Why The Clothes You Wear Matter:
Too many guys have the misconception that the clothing they wear only matters to “shallow” women, and that the women they want to date aren’t “superficial.” This is flat out wrong for a variety of reasons.
Humans make social judgements about others subconsciously. While it’s tempting to say that your clothes and appearance shouldn’t matter because it’s a superficial judgement, the reality is that we ALL judge each other based on appearance.
Obviously men judge women based on appearance; that’s just how male attraction works. But sometimes we forget that this is also how we size up other men, like when we figure out if someone is an athlete, corporate geek, or hipster, for example. You can bet that women judge each other the same way, because why else would designer handbags exist?
It’s important to remember this happens subconsciously. Women aren’t into your clothes per se; they’re into what they convey about your personality. The way you dress conveys your lifestyle, profession, and character traits. Everything you put on is a billboard advertising to women who you are as a person, which is why it’s crucial to send the right signals through the way you dress.
Your clothes also scream to women whether or not you have social intelligence. Not being aware of social norms is a dealbreaker for hot women. If you’re wearing boot cut jeans with flashy stitching on pockets, it’s obvious to women that you don’t “get it.” They might not even consciously realize they’re thinking this! At this point it doesn’t even matter how good your conversation skills are because they’ll already be turned off.
You don’t need to break the bank to dress in a way that’s attractive to women. Your clothes are an effective way to signal two things about yourself: status and taste. So yes, having expensive clothes can be one way to signify high status. But there’s nothing worse than seeing a guy wearing expensive clothes that don’t fit. It goes to show how demonstrating your taste through your clothes is much more important than status. A fancy brand won’t do anything for you if the cut or fit is wrong.
Your personality traits have to be demonstrated, not spoken. Wearing stylish clothes that fit well is one of the best ways to do this before you ever open your mouth. Want to learn how to stop sending the wrong signals to women through your clothing? Get started today!
Download this Ebook to learn:
- The essential pieces of the man’s basic wardrobe and how many of each you need.
- Where to shop, how to get the most bang for your buck and find great return policies.
- How to buy shoes for any occasion.
- V necks, blazers, hats, scarfs and gloves.
- How to buy jeans and fitted button-down shirts.
- Colors, fit, brand and style.
- Belts, socks and underwear. (this is more important than you might think)
- The Suit and Jacket Guide
- Examples and pictures of exactly how to implement these strategies.
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