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Casual Dating – 4 Rules For Success

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Whether you’ve recently experienced a breakup or have been riding the wave as a single person for a while now, inevitably you’ll get back out into the dating world. Casual dating is a fun, low maintenance way to meet new people and learn more about yourself as a partner. Do you know how to date in New York City? Casual dating is not about committing to anyone long-term necessarily, but rather, it’s about enjoying someone’s company for the time being. Unfortunately, the term “casual” can mean different things to different people, which can lead to a sticky situation if you’re not … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Dating & Attraction Tagged With: authentic dating, being real when meeting people, dating, dating advice, elite daily, get better with women, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer

18 Reasons Why Rock Climbing Is The Best Date Idea Ever

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Why you should be rock climbing (for dating).... I googled ‘rock climbing gym’ then hit images. Notice how many girls are in the images. 18 reasons why you should do this: There are days I’ve gone to a climbing gym and there have been 42 girls and 26 guys. Groups of 2-4 girls often go climbing. Climbing is very social. It’s totally normal for one group of randoms to make friends with another group of randoms. In one session you could in theory talk to 20 people. You could also talk to zer0 if you choose. Both are common. If you meet a girl and she climbs, she’s in shape … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Dating & Attraction, Health and Fitness Tagged With: authentic dating, building confidence, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, Inner Confidence, social skills, taking risks

Dealing with discomfort

by Robbie Leave a Comment

What I'm about to say is sad, but not very controversial: most people would experience mild discontent with their situation than face the discomfort that’s necessary for improving their lives. People just don't want to tolerate discomfort, even if they have a guarantee it’s temporary. Getting into shape is a prime example. Unhealthy people tend to know that getting into shape requires eating healthy, and physical exercise. The failure to act isn’t caused by a lack of information. It stems from an unwillingness to feel uncomfortable. Eating healthy is uncomfortable. Working out causes … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Inner Game, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, confidence, emotional intelligence, get better, Inner Confidence, meet women, Robbie Kramer, taking risks

You Should Dump Your Girlfriend

by Robbie 1 Comment

Guest post by Jay, Leverage Program member It’s easy to fall into the trap of letting a girl who isn’t really a good fit for you stick around because she prevents you from feeling lonely. We all feel lonely at times. It’s part of the human condition. And for guys who aren’t naturally good with women, it’s normal to feel lonely most or even all of the time. When you start developing your skills, having success is inevitable. You’ll start to get numbers, you’ll start to get dates, you’ll start to make out with women, and you’ll start to sleep with ones you like. Once you start … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, dating advice, get a girlfriend, get better with women, get laid, get laid more, girlfriend, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, seduction, sleep with her, taking risks, threesomes

If You Play it Safe You’re Boring

by Robbie 1 Comment

When you look at guys who are great with women, or anyone with peak social awareness, they perform a bunch of smaller actions that add up to an arsenal of social skills. These discrete skills combine to form a killer ability to communicate with others and assertively get what they want. When we’re teaching you to improve your dating life, we focus on a lot. Accumulating as much practice as you can and playing the “numbers game” is part of it. Developing your character is also part of it, and it can seem overwhelming to go from where you are now to the success you really dream of. While … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, building confidence, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, meeting women, playing it safe, Robbie Kramer, social skills, taking risks

The 8 Ways to Click With Women

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Guest post by Jay, Leverage Program member and resident lazy fuck I've been working on my connection skills, and the group recommended I check out a book called Click: The Forces Behind How We Fully Engage with People, Work, and Everything We Do. The book is basically a collection of tons of examples and studies going over each aspect that creates instant connections, or what they call "quick set intimacy": That magic moment when you feel like you're in the zone while talking to another person, like you're 10/10 on 3 pointers. Except the baskets are people. Or something. So here are the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Social Skills, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, Cosmo Kramer, dating, get better with women, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer

Develop Your Inner Confidence Interview on Pickup Change

by Robbie Leave a Comment

I was recently interviewed by pickupchange.com We talked about how to build your confidence and make your approach to girls more natural and effective. Here’s what we covered in the podcast: The easiest way to meet girls How to develop your inner confidence How to overcome approach anxiety What is the average success ratio in daygame How to enjoy the process and stop being focused only on the outcome Do looks and wealth really matter? How to spot a girl who is actively looking for … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, building confidence, date more girls, dating, dating advice, get better with women, how to be cool, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, sleep with her

Do you agree too much?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A common mistake that guys who don't have well-developed social skills make is that they are too agreeable. They don't want to tell girls no. They don't want to make polarizing statements. They'd rather go with the flow than rock the boat. They avoid controversy. At first glance, this seems like it's a good idea. If you aren't a social genius or a beast with women, why take a risk that has a chance of hurting a relationship or creating tension? Here's the problem: when you're in the middle, you're vanilla. You need to be polarizing to be attractive to people. You need to filter some … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, building confidence, Inner Confidence, meeting women, Robbie Kramer

Why is approaching so important for building confidence?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

You've heard me say it over and over, but if you expect to get results and you're not crushing approaches or already dating multiple women, it's just not gonna happen. If you wanna get good at basketball you've gotta take a ton of shots right? You can't expect to show up at the court, stand around with the ball and expect to improve can you? Well, that's what many of you guys are doing, and then whining that you suck and the program isn't working. That line of thinking is actually offensive to guys who have put in the work. Robbie crushed 10k approaches by the time he was in his late … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Social Skills, Uncomfortable Tagged With: approaching, authentic dating, building confidence, date more girls, dating, dating advice, daygame, get a date, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, social anxiety, social skills

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