Creating strong emotional connections, especially in a short amount of time, is a difficult skill to master. Anyone who is missing the signals that girls send and not connecting is thinking way too much about what's going on in their own head: insecurities, thoughts, what to say next, etc. They're focusing on the craziness in of their mind instead of the person in front of their face. They're directing their attention to the wrong place. Before getting into how to create a deep connection, it's important to understand what "vibing" is. Guys who are good with women know how to vibe. They … [Read more...]
The Keys To Fixing Your Body Language
Body language is one of the most important ways you communicate. Women and successful men perceive what your body language shows about you in less than a second. Since it's processed on the subconscious level, your body language will make or break the interaction before you ever open your mouth. Unfortunately, guys who didn’t grow up with a masculine, athletic, macho, infrastructure in their lives never absorbed the confident body language that turns women on, so they're at a disadvantage on the dating market. Being aware of your own unconfident body language is a crucial step, but it’s … [Read more...]
Want to Hook Up with Her? Give it 7 Hours and You’re Usually Golden
One of my clients met a girl a while back who he really liked. She liked him too, and they texted back and forth for a while before setting up a date (side note: if you’re spending days texting girls and not meeting up with them, you suck at text game and you need THIS). He picks her up at 5:00 pm, and they spend the next few hours bouncing from location to location, getting to know each other, and making out. This girl didn’t have a job, she was fresh out of college and living with her parents. At 11:00 pm, six hours later, he took her home. And left her there. BAD MOVE. The Magical 7 … [Read more...]
Building Your Ecosystem: Who’s Got Your Back?
One of the most important factors in improving your lifestyle, creating a better dating life, and having a masculine lifestyle, is who you choose to surround yourself with. Who you allow to influence your thinking dictates how you experience the world. You absorb the mental models and worldviews of the people in your ecosystems, and those beliefs can make or break you. The result: if there’s something you want to achieve, you need to be around people who are already doing it. If you want to get into the banking game or the hedge fund game, you don’t need to hang out with artists, you … [Read more...]
Review of the IC Introductory Workshop
We recently had 5 new clients join our Leverage Program from the Phoenix area. I always love when this happens because it creates a satellite community within our group and because the guys are local, it's very easy for them to spend time together, wing each other, and push each other to grow faster. And because all of these guys were at pretty similar levels when it came to meeting women, I decided to drive out to Phoenix for the weekend with a few of the moderators to get these guys started off on the right foot. (Review of The Phoenix Workshop - By Jad Morris) I'm at … [Read more...]
Why You Must Provide Uncertain Outcomes In Order to Stand Out In The Eyes of Women
Everything in dating is about user experience. If you want to do well, you need to be considering what kind of experience you're providing for the people you interact with, especially when you're trying to show your personality to make a good first impression. Most women have had countless dates with guys that start out the same way. “Hey, how’s it going? Did you have an okay time getting here? Yeah. Did you find parking okay? Yeah. Oh cool, so what do you do? How do you like it?” It’s the same experience. There’s nothing exciting about that at all. On the other hand, when you tease and … [Read more...]
Do Looks Matter?
Guys looking to meet women often ask the question, “Do looks matter?” It depends. The short answer: They matter more to girls who are young and inexperienced with dating. As women get older and look to settle down and have a family, they hardly matter at all. The long answer: [Begin Rant] When most girls start dating, they target guys who they find good looking. She may tell her friends that their high school crush, Johnny, is hot because he has a six pack, big blue eyes and great hair. But she also omitted from her statement that he has great body language, swagger, … [Read more...]
The Difference Between a 21-Year-Old Woman and a 31-Year-Old Woman
A guy walks into a bar. He sees a hot 21-year-old sitting at one of the bar, and he sees a hot 31-year-old sitting at the other end. Does he use the same game on both chicks? Answer: NO WAY! Being good at gaming is about surveying the playing field and knowing who you’re dealing with. A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. There are challenges and rewards with both. The most put-together dudes will instantly assess the landscape and know how to approach each woman in a way that jives with her sensibilities. Essentially, he gets … [Read more...]
How To Pickup A Waitress
Women that are working get hit on all the time. You know how many idiot duchebags, after just being served by a waitress at Hooters will hand the girl their business card and say “We should... We should go for coffee sometime.” You wouldn't believe how often this happens. If you talk to these girls and ask them about it; it’s crazy. It might happen to someone in that situation up to fifteen times a day. What I've done for years and years at a super busy bar, when I'm trying to maneuver quickly, in the typical bar scenario, So basically I will lean in, all serious, like it is a very serious … [Read more...]
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