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Hot Chicks are Good for Business

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Men love being in the company of beautiful women. It just makes everything that much more fun and interesting. You will never hear a guy say, “Dude, I’m out, I just don’t want to hang out with more cute girls.” Having  hot chicks around brings me more hot chicks, more important guys, better girlfriends and better business opportunities. The more friends – hot, cool friends – I keep in my company, the higher I stand socially, and the more I enjoy my life. Whatever line of business you’re currently in, making friends with cute chicks and hanging out with them regularly will always … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Wealth Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

Does Your Shirt Fit?

by Robbie 1 Comment

What size shirt are you wearing right now? I’d be willing to bet that it’s too big and doesn’t flatter you at all. How do I know that? Because 95% of all guys wear dorky clothes that make them look like they don’t have a clue how to take care of themselves (let alone lead an interaction with a woman). They haven't grasped that men's fashion styles have evolved through the ages. Dressing well is extremely important to women. A cute girl will look you up and down and decide in two seconds whether you’re worth her time and energy simply based on your choice of apparel (a crew neck in the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Fashion Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

How to Use the Friend Zone to Your Advantage

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been confined to the friend zone. They think they should be able to bang every girl they meet, and when they get pushed to the friend zone, they whine about it instead of strategically using it to their advantage. Dudes: STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THE FRIEND ZONE. Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage. You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden. Not only does this seriously raise … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Confidence, Lifestyle Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, friend zone, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

The Difference Between a 21-Year-Old Woman and a 31-Year-Old Woman

by Robbie 3 Comments

A guy walks into a bar. He sees a hot 21-year-old sitting at one of the bar, and he sees a hot 31-year-old sitting at the other end. Does he use the same game on both chicks? Answer: NO WAY! Being good at gaming is about surveying the playing field and knowing who you’re dealing with. A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. There are challenges and rewards with both. The most put-together dudes will instantly assess the landscape and know how to approach each woman in a way that jives with her sensibilities. Essentially, he gets … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Social Skills Tagged With: Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, KEY WORDS: Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

Avoid the Over-Gaming Trap: How to Know When to Pull Back

by Robbie Leave a Comment

There’s an art to knowing when to game and when to push back. Too often I see cool dudes hitting it off with a girl at a bar, she’s really into him, and he just doesn’t know when to transition to the next phase of the interaction. Are you guilty of over-gaming? What is Over-Gaming? I see over-gaming all the time, but one recent experience comes to mind as especially aggravating. I almost broke my cell phone over this guy’s head because it was so annoying. The dude was just trying too hard to be funny; he was pushing everything too much. In this case, he was speaking to what was a … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Texting Tagged With: dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, over-gaming, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer, sleep with her

Texting Advice: Should You Send Her Sexual Texts?

by Robbie 1 Comment

Here's another example: … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Dating & Attraction, Texting Tagged With: become dynamic, cool kids, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, Iner Confidence, Robbie Kramer

The Art of Peacocking

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Most of us have heard about peacocking: the idea of wearing an outrageous outfit or set of accessories to get a girl to notice you at a bar. Traditionally, peacocking might mean wearing black nail polish or goggles or Matrix-style trench coats to get attention. I’ve even seen dudes dress up in full-on costumes in a lame effort to stand out from the crowd. They stand out from the crowd, all right. That method of peacocking might work for some people but for the most part, it’s absolutely ridiculous and makes you look like an idiot more than it gets you laid. Go for Subtlety Less … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Dating & Attraction, Fashion Tagged With: art of peacocking, cool kids, Cosmo Kramer, date more girls, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, how to be cool, how to dress, how to peacock, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, peacocking, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

The Secret to Being a Social Beast: Breach the Dork Forcefield and Hang with the Cool Kids

by Robbie 1 Comment

People ask me all the time, “What’s your secret to dating hot chicks, and how can I be more like you?” I can tell you, and I’m going to in just a minute, but you have to understand that you’re not going to become a social master in a day. Pulling your ideal chick is the result of a massive body of work. That body of work is essentially a lot of social practice: dating a lot of women, meeting a lot of women, having a lot of friends. So, what’s my secret? I have a massive amount of practice, experience and repetitions under my belt. And I hang out with people that add tons of value … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: cool kids, Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, dork forcefield, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

The 3 Stages of Cool…

by Robbie 4 Comments

The ability to integrate with the cool kids is crucial to being able to attract hot girls. A lot of people think that “cool” is a group, and when we talk about “cool kids,” it’s slightly misleading. “Cool” is not a group. It’s a way of being, and there are three stages to it. Stage 1 of Cool: The Trimmings This is the most basic level of cool, it’s the entry level. And when I say “trimmings” I’m talking about your clothes and your physical appearance. 95% of the time, geeks and nerds are wearing clothes that are too big for them and it instantly gives them away as not … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: cool kids, Cosmo Kramer, date more girls, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, how to be cool, how to dress, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

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