I was a bottle service cocktail waitress at a popular nightclub in San Francisco for 6 years. I've been around the block :) There are typically a few types of guys you will run into that buy tables. Once you have a better perspective of what everyone else is doing, it's easier to understand where you fit in and whether or not you're the type of person who would enjoy bottle service or if it makes more sense to meet women somewhere else. If you’re a woman, ignore the next paragraph and simply read the article. If you’re a man and you’re trying to improve your social and dating … [Read more...]
Texting Advice: Should You Send Her Sexual Texts?
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The Art of Peacocking
Most of us have heard about peacocking: the idea of wearing an outrageous outfit or set of accessories to get a girl to notice you at a bar. Traditionally, peacocking might mean wearing black nail polish or goggles or Matrix-style trench coats to get attention. I’ve even seen dudes dress up in full-on costumes in a lame effort to stand out from the crowd. They stand out from the crowd, all right. That method of peacocking might work for some people but for the most part, it’s absolutely ridiculous and makes you look like an idiot more than it gets you laid. Go for Subtlety Less … [Read more...]
The Secret to Being a Social Beast: Breach the Dork Forcefield and Hang with the Cool Kids
People ask me all the time, “What’s your secret to dating hot chicks, and how can I be more like you?” I can tell you, and I’m going to in just a minute, but you have to understand that you’re not going to become a social master in a day. Pulling your ideal chick is the result of a massive body of work. That body of work is essentially a lot of social practice: dating a lot of women, meeting a lot of women, having a lot of friends. So, what’s my secret? I have a massive amount of practice, experience and repetitions under my belt. And I hang out with people that add tons of value … [Read more...]
The 3 Stages of Cool…
The ability to integrate with the cool kids is crucial to being able to attract hot girls. A lot of people think that “cool” is a group, and when we talk about “cool kids,” it’s slightly misleading. “Cool” is not a group. It’s a way of being, and there are three stages to it. Stage 1 of Cool: The Trimmings This is the most basic level of cool, it’s the entry level. And when I say “trimmings” I’m talking about your clothes and your physical appearance. 95% of the time, geeks and nerds are wearing clothes that are too big for them and it instantly gives them away as not … [Read more...]
The Easiest Way to Become More Dynamic: Stop Dressing Like an Idiot!
At the end of the day, being dynamic is the greatest pitch ever. The “be all” and “end all” is becoming a man who’s witty, charismatic, driven, spontaneous and grounded: he’s dynamic. Being dynamic is the whole package – 360 degrees of awesome — and girls will pretty much do anything to be with a guy who’s dynamic. If you don’t know how to dress, it immediately sends out a signal that you’re not dynamic. Your appearance is the easiest and fastest way to communicate a message to others as to whether or not you’re worth spending time with. To a hot chick, if you don’t know how to dress, … [Read more...]
