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Hot Chicks are Good for Business

Men love being in the company of beautiful women. It just makes everything that much more fun and interesting.

You will never hear a guy say, “Dude, I’m out, I just don’t want to hang out with more cute girls.”

Having hot chicks around brings me more hot chicks, more important guys, better girlfriends and better business opportunities. The more friends – hot, cool friends – I keep in my company, the higher I stand socially, and the more I enjoy my life.

Whatever line of business you’re currently in, making friends with cute chicks and hanging out with them regularly will always improve business (did she put you in the Friend Zone? Stop bitching about it and read THIS). If I’m casually talking to a potential business associate at the bar and I have a cute girl with me, odds are he will be much more willing to listen to me for three hours so long as I have that girl near me.

See how it works?

The Lesson: Make friends with cute girls and hang out with them a lot. If you stop being afraid of the friend zone, you’ll become the dude other dudes want to know.

Does Your Shirt Fit?

by Robbie 1 Comment

What size shirt are you wearing right now? I’d be willing to bet that it’s too big and doesn’t flatter you at all.

How do I know that? Because 95% of all guys wear dorky clothes that make them look like they don’t have a clue how to take care of themselves (let alone lead an interaction with a woman).

Dressing well is extremely important to women. A cute girl will look you up and down and decide in two seconds whether you’re worth her time and energy simply based on your choice of apparel (a crew neck in the middle of winter? Please).

One thing you can do right away is buy shirts that actually fit. Studies have shown that women are most attracted to men with broad shoulders; the ideal shoulder to waist ration is 1.6:1.

Even if you don’t have those God-given proportions naturally, you can still trick the eye by wearing tighter clothing that draws attention to your shoulders, making them look bigger. Most men who are generally fit (read: no pot belly) should probably be wearing a size “small” t-shirt.

Why? Because it stretches slightly across the chest and makes you appear larger in your upper body.

The Lesson: Throw away your shirts that are too big. Buy shit that fits. If you need help, click HERE for specific wardrobe tips.

Get personalized, one-on-one coaching in the Inner Confidence Leverage Program. Dude, if you’re wearing the wrong t-shirt now, it’s not gonna get any better on its own.

How to Use the Friend Zone to Your Advantage

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been confined to the friend zone. They think they should be able to bang every girl they meet, and when they get pushed to the friend zone, they whine about it instead of strategically using it to their advantage.

Dudes: STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THE FRIEND ZONE.

Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage.

You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden. Not only does this seriously raise your social value to the other hot girls that you’ll meet at the bar, but cool dudes will want to know you who are, too. They’ll want to befriend you, hang out with you, and do business with you.

The Lesson: Don’t try to bang every chick you meet. Meet girls, be cool and make friends. Those chicks will lead to more chicks and those chicks will lead to even more.

Review of the IC Introductory Workshop

by Robbie Leave a Comment

We recently had 5 new clients join our Leverage Program from the Phoenix area.

I always love when this happens because it creates a satellite community within our group and because the guys are local, it’s very easy for them to spend time together, wing each other, and push each other to grow faster.

And because all of these guys were at pretty similar levels when it came to meeting women, I decided to drive out to Phoenix for the weekend with a few of the moderators to get these guys started off on the right foot.

(Review of The Phoenix Workshop – By Jad Morris)

I’m at home..bored..alone..playing video games and watching Netflix..fantasizing about woman I wish I could be with.

Watch some porn at night and masturbating to the women of my dreams..my house is a fucking pigsty… I am eating like shit..fat..overweight and dressed like an idiot…zero confidence and hating my life with no genuine friends or social skills.

How many of you can relate to what I’m taking about? May be you’re in a similar situation?

Enter Robbie, Sasha, Maxwell, Tyler and Cameron. These alpha males saved my life from utter failure and hopeless chances of ever having solid inner confidence in what’s needed to be a fucking beast with woman.

I get to the workshop not having a clue what to expect. Instantly I wanted what these guys had. Charm, charisma, confidence and an “I don’t give a fuck” attitude and most of all…the hottest women I’ve ever laid eyes on on a regular basis day after day with ease!!

They have me do Day game approaches..recording my interactions with woman with a microphone and video camera. These guys reviewed it and I got feedback. I failed miserably and everyone laughed about it including myself and underneath I was like what a fucking pathetic loser I am.

