Show Notes:
[00:20] The way of the superior man
[00:30] Should choose 150 books and read the over and over during your lifetime. At every time you read a book, you are at a different place in life and see it a different way.
[01:12] Follow your excitement. Once you follow your excitement and passion, it is easier to attract who you want in your life- the energy pulls people in.
[05:40] Your passion is number one, so do whatever you need to do to find it. Women are super attracted to guys who have a passion, and you should always put your passion before women.
[07:20] You can make it anywhere. You never have to be stuck in a certain country or a certain place. The more passion you have about what you are doing, the easier it is.
[09:00] If you ever put a women before your passion, it will kill the attraction.
[15:15] The reason you are attracted to someone in the beginning is also the reason you resent them later. Resentment kills relationships.
[25:00] Your route is never going to be perfect. It’s never a straight line.
[17:10] When you are in a conversation with a women, it does nothing to suggest to fix problems. Don’t confuse not fixing problems with making decisions.
[18:02] James gives us an example. In the past, I would constantly being able to fix problems, but you don’t have to do that.
[20:25] What the feminine really craves is your consciousness, and what your crave from the feminine is their beauty.
[21:58] Your track record is meaningless to her. It doesn’t matter if you have had 20 straight years, you fuck up one time, you are the worst. Your track record is meaningful to other guys.
[22:46] Never change your mind to please a woman.
[23:02] Fixing problems is not what they care about.
[27:11] You will always want other women. This is normal.
[30:10] Know what you want in a woman. The more masculine you are, the more feminine of a woman you’ll want.
[32:46] If you go with the herd, you are going to end up like the herd: in a bad spot.
And much more…
This was amazing, and earlier today I was watching some David Deida too (which is a fucking coincidence). Yeah I am guilty of always waiting for things to happen to me.
Well stop waiting! 🙂
I’m super guilty of trying to fix things. Very insightful and things make more sense now. I’ll be better equipped with girls with this mindset
Interesting stuff on how opposite energies attract, I think I’ve been falling short in the standing tall department cause I grew up thinking it was my job to make others happy and then I would be happy, but in reality I was caving and hurting myself in the long run both by not getting what I truly wanted and showing others they could walk on me
I like the analogy of women being the punch and men being the bowl. Also with women being the ocean and the men being the ship. I wish this stuff was demystified decades ago
This podcast was paradigm changing. It really helped clear outdated model about feminine nature.
This one was very educational for me… I took about an entire page of notes as I was listening and I will be getting and reading this book shortly.