Context: Met on Tinder, missed getting together for like 3 weeks, finally went out Friday. She was pretty touchy, made out in uber on way to bar #2, closed out bar 2, it's 2am and she was going to come home with me but also had to be at work at 6:30 so ended up going home on her own instead, good call. She was a little drunk and kinda toppled over outside the bar when we were figuring out what to do, dragged me down with her, it was hilarious. Really like this chick a lot and she seemed enthusiastic but now don't know where I stand. I let it sit for for today, she never got back to … [Read more...]
How to send texts that get dates
I'll be the first to admit it: texting is hard. When you're texting a girl you've recently met, you don't have a strong relationship yet. You don't have the benefit of seeing her facial reactions, so you can’t adjust your approach in real time. As a result, most texting fails. But it can work well. I've had so much practice that texting has become effortless. Witty responses that make women attracted automatically pop into my brain. Many of my students have learned the same skills. They now use day game and Tinder to meet women who they text to get dates. But even though text game is … [Read more...]
The texting mistake most guys make
Text game isn’t really an effective strategy to get girls attracted to you. It’s designed for one thing: to get her face to face with you again. After you met when you got her number either in person or online,she feels some way towards you on. Let’s put it on a scale of 1-10, with 1 being she has no interest and it was a pity number, and 10 being she wants to have your babies. If she’s not flirty back, doesn’t ask any questions, or doesn’t drive the conversation, then you have to guess she is somewhere between a 3-6. A 1 or 2 wouldn’t respond, would reject you, or be extremely curt. A … [Read more...]
Texting: The Fundamentals Of Communicating With Women
It's finally here! The long-awaited video of Robbie Kramer's latest 21 Convention speech is up. … [Read more...]
Why do I get nervous when I text girls?
This question was asked by a member of the Leverage Program Question: Why do I get nervous when I text girls? There are two ways to deal with being nervous when you text girls. Keep in mind that your ultimate goal isn't to stop being nervous, it is to text the right things to advance the relationship. 1. Using mental strategies to talk yourself out being nervous. While it's natural to get nervous when you text due to overthinking it, a lot of your progress will just come with experience. The more reps you put in, the more familiar you get used to texting girls, so it stops being a big … [Read more...]
Avoid the Over-Gaming Trap: How to Know When to Pull Back
There’s an art to knowing when to game and when to push back. Too often I see cool dudes hitting it off with a girl at a bar, she’s really into him, and he just doesn’t know when to transition to the next phase of the interaction. Are you guilty of over-gaming? What is Over-Gaming? I see over-gaming all the time, but one recent experience comes to mind as especially aggravating. I almost broke my cell phone over this guy’s head because it was so annoying. The dude was just trying too hard to be funny; he was pushing everything too much. In this case, he was speaking to what was a … [Read more...]
Hitting On A Girl At The Gym
A Leverage Program member asked: Met a girl in the private apartment gym tonight. I just finished working out and she walked in and went to the treadmill so I also went to the treadmill. I opened her with "Wanna race?" We talked for about 15 minutes and I invited her to go bike riding sometime. She asked if she can use one of my extra bikes. I realize that I deviated from the standard protocol by asking her for a bike ride instead of a bar or coffee date and Robbie said that these type of dates are good second dates. It's just that I felt that she was more likely to say yes to that. It … [Read more...]
Texting Advice: Should You Send Her Sexual Texts?
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“Did you get my text?”
One of our Leverage members, Tom, recently posted this text exchange in our group and asked for feedback. Backstory from Tom: I met a hot Mexican hottie yesterday. She spoke broken english with a sexy accent. I was at Jumpstreet trampolines with my kids. Alondra gets to the place with 4 kids at the same time as us. I had fun talking to her in line and found her watching me do 6 back flips in a row. She said I could sit down with her at her table. We laughed and had a connected conversation. She gave me her number and said she was to busy with her kids to date anyone right now with her 5 … [Read more...]
6 Keys To Optimizing Your Tinder Profile
Tinder recently came out with a new controversial update called Tinder Plus. Most love it, and the cheapskates hate it... I'm gonna show you to use it for maximum efficiency to improve your dating life. These features of Tinder Plus include: The option un-swipe someone, or “rewind”, if you didn’t mean to swipe left and reject them. Unlimited likes. Passport Mode - You can swipe with people around the country. This is great if your traveling because it allows you to setup dates before you show up in a new city. This feature alone makes the monthly fee worth it. The one new … [Read more...]
