Guys often ask about lying to women, and if it’s an effective strategy to reaching their attraction goals.
If you want to be the guy who lies to get women, you can totally be that guy.
No one is going to stop you, and you may see some short-term results.
We’re definitely not going to be the ones to moralistic on you, because we understand where you’re coming from.
The thing is, it’s not the most effective way to get women.
At first glance, lying may seem like a shortcut, or a “hack” in the system.
However, hot women have very good BS detectors that have been honed through a lifetime of social interaction.
They are constantly in the limelight, and because of getting constant opportunities to socialize, they pick up on social cues you don’t even realize you’re sending.
Women in general are better at reading social cues than men, so more often than not, lying isn’t the shortcut that guys often perceive it to be.
So what actually works?
The trick is to figure out what natural personality strengths and traits you have, identify your target market where women value those characteristics, and continue to develop your personality.
Different types of women will respond to your approach differently depending on if it’s day versus night, what type of venue you’re at, the city you’re in, the social activity you’re engaged in, and a lot of deeper social factors we discuss in the Inner Confidence Leverage program.
In the short run and long run, this will net you better results and more fulfillment.
It’s one of those things in life that’s simple, but not easy: develop the things about yourself that you want to develop, and identify the women who value those specific things.
This is why it’s CRUCIAL to know your target audience.
It’s too bad, right?
Unfortunately, this is one of those situations where Michael Jordan’s advice that “Nothing of value comes without being earned” is definitely true.