Then they showed me their first interactions and encounters with woman and they were just as bad and I thought to myself..ok if these guys can do it, so can I.

I learned about approaching woman in many different scenarios with the men.. What to say, my body posture, even the speed of which I talk. When I say it, how I say it..all of it matters.

Tyler and Cameron forced me to approach random woman in the mall. Was difficult..I was chasing women all over the place..they even made me run out of a car and approach a woman walking down the street!! Never in a million years would I have ever done that or even thought about doing something that bold in my life!! Best day ever.

I was forced to hit on woman in the day and at first I had tons of social anxiety. It got easier as it went. I then started pulling phone numbers and it was actually becoming fun.

I learned that social status, fashion, texting and even dating all have a unique and effective way to get woman in the sack. One wrong move..you’re toast! It became the ultimate challenge.

Night game the guys had me go to clubs in Scottsdale and approach woman as well..day one I sucked, was in my head and nervous..Robbie talked to me a lot and told me what to say to woman when I approached them. He was talking to woman with ease while I was standing around like a fucking idiot without a clue what to say or do. It was fun and challenging and I realized this guy had something I truly wanted..confidence, women and he actually gives a fuck about others and their well-being including me. Felt good to have someone give al fuck about me for the first time.

I then bought a drink..had a straw in my vodka redbull drink and Maxwell said get rid of the straw..I did and ironically that made a huge difference when I was approaching woman and I began to get phone numbers.

He had me be a lead with him as my wingman and introduce him to someone forcing me to be the social butterfly I wasn’t yet. Woman saw through it, weren’t interested in me and I lacked confidence was intimidated and left him hanging with a girl..he brutalized me and said never fucking do that again. I’m here to help you!! Woke me up and I didn’t do that and learned to never leave my wingman until they are ready.

Sasha I found talking to the hottest woman I saw in the club. He told me to approach two women at a bar..I learned there is a time when to do that, how to do that and what to say to introduce myself. I was again forced to approach and failed yet it got me out of my comfort zone and then it became easier and easier to approach the rest of the night.

Day two we went to a country bar that night and I crushed!! Got 12 numbers that night. I felt like a fucking predator looking for my next female victim to entice with my charm and get her number. Was a god that couldn’t be touched or phased by anything woman did or said. I ended up making out with one chick, had a blast, and was more alive then I ever have been. Was incredible.

Also I learned cooking is important to know. I was forced to cook a meal for the guys and I hated it and didn’t know how to cook yet I was forced to learn and did it. These guys force you to face your worst fears and smash them!!

If you ever get to meet these alpha males, they will ruthlessly, yet compassionately force you to face your inner demons and build confidence. They will teach you the ways to success and if you can pass through the gates of the creepy zone of hell, the other side is a life most men only dream of.

The AZ workshop was fucking bad ass!! If I wouldn’t of gone, I would still be doing what I was doing. Thank God there are guys that give a fuck and care about me. They changed EVERYTHING!!

Cheers,

Jad

Women Tell All: The Worst Turn Offs in the Bedroom (Part 2)

by Mullins 2 Comments

I recently polled a group of 10,000 women aged 18-35 who live in the LA-area who all belong to a private group on Facebook about what they consider to be DO’s and DON’Ts when it comes to sex.

The thread was one of the most popular I’ve seen posted, with over 300 enthusiastic responses from various women telling their tales/horror stories.

It was a hilarious read, to say the least. Keeping all anonymity, I read through all the responses and with their permission and selected the most memorable mentions to share with you, along with my own commentary.

The original posts are in italic text, my commentary in non-italic text. Trust me, you will want to read this one! There were so many responses that we have broken them up into 4 separate blog posts, and this is the second.

Read the first blog here.

