Texting is a part of the dating game, but let's get one thing straight: Text game isn't the magic pill to get girls to like you. The goal of texting should be simple. You're aiming to get her to meet up with you in person again. Period.

The 1-10 Scale

You meet a girl. You get her number. Now, how does she feel about you? The answer lies on The Pre-Date Attraction Scale.

The Text Game Trap

If she's between 3-6, she might be talking to other guys too. You're not her main focus. Trying to be too funny or clever in texts can backfire. It makes you look needy. The best move? See if she's up for a date. If she says yes, you're moving up the scale. If not, you're out—until you maybe cross paths again.

Optimal Strategy: The 7+ Rule

Another way to go? Don’t ask her out unless she's a 7 or higher on the scale. Use social media to keep you on her mind. Invite her to group stuff if she’s a 6-7. If she's higher than that, go ahead and ask her out.

Matching Her Vibe

Once she’s interested, you don’t have to keep being the funny guy. Just match her level. If she’s all in, you don’t need to keep impressing her. Just be you.

Text Spectrum: Casual to Witty

Think of your texts like a sliding scale. If you had a solid in-person connection, keep it chill. If you only had a short chat at the bar, that’s when you bring out the jokes and memes. Neediness is a deal-breaker, but sometimes you gotta put in more effort to make it work.

Now you know the real deal about text game. It's not about being the funniest or the most clever.

It’s about getting her to want to see you again. Stick to the basics and you’ll do just fine.