Inner Confidence

Become Confident With Women & Dating

  • Blog
  • Podcast
  • About
    • Contact
  • Products
    • Leverage Program
    • “Make Her Want You” Texting Secrets
    • Conversational Confidence
  • Reviews
  • Members

The 8 Ways to Click With Women

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Guest post by Jay, Leverage Program member and resident lazy fuck I've been working on my connection skills, and the group recommended I check out a book called Click: The Forces Behind How We Fully Engage with People, Work, and Everything We Do. The book is basically a collection of tons of examples and studies going over each aspect that creates instant connections, or what they call "quick set intimacy": That magic moment when you feel like you're in the zone while talking to another person, like you're 10/10 on 3 pointers. Except the baskets are people. Or something. So here are the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Social Skills, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, Cosmo Kramer, dating, get better with women, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer

Reader question: How do I escape the friend zone?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A reader asks: I'm planning out a date with an old casual friend from my hometown, where I've been staying for a few months. I recently got out of a 5 year relationship and looking forward to dating again. Background: I've somewhat had a crush on her. I always had an older brother-sister frame with her. I want to use this harmless coffee to take a step beyond the friendship dynamic. I know I need to do this very smoothly so there is no weirdness and end up creeping her out. What's the best way to do this? You are going about this with the wrong frame of mind. She knows you are both out of … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, being real when meeting people, building confidence, Cosmo Kramer, friend zone, Inner Confidence, integrity, leverage, Robbie Kramer, social skills

Why is it hard to stop chasing girls?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A common piece of advice for men is "don't chase girls." It's good advice, and it's a piece of advice I've given before. And yet, a lot of the advice from beginners is still “how do I get this girl to like me when she doesn’t?” Why is it so hard for beginners to follow? Before we answer that, let’s take a step back. It's crucial to understand that the only lasting method of having women in your life is to first, develop the characteristics that women find attractive, second, learn how to display those characteristics, and third, put yourself in situations where the kind of women you want to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: become dynamic, building confidence, Cosmo Kramer, dating advice, get better with women, get laid, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, sleep with her

When You’re Objective, You Take More Risks

by Robbie 2 Comments

One of the most effective actions you can take to improve your life is developing your ability to think objectively. Most people think emotionally. Yes, this includes men, who often assume they are rational and impervious to the effects of emotions on their thinking. Men tend to have blind spots in this area just as much as women. People usually look at their situation, whatever it may be, come up with one possible outcome, and only focus on that outcome happening. Emotions drive the estimate of the outcome occurring. This human tendency is the reason why the mainstream news media … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination Tagged With: become dynamic, being objective, building confidence, confidence, Cosmo Kramer, dating advice, fear, Inner Confidence, risk, risk aversion, Robbie Kramer, social fear, taking risks

Hot Chicks are Good for Business

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Men love being in the company of beautiful women. It just makes everything that much more fun and interesting. You will never hear a guy say, “Dude, I’m out, I just don’t want to hang out with more cute girls.” Having  hot chicks around brings me more hot chicks, more important guys, better girlfriends and better business opportunities. The more friends – hot, cool friends – I keep in my company, the higher I stand socially, and the more I enjoy my life. Whatever line of business you’re currently in, making friends with cute chicks and hanging out with them regularly will always … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Wealth Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

Does Your Shirt Fit?

by Robbie 1 Comment

What size shirt are you wearing right now? I’d be willing to bet that it’s too big and doesn’t flatter you at all. How do I know that? Because 95% of all guys wear dorky clothes that make them look like they don’t have a clue how to take care of themselves (let alone lead an interaction with a woman). Dressing well is extremely important to women. A cute girl will look you up and down and decide in two seconds whether you’re worth her time and energy simply based on your choice of apparel (a crew neck in the middle of winter? Please). One thing you can do right away is buy shirts that … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Fashion Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

How to Use the Friend Zone to Your Advantage

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been confined to the friend zone. They think they should be able to bang every girl they meet, and when they get pushed to the friend zone, they whine about it instead of strategically using it to their advantage. Dudes: STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THE FRIEND ZONE. Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage. You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden. Not only does this seriously raise … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Confidence, Lifestyle Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

A Better Way To Connect With Women

by Robbie 3 Comments

Creating strong emotional connections, especially in a short amount of time, is a difficult skill to master. Anyone who is missing the signals that girls send and not connecting is thinking way too much about what's going on in their own head: insecurities, thoughts, what to say next, etc. They're focusing on the craziness in of their mind instead of the person in front of their face. They're directing their attention to the wrong place. Before getting into how to create a deep connection, it's important to understand what "vibing" is. Guys who are good with women know how to vibe. They … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Social Skills Tagged With: authentic dating, being real when meeting people, connecting with women, Cosmo Kramer, date more girls, emotional rollercoaster, emotions, get better with women, Inner Confidence

How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

by Robbie 2 Comments

Every man in the world has experienced being rejected by a woman (or if he hasn’t, he’s too scared to talk to a woman in the first place). I’ve felt it. My buddies have felt it. I know you’ve felt it otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article. There’s no doubt about it, getting a “no” totally sucks. It hurts. You might start thinking, “God, I suck. I’m horrible with women...” and that makes things even worse. Fortunately, there’s a solution and you don’t have to live with the pain of rejection forever. Making the Transition All my clients come to me because they’re sick of being … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Confidence, Inner Game, Procrastination Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, feeling rejected, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, rejection, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

The Quickest Way To Move Past Social Fear

by Robbie Leave a Comment

When you're feeling fear or anxiety, the most important action to take isn't one that reduces anxiety. It's the action that reduces your avoidance, and makes you face whatever it is you're anxious about. The next time you’re in a situation where you’re feeling a negative emotion, especially fear, takes these three steps. Over time, they will train the subconscious part of your brain to do it automatically, and they take less than a minute. 1. Think of the best possible outcome This helps you determine what actions you need to take to reach that outcome. It helps you see what part of … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, confidence, Cosmo Kramer, dating advice, how to be confident, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, stoicism, taking risks

  • 1
  • 2
  • Next Page »

Podcast

Leverage Podcast

151 episodes
Ready to take your lifestyle to a whole new level? Discover all the benefits of upgrading to a Leverage Membership.

Get Leverage

Reviews

  • Niels, 27 – Copenhagen
  • Hugh, 37 – New York
  • Marty, 52 – Vancouver
  • Leonardo, 48 – Detroit
  • Ken, 32 – Los Angeles
  • Joseph, 56 – New York
  • Dave, 31 – Houston
  • Jason, 30 – New York
  • Cameron, 28 – Los Angeles
  • Andres, 25 – Austin

Read More Articles…

About

innerconfidence header logo

Does Any Of This Sound Familiar... I’m a pretty successful and accomplished dude, but when I get around really beautiful women, its like my mind goes blank and my IQ drops 50 points. I can’t … Read More

Videos

Check out our library of full length speeches and interviews below from Robbie … Watch Now

Reviews

Follow Us On

  • Facebook
  • Instagram

© 2021 Inner Confidence · Rainmaker Platform