We hope you enjoy part 2

xoxo,
Genevieve

Turn off: Once had a guy who wouldn’t go down on me…and then he asked me why I never seem to cum. I told him it was because he never eats me out, and he said ‘oh guess we aren’t sexually compatible cause I don’t do that. Sorry’

Wow. I’m glad this issue came up, it’s a big one. While as a guy, you might have a legitimate reason in your mind to not want to give head – keep in mind that to basically every girl this is incredibly childish and a gigantic turn off. When this happens, this is how I know I’m dealing with someone GREEN, and with very little experience…which turns me off from wanting to have sex with them entirely. Sex should be an all-encompassing, nothing-off-limits, lets explore together and who cares what happens kind of thing. I don’t think you’ll ever be able to mature sexually if you avoid it and you’ll never experience a truly good sex life without it! If the reason why you don’t want to give head to a girl is because you don’t feel like you know how to – the best method here is to JUST BE HONEST! Be open about it! Unless she’s just a straight up biatch, most girls would take this as an opportunity to teach you, in a hot way. This is good because it gives you a chance to connect, grow together. One thing I do know for sure though is, when a guy tells me he’s not into giving head it’s like a part of me knows I can never fully respect him, and that the sex won’t be good. I pretty much write him off then and there. It’s THAT important. Lastly, this is what one lady had to say about the issue, so this should give you some idea as to how important it is: “I usually can’t have an orgasm through regular sex, so if they don’t go down on me I’ve learned to just delete and move on. Too many guys and too little time to be dealing with that”. Boom.

Turn off: I currently have a guy who I will never sleep with sending me pictures of his 11-inch penis and he thinks I’m into it. I’m not.

OK – another big issue. Guys with huge dicks. Sure, who doesn’t love a big dick. However, a lot of guys think that’s the end all be all. It’s very annoying. Society trains us to believe that a humongous cock is every girl’s biggest dream/desire and that size is everything….for some girls I’m sure it is. But for most girls it is scary. I personally feel like I have a somewhat “shallow” vagina, and it’s easy to hit my “back wall” during sex regardless if dick is big or not. Hitting my back wall does not feel good, no matter how turned on I am. I could be mid-orgasm, and he comes ramming into my back wall and ruins the whole thing leaving me with a sharp pain that makes me want to double over. Some girls are built to take huge cocks; ya. But, guys with baby arms NEED to know how to work that thing and not hurt a girl. In my late teens and early 20’s especially, I can remember a lot of guys with huge penises and attitudes to match who I promise you had no idea how to use them properly and who thought having a big dick is the ticket to everything you need. In conclusion: guys with big dicks: if you put even MORE effort (than the regular guy would) into learning what women like, how our bodies work, being sensitive and gentle with your cock, understanding the in’s and out’s of a woman’s body – this is incredibly refreshing to girls and a HUGE pleasant surprise. Instead of running away scared, I’m made to feel comfortable, relaxed, and excited about what this big cock is about to offer me. In fact I’ve only fucked ONE guy with a big dick who knew how to use it properly and he’s set the standard for me, I think. So guys with big dicks: don’t think that’s your ticket to pussyville and don’t be too cocky…you’d be surprised how many girls will not be impressed by the size of your dick alone. There’s a lot more to it!

Turn off: I don’t know if you ladies like hairy men, but one guy in the past did not man-scape, and if he finished on top, he or I would be picking his chest hair off of my body.

The mental image that this procured – OMG, eewwwwwwwwwwww lol. That is so nasty lmao. This has happened to every girl, and it is a bit of a turn off. If you are a particularly hairy guy, I’d recommend keeping your hair trimmed so it’s half a centimeter long. You don’t have to shave or wax it but you gotta do something. In general, body hair is not a hot thing. We don’t like to pick it out of places, spit it out, pull it deep out of our vaginas….it’s soooooo soooo sooo gross. I’ve literally had to pull another guys long-ass pubic hair out of my vagina before and I shudder at the memory of it. I’m embarrassed right now retelling the story. This was over 10 years ago and I still remember it so vividly – the bathroom I was in, the guy, everything. That’s how bad.

Turn off: one guy would fall asleep and take over my bed diagonally and I couldn’t even lay down.

LOL, this is only OK if you’re in “relationship” status. As a first time fuck, this is annoying.

Turn off: light up a cigarette after, like INSIDE, in bed. Gross

No. Just no. Unless it’s weed, get the F outside and have some consideration lol!

Turn off: I had a guy that kept saying “hi” when we were hooking up like in Forgetting Sarah Marshall.

The sad truth is, you’ll never know if you’re doing something weird like this unless a girl you’re hooking up with tells you so! Nobody else gets to see how you act while in an intimate moment. You can easily get to a considerably old age with weird behavior, because none of the handful of girls you hooked up with bothered to tell you that you’re doing something bizarre. So, if you feel like you *might* be doing weird shit, this would be a great reason to join The Leverage Group, and ask the guys for feedback. The group thread therapy sessions are more than invaluable for information like this. You NEED human, opinionated feedback and it’s much better to be embarrassed amongst a group of guys for a few minutes than do be doing something weird like this for years, turning off every girl you ever have sex with!

Turn off: My friend had a boyfriend who would eat her out through her underwear!!! I cannot!

What? Why would he even do that? I feel like the underwear would be all water-logged WTF

Turn off: I just don’t want anyone talking to me at all during sex. Like pretty much anything someone says when we’re hooking up sounds awkward or cheesy to me.

So, the reason why I chose to include this one is because I tend to agree that less is more when you’re fucking someone for the first time. Words can feel sooooo contrived, fake and cheesy. That is why I encourage you to stray away from using verbiage when having sex with a new girl. I tend to lean towards moans, heavy breathing and panting only. Unless it’s directional from you to her (i.e. commands) – you risk sounding cheesy or silly. Unfortunately, society has ruined sex in a lot of ways for us in this day and age. Everything can feel forced and fake, and it really is hard to find your sweet spot with someone where you feel like you can be expressive in the right way without feeling cheesy or dumb. However, with the right person this all goes out the window because the connection you guys share makes things that were cheesy, meaningful. And lastly, get advice from guys in The Leverage Group. That is what they are there for!

Turn off: talking about how one night we will bring in another girl and have me watch..like..what??? IN THE MIDDLE OF IT

OK – can I just SCREAM this to all men, everywhere: UNLESS YOUR LADY HAS EXPLICITLY TOLD YOU THAT THE THOUGHT OF ANOTHER FEMALE IN BED TURNS HER ON AND SHE IS BI-CURIOUS OR BI-SEXUAL, DO NOT EVER MENTION ANOTHER GIRL AROUND HER, ESPECIALLY WHILST FUCKING HER. JESUS CHRIST YOU MORONS

Turn off: There was this guy who would dry hump me and moan nonstop “unh unh unh” whether or not he was inside me…also he was having whiskey dick problems so we decided to try again in the morning. Got no sleep because all morning the BED WAS SHAKING as he was trying to get himself hard while I laid there and pretended to be asleep. So awkward. Needless to say that never happened again!

Ok, this has so many fails…I don’t think I have to delve into whats really attractive about this situation. I think as a general rule of thumb it’s safe to say that females are ALWAYS uncomfortable around guys while they’re jacking off. It just makes us feel weird. The sound, the motion, the thought of not being able to satisfy you…just do us a fucking favor, and go elsewhere! Are you trying to make us feel weird? God damn!! It reminds me of this chronic jackker-offer who used to walk around beating it like as a nervous tick….WTF ugh, NO.

Do Looks Matter?

by Robbie 1 Comment

Guys looking to meet women often ask the question, “Do looks matter?”

It depends.

The short answer:

They matter more to girls who are young and inexperienced with dating. As women get older and look to settle down and have a family, they hardly matter at all.

The long answer:

[Begin Rant]

When most girls start dating, they target guys who they find good looking.

She may tell her friends that their high school crush, Johnny, is hot because he has a six pack, big blue eyes and great hair.

But she also omitted from her statement that he has great body language, swagger, ability to tell awesome stories, and great fashion.

Most girls bang between 25 to 75 “Johnnys” between the ages of 16 and 27 who treat her like shit, make fun of her, hit her up at 1am for bootie calls, and generally do all the things in opposition of society tells men to do.

I was never a Johnny.

I grew up with a loving mother who told me to a gentleman, level headed and do nice things for women.

My father lead by example by providing for our family, coaching my soccer teams, helping me become a straight A student, and everything else an awesome dad should do. But he told me hardly anything about what it takes to get a girl.

I had an amazing childhood, but it did not prepare me for banging hot chicks.

I followed my mom’s advice and became a typical “nice guy,” sexless and frustrated.

