Guys looking to meet women often ask the question, “Do looks matter?” It depends. The short answer: They matter more to girls who are young and inexperienced with dating. As women get older and look to settle down and have a family, they hardly matter at all. The long answer: [Begin Rant] When most girls start dating, they target guys who they find good looking. She may tell her friends that their high school crush, Johnny, is hot because he has a six pack, big blue eyes and great hair. But she also omitted from her statement that he has great body language, swagger, … [Read more...]
The Difference Between a 21-Year-Old Woman and a 31-Year-Old Woman
A guy walks into a bar. He sees a hot 21-year-old sitting at one of the bar, and he sees a hot 31-year-old sitting at the other end. Does he use the same game on both chicks? Answer: NO WAY! Being good at gaming is about surveying the playing field and knowing who you’re dealing with. A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. There are challenges and rewards with both. The most put-together dudes will instantly assess the landscape and know how to approach each woman in a way that jives with her sensibilities. Essentially, he gets … [Read more...]
How To Pickup A Waitress
Women that are working get hit on all the time. You know how many idiot duchebags, after just being served by a waitress at Hooters will hand the girl their business card and say “We should... We should go for coffee sometime.” You wouldn't believe how often this happens. If you talk to these girls and ask them about it; it’s crazy. It might happen to someone in that situation up to fifteen times a day. What I've done for years and years at a super busy bar, when I'm trying to maneuver quickly, in the typical bar scenario, So basically I will lean in, all serious, like it is a very serious … [Read more...]
Women Tell All: The Worst Turn Offs in the Bedroom (Part 1)
I recently polled a group of 10,000 women aged 18-35 who live in the LA-area who all belong to a private group on Facebook about what they consider to be DO's and DON'Ts when it comes to sex. The thread was one of the most popular I've seen posted, with over 300 enthusiastic responses from various women telling their tales/horror stories. It was a hilarious read, to say the least. Keeping all anonymity, I've read through all the responses and with their permission have selected the most memorable mentions to share with you, along with my own commentary. The original posts are in … [Read more...]
Avoid the Over-Gaming Trap: How to Know When to Pull Back
There’s an art to knowing when to game and when to push back. Too often I see cool dudes hitting it off with a girl at a bar, she’s really into him, and he just doesn’t know when to transition to the next phase of the interaction. Are you guilty of over-gaming? What is Over-Gaming? I see over-gaming all the time, but one recent experience comes to mind as especially aggravating. I almost broke my cell phone over this guy’s head because it was so annoying. The dude was just trying too hard to be funny; he was pushing everything too much. In this case, he was speaking to what was a … [Read more...]
Hacking Credit Cards & Retirement Planning
Body Language: Confident vs. Dorky
Hitting On A Girl At The Gym
A Leverage Program member asked: Met a girl in the private apartment gym tonight. I just finished working out and she walked in and went to the treadmill so I also went to the treadmill. I opened her with "Wanna race?" We talked for about 15 minutes and I invited her to go bike riding sometime. She asked if she can use one of my extra bikes. I realize that I deviated from the standard protocol by asking her for a bike ride instead of a bar or coffee date and Robbie said that these type of dates are good second dates. It's just that I felt that she was more likely to say yes to that. It … [Read more...]
Insights From A Dude Who Quit His $$ Job at Bloomberg To Travel The World
Social Hack – Using Peer Pressure & Momentum To Get More Dates
I recently took my client, Scott, out for an intense daygame session to help break his approach and social anxiety. He did awesome and hit on 25 girls in a span of 2 hours using the techniques we teach in the Daygame Ebook. (grab a free copy by clicking the link) Notice how Scott has a ton of support from the other members, I'm holding him accountable via a bet and we're all pushing for him to get past his excuses. The problem is that approach anxiety can be a bitch, and you can see how hard he is resisting. Trying to get over hurdles like this on your own is almost … [Read more...]
