Many people want a better social life. Like a lot of things, they want it immediately. Is there any fast-track, shortcut or magic bullet to having a fulfilling social life? The Effort Involved in a Social Life A social life is a thing of great complexity, risk and advantage. This is an immediate gratification culture, but a healthy and active social life isn’t created overnight. A social life takes a great deal of deliberate planning. Time and money must be invested. Diligence and near manic energy are absolute necessities to see your social life make a profoundly positive turn. Perhaps … [Read more...]
7 Vocal Exercises You Should Do To Become More Confident
Improving your speaking voice is something that 99% of guys don’t do, and as a result it’s a secret way to make yourself more attractive to women. Women are attracted to a guy with a powerful voice, and the qualities they are attracted to are not something you’re born with. They are all things that you develop. Some guys are fortunate to have naturally picked up good habits from their peers, friends, and families. But even professionals like sportscasters have spent hundreds of hours working on their own and with coaches to sound more confident. Since you’re the type of guy who puts … [Read more...]
Young Men Age 18-24, A Note To My Younger Self…
I sat in my office earlier today listening to Pandora when Brad Paisley's "Letter to Me" came on (I'm from Texas give me a break). It's basically a song about the advice the older Brad Paisley would give to his 17 year old self. This made me think of you. A blank canvas.You're very forward-thinking which is impressive for a 17 year old. I applaud you, sir - stay in this group and you're going to be absolutely unstoppable by the time you've finished your education. Having just turned 24, I realize that I have very little time left in the 18-24 young adult age bracket. Which is a good thing … [Read more...]
What are some ways I can develop my personality?
Do off the wall shit more often. Flirt with every service industry worker you encounter. I heard a friend use this ridiculous line when ordering furniture "I'm not sure if you're aware but today is the 2nd I believe, which makes it National Cort Furniture Discount Day... you guys are celebrating right?" He got an extra 5% off a multi-thousand dollar order. I now use the line for every situation imaginable. In the past week I've used to to save $150 on a UHaul rental, got a free burger at In N Out, and VIP Passes at The Spearmint Rhino strip club in Vegas. I don't start off with that … [Read more...]
“You Gonna Pay” – Why Every Man Who Feels Pain In Their Love Life Should Hire A Dating Coach
I was listening to a client of mine named Peter complain about how expensive drinks, dinners and dates are. He said he just went on a date, spent $120 and got no love. She wouldn’t even hold his hand. But Peter is no Casanova, in fact, most women think he’s gay. I told him that pimpin ain’t easy or cheap and he had a very long road of hard work ahead of him. I then explained the following. Most people only think of penny out, good or service in. Penny in, penny out. They don't take time to measure anything else. In economics we talk about "utility": An economic term referring … [Read more...]
Party Planning – How To Plan The Perfect Birthday Party For Your Buddy At The Club
My buddy John’s birthday was yesterday. We had originally discussed doing something for it and then he sent me a text saying "nah too much work ill skip on big bday". You'll see that I said "bullshit, I’ll plan it for you". I also invited my buddy James and his wife + a buddy (life beast) who brought a girl. That put my head count at 3 guys 7 girls that I brought to the party. I also had my girl get all the mixers, appetizers, etc ($250). We set up all the stuff and people came rolling in. My buddy Robbie pulled one of the top 5 most criminal moves in my book. He invited James who is an … [Read more...]
9 Simple Conversation Hacks – How To Turn Any Interaction In Your Favor
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Why Most Guys Suck At Connecting With Women
We’ve talked on this blog about how one of the most important skills you can develop is social awareness. But this can a big abstract concept, so let’s break it down into smaller skills you can practice. When you look at guys who are great with women, or more generally, anyone with good social awareness, they perform a bunch of smaller actions that add up to a killer ability to communicate and get what they want. Knowing social protocol conveys that you’re a competent guy who has his stuff together. In social psychology, researchers have found three main categories that people tend talk … [Read more...]
Strengthening Your Social Muscles
Arguably, social awareness is one of the most attractive traits to women. Fortunately, it’s more of a skill than a trait. So forget the idea that you’re either born with or your aren’t. But why is social awareness one of the most important traits you can develop? And why is it also one of the most attractive traits women are subconsciously wired to respond to? First, let’s talk about what it is. Social awareness is your ability to make the people around you feel understood and make them feel comfortable with you. It’s being smart about human relationships and interactions. This includes … [Read more...]
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