[End Rant]

The confusion with the “Do you looks matter” conversation is that guys actually listen to the nonsense that a lot of young chicks spew about attraction.

When a girl says a dude is hot, she’s not necessarily talking about his looks, it’s the whole package.

The more a dude look and behave like Dan Bilzerian, the more pussy he’ll get.

When a dude says a chick is hot, he’s most definitely talking about her looks and sex appeal.

The more a chick can look and behave like Kim Kardashian, the more cock she’ll get.

It’s a little easier for girls, because their hotness is based more on things that are out of their control.

As girls get older, they start to value other qualities in a man more than his looks. After fucking 50 “Johnnys” they finally want to date a nice, sweet guy that can provide for them and build a family together. In exchange, she might give him sex some of the time, when she doesn’t have a headache.

If you’re a “nice guy” I’d suggest developing Johnny’s skill set or at least understand that many Johnnys did many dirty things to your girl before you got your hands on her.

It wasn’t the same for our grandparents or parents, but this is the sad reality of modern day dating.

How many times have you seen a very attractive woman… I mean, like, super attractive…walking down the street, holding hands with a short, overweight and balding man?

It should no longer be a mystery what she sees in him.

The bottom line.

If you’re going for girls who are mature enough to see past the Johnnys of the world, looks can give you a slight boost in attracting her interest and attention, and that’s about it. They may get you a few one night stands with college chicks from Florida and Arizona, but forget any long term relationships without good social skills with high class and intelligent women.

After you start talking to a woman, she won’t care about how chiseled your face is or how big your biceps are. You suck at communication, that sexy model you were communicating with disappears.

But what about bald guys? LOL

Check out the experiment by HairLossRevolution.com.

Do Women Like Balding Men? – The Big Tinder Experiment

Men Can Manipulate/Mold/Change Their Level of Attractiveness

Knowing women are mostly attracted to characteristics and qualities like leadership, confidence, humor, and other favorable traits, this is great news for us men! This means we can change our level of attractiveness to women by working on and improving these skills!

This is incredibly important to realized and implement constantly.

If attraction was based solely on looks, a lot of us would be screwed! Some of us wouldn’t have a chance at being with anybody.

Fortunately we have developed through the years as human beings with social skills. Our mental capacity to learn, evolve, adapt is influenced by whom we surround ourselves with and socialize with.

We have a way of increasing our level of social status through constant repetition. By being disciplined, we create functional habits that are socially increases through this routine over and over again.

Our commitments must be larger then our egos.

Our pride must be pushed aside at times to learn from others that have these social skills. Aka: this is were a coach, mentor or leader (Alpha Male) is in place to make this happen so we increase our social awareness at an accelerated rate than continuing to do things by ourselves and not be socially evolving.

We associate and hang around others whom are more experienced then those who are at our current primitive state of mind and communication to become socially adequate.

If you want to hang around more guys like this, read this.

By working on our personalities and working on our social traits, we can become more desirable in the eyes of more women.

Looks are not permanent They change every day.

The one that will never change is that men who have the best personalities attract the best women.

They have the confidence, leadership, social skills and charisma to be that “alpha male” that women desire.

Women will desire your personality above all else, so work on molding and creating a good one.

The Difference Between a 21-Year-Old Woman and a 31-Year-Old Woman

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A guy walks into a bar. He sees a hot 21-year-old sitting at one of the bar, and he sees a hot 31-year-old sitting at the other end. Does he use the same game on both chicks?

Answer: NO WAY!

Being good at gaming is about surveying the playing field and knowing who you’re dealing with. A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. There are challenges and rewards with both.

The most put-together dudes will instantly assess the landscape and know how to approach each woman in a way that jives with her sensibilities. Essentially, he gets to choose which one he takes home because he’s mastered the subtle art of speaking to women of different stages of their lives.

The 21-Year-Old Wants to Have Fun

When women are in their early 20’s, they’re at a stage in life where they’re looking for fun. They’re still willing to date musicians, personal trainers and yoga teachers because they believe in “the dream.” They buy into the potential.

She doesn’t care if you know how to cook. She doesn’t care if you’ve held a steady job for the last 8 years. She doesn’t give a shit if you have a 401K.

She wants to have fun, feel hot and be a young know-it-all who’s got life all figured out. When you approach a chick in her early 20’s, keep it light, super entertaining and really fun. Keep her laughing.

Now, don’t get me wrong: all women want to have fun and be entertained. Only difference is a 21-year-old will make her decision based purely on how fun and entertaining you are. A 31-year-old is much more discerning and needs to see more before she’ll say ‘yes.’

The 31-Year-Old Wants to See Value

When I approach a 31-year-old at a bar, I do my best to demonstrate that I have value. If you’re reading this and wondering what your value is, it’s already too late. She is gonna see through your BS right away. She knows what’s up. She’s been in the workforce long enough to have dealt with professional adults, she’s probably making a decent living and she wants a man who can match her.

Of course she wants to laugh with you, but she needs to see your serious side as well. She will care that you’ve been in the same job for the last 8 years and she’ll be impressed that you have a 401K.

Most importantly: you can’t sell a 31-year-old on your potential. If you haven’t achieved your “dream” yet, she knows that you’re probably not going to. You can’t run “I’m gonna” game – she knows it’s bullshit.

Generally, 31-year-olds are more analytical and they’ve gotten to a point in their lives where they’re not willing to “just have fun.” They’ve got skin in the game and if you don’t live up, you’ll get knocked out in a few seconds.

Taking Things Further

When you get the differences between chicks in their 20’s and chicks in their 30’s, you’ll do things differently. A 31-year-old will care, notice and re-evaluate if your house is a mess. A 21-year-old probably has two roommates and scuzz in her sink: she doesn’t give a shit.

Understand the different priorities each age group has and you’ll be golden. Don’t fuck it up by making a rookie mistake like telling a 31-year-old you smoke pot every day.

The Lesson: Know who you’re dealing with. When you can tell the difference between a 21-year-old and a 31-year-old, you’ll be golden.

Women Tell All: The Worst Turn Offs in the Bedroom (Part 1)

by Mullins Leave a Comment

I recently polled a group of 10,000 women aged 18-35 who live in the LA-area who all belong to a private group on Facebook about what they consider to be DO’s and DON’Ts when it comes to sex.

The thread was one of the most popular I’ve seen posted, with over 300 enthusiastic responses from various women telling their tales/horror stories.

It was a hilarious read, to say the least. Keeping all anonymity, I’ve read through all the responses and with their permission have selected the most memorable mentions to share with you, along with my own commentary.

Turn Off: When they get up, get out of bed, and get dressed immediately.

Like, wtf bro. I *just* got done having sex. Can you chill for a second? Unless I’m being extremely annoying and I don’t realize it (highly unlikely) you are straight up ruining your chances of fucking me twice. Seriously.

Turn off: Once a guy asked me “On a scale of 1-10, how good was I? Or, Being asked to compare how sex was compared to other guys.

This is something a lot of guys do, believe it or not. I think they think its funny. It’s not funny. It’s awkward. Unless you’re 19 and actually need the feedback, this is not something a grown-ass-man should do.

Turn off: Don’t be that guy who has to shower right after sex. Also, please don’t be that guy that had to wash his sheets right after we had sex...while I was still naked in the bed.

Ahhh this reminds me of the Sex and the City episode where one of the girls is banging the fucked-in-the-head Catholic schoolboy who always has to shower right after sex. Let the juices simmer, you weirdo.

Turn off: When a guy goes to the kitchen and immediately eats a disgusting amount of food.

Lol, I actually feel like I could get down with this.

Turn off: I once had a guy during an intimate moment ask, “who’s pussy is that?” in a baby puppy dog kind of a voice.

Speaking in the 3rd person is never not-weird. Just FYI

Turn off: Talk about their penis size, “Sorry its not big enough.”

Don’t ever apologize for anything you can’t change about yourself, even a small dick. If you’ve gotten this far with her, WHY? Not hot. Roll with it.

Turn off: Do not tell me you have never been with a black girl before. Am I supposed to give you a high five or something?

Ok, this is just ridiculous. People are so silly. Don’t act like its some kind of novelty, please! Wtf.

Turn off: I had an ex-boyfriend that was a bodybuilder and he ALWAYS had this stench to his dick…like even fresh out the shower, it made me so nauseous. I feel like it used to stick me for days after.

I had this once before with a guy who was a surfer! I guess it’s not like you’d be able to tell if your stench was intensely nauseating to the girl you’re fucking, but in general just be on top of your hygiene. And that primarily includes the way your ballsack region smells.

TURN OFF: I am sleeping with this guy. Sex is GREAT, he definitely knows how to please a woman. But here is the down side. He likes to pull out ahead of time and than sit over my face and have me lick his gouch while he jacks off and cums over my body. Not the biggest fan of it and not the greatest view…and most importantly if his ass smells like shit, which makes me gag. I eventually had to tell him that position was uncomfortable for me.

OK – this one is epic. I’m soooo glad this came up. This could actually be HOT if it weren’t for the fact that his ass smelled like shit! In general, I feel like guys need to step up their ass-hygene game. Like seriously, wash that shit out with a soapy washcoth, twice to three times in the shower. You should literally be able to take your finger and press it up against your butthole after washing, rub it around a little, then smell your finger and not have your finger smell like shit. If you have a smell-free asshole, think of all the sexual positions you could do! I think the best sex is dirty, weird, random, sloppy, messy…and you want to be prepared for that. Also, take a beard and mustache trimmer to your butthole and trim off the excess butthole fuzz. Your pubes and butthole hair should be trimmed AT ALL TIMES. NO girl wants to get pubes in her mouth after sucking you off. And on that note, I’m going to give you a bit of gold information. If you wax your balls so that they are baby-smooth, girls will literally not be able to stop touching/licking them. It’s like crack for girls. Take care of it boyz!!!! It might be awkward to read this, but this stuff is happening in real life and it needs to be STOPPED. For the love of God, PLEASE step up your asshole hygiene.

Turn off: Sneaking it up my ass after I had an orgasm thinking I wouldn’t notice.

Anal is not a game, boys. A dick in the ass is going to hurt very badly unless the asshole is literally massaged open with fingers for a few minutes, and she’s totally relaxed. Even if she did just have an orgasm, it’s not going to cover up the feeling of muscles being torn! Give the ASS the respect it deserves, or you’re never gonna get it!

Avoid the Over-Gaming Trap: How to Know When to Pull Back

by Robbie Leave a Comment

There’s an art to knowing when to game and when to push back. Too often I see cool dudes hitting it off with a girl at a bar, she’s really into him, and he just doesn’t know when to transition to the next phase of the interaction.

Are you guilty of over-gaming?

What is Over-Gaming?

I see over-gaming all the time, but one recent experience comes to mind as especially aggravating. I almost broke my cell phone over this guy’s head because it was so annoying.

The dude was just trying too hard to be funny; he was pushing everything too much. In this case, he was speaking to what was a clearly well educated, slightly snobby French-Moroccan doctor. She was into it at first, until he started making penis jokes.

There’s a time to make penis jokes and a time to not make penis jokes. Around a 21-year-old party girl, the penis joke might be funny. A snobby French-Moroccan doctor? Not so much.

Intermediate Problems

Generally speaking, the problem of over-gaming is an intermediate problem. It’s something I experienced when I was doing a lot of banter and flirting. I would take it too far because I didn’t know when to shut up and shift gears.

To be clear, I’m not talking about role-playing. I spent hours at a bar once with a girl I had just met role-playing that we were husband and wife. She called me Jefferson and I called her Chloe – it was great and we laughed our asses off.

I’m talking about the funny, flirty, witty conversation that should really only last for the first few minutes before you transition into something a little more intense.

Know When to Pull Back

Once you’re in, stop gaming. One of my buddies hit it off with a girl in a bar not too long ago. They didn’t sleep together but they exchanged numbers with the intention of hanging out again later.

Fast-forward three days. She texts him a message that says, “Hey, are you going out tonight?”

At this point, it would be a mistake to continue gaming her. She’s already interested. If you keep gaming her, it will seem desperate and lame and she’ll lose interest instantly. He responded, “Come meet me. I’m going to Renee’s.”

He knows that he’s golden. His only job at this point is to not screw it up, so he goes into pre-event defense and plays it neutral. Why? Because she’s pursuing him, and if he doesn’t act like an idiot, he’ll have a great night that could potentially end in