they've come. A lot of times guys are so focused on the struggles and looking up at how much higher they have to climb on the mountain that they forget to look back and see how far they've already gone. A little progress every day goes a long way. Sometimes you have to stop and smell the roses in order to appreciate the progress you've made. It's very easy for someone to get … [Read more...]
14 Ways To Be Fun
More than looks, more than money, more than whatever hard-to-grasp definition you want to give to “value” or “status”, the most attractive aspect of a man, that x-factor that gets him attention, attraction and dates is… …fun. That's right! Fun. My actual favorite subject :) Making the transition from someone who wouldn't describe themselves as fun to being one of the most fun people in a room will involve forcing yourself to forget about nervousness or insecurity. Personally, I think the definition of being "fun" is being comfortable with who you are, while doing your best to … [Read more...]
The Truth About Goals & The Myth of Motivation
How Do I Get Motivation to Reach My Goals? You don’t. Everyone is wrong about motivation. You don’t need motivation to reach your goals, or to achieve success in life. So what is it that’s actually important? We all have this idea that becoming “successful” is a huge concept: a far away point to be reached, and when we get there, everything will be great. Along with this line of thinking is the idea that it takes a ton of motivation and major life changes to solve the everyday problems we face. But here’s the thing we’re never taught: that line of thinking is wrong. New research in … [Read more...]
The New Years Eve “Get Lucky” Guide
I hope you've got something fun planned for tonight to kick off 2014, and if you're single, I want to make sure you get some action when the ball drops! You don't wanna be THAT guy looking around for someone to kiss as the clock strikes midnight, that sucks! NYE is amateur night, everyone goes out. This is good and bad. You'll face long lines, tons of crowds, transportation headaches, etc ... so make sure you have a plan for getting to and from. I would recommend using UberX, it beats taxis and its way more convenient. Don't leave things up to the last minute, you'll likely end up … [Read more...]
21 Things Every Man Needs to Know How to Do…
Guest Post By Genevieve Some guys have it, and other guys simply don't. I don't want to undermine it by calling it swagger. Swagger, charm, appeal....they know what to say to a woman and how to say it. They know how to touch a woman. How to make the most uptight person smile. These aren't always the most attractive men, but one thing is definitely for sure—these are men. Whatever the scenario, and as cliche as it sounds - there is a distinct difference between men and boys. There is a certain...wisdom that comes after three decades of trial and error, bad mistakes and wonderful … [Read more...]
The Four Reasons Why You Aren’t Reaching Your Goals
Once you’ve set goals and decided what it is you want to pursue in your life, it’s easy to get distracted and fail. For whatever reason, things come up and prevent you from accomplishing the goals you’ve determined are meaningful for you. What most people do when this happens is blame external factors: the economy is bad, it was someone else’s fault, I didn’t actually care about that goal anyway, etc. Instead of minimizing your disappointment when you fail to reach a goal, it is more important to focus on what responsibility you did play, and stop these common failure points from occurring … [Read more...]
Why Your Gut Instincts Are Often Wrong
When I work with clients, they participate in a private invite-only VIP group with me, moderators who are life beasts, and a collection of other guys who are all improving their skills with women, getting ripped, dressing like a boss and increasing their income. Almost every single one of them ended up in this group after a conversation with me where we discussed their sticking points and I presented them with this group as a solution. It probably felt uncomfortable, nerve wracking and possibly even annoying when I asked them to bust out their credit card because that was the point when … [Read more...]
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