Online dating is now the second most common way that people are getting together.
The good news is, you have access to a ton of beautiful women by a click of your mouse. The bad news is, so does every other guy.
It’s a very competitive market, and most guys who put up a profile and send a few messages do not get the response they were anticipating. Their messages go unread, women don’t respond, and very few visit their profile.
A hot girl will receive on average 25-35 messages per day! This is in addition to her normal social life, which is jam-packed with social opportunities, dates, parties, etc. When she logs into her account after a long weekend and sees 100+ messages, there is no way she can possibly read them all. She will skim the first sentence of her messages and only read the ones that stand out.
Most men spend on average 2-3 months online before giving up. Don’t be another statistic. You must stand out from the pack if you want to get dates.
Don’t be like every other lame dude other online. 99 out of 100 guys:
- “Like to go out with their boys or have a quiet Friday night.”
- “Are loyal.”
- “ Love their iPhone.”
- “Like to try new things.”
- “Are spontaneous, easygoing. ”
- “Like to run/work out.”
Every dude has these statements in their profiles above, don’t be that idiot. When a girl is running through her options she is fed about 10 guys at a time. Her eyes immediately go toward the best looking guys, then she read the parts of his profile that are revealed. You have 3 seconds to capture her attention. Your opening lines of each paragraph need to be explosive.
Example: “What are you doing on a typical Friday night?”
- “Defending my handstand Crown 2011, 2012, 2013.”
- “Doing 720 Pancake flips for crowds and shaking it for dollar bills.”
- “When the madness settles, I read verses of The Cat in the Hat in a Samuel L. Jackson voice at the local church 🙂 Okay, one or more of those may be lies.”
Our goal is teach you how to use online dating as a passive form of social income – how to fill your calendar with dates without leaving your house. (But that doesn’t mean you should sit in the house all day; you should be meeting women everywhere and refining your in-person social skills. You’ll need them on your dates!)
Our online dating strategy has been time-tested and proven to get the best results. I have a standing wager of $10,000 that I am the single greatest online profile builder/date on the planet. I will escrow $10,000 that not one person is as good as me. We would use identical pictures and the same location to control for variables. Take this advice seriously, and please don’t go rogue and deviate from what is outlined.
Do not use gimmicky apps like “My Best Face” picture chooser app on OKCupid. Your profile cannot read serious, or heavy. There are subtle and charismatic ways to convey that you are serious.
Goal: to be fun, charismatic, different, and cool (without looking like you are trying)
Your pictures should tell a story. If you are cocky/tough guy, a pic with your mom is cool. If you are soft, a pic with your mom will be a bad look. If you are in a good shape/athletic, a pic in a shirt that makes you look fit is good, but don’t go overboard. Absolutely no topless pictures or selfies.
- In a suit
- Being silly retarded
- Making sushi
- Out with a couple friends
- In workout gear
- With my mom in a foreign country
This tells a story that I’m dynamic, interesting, well-rounded, the man you have always dreamed of. I’m serious, but playful, tough, but loving, intelligent, but easygoing. If you have pictures with your sister make sure you announce that. DO NOT put pictures up with chicks, selfies, or topless. If you are intriguing, she will want to learn more.
Most sites allow you to see who is checking you out. These situations are a layup. I message her “You stopped by and didn’t say hi?! LOL You hate me, don’t you? ”
What if you see a hot chick you like, or what if a girl messages “Hi”?
You look through her profile and make a joke or two about her profile.
Be clear and concise in all your exchanges. Don’t write her novels; you will look desperate. Get her number/a date within 5 messages.
Do not get stuck in the messaging vortex. Get the date with “So this is the part where I ask you out, then we go out, and you’ll have a great time, I 35% guarantee it. How’s your schedule?” Trade numbers, then go cold and confirm date just before if it’s a few days out.
Change ONE thing about your profile each day – even a period. This will bump your profile and get you more views/messages.
If you are not a witty and hilarious writer, you could end up spending hours trying to perfect your profile. If you do not see results, you’ll make changes and hope you’re on the right track. Save yourself the time and headache and let us do it for you. We will choose your pictures and write a customized profile completely unique to you based on the information we’ll ask you to submit. And if you really want to outsource your online experience, we will even message women and set up dates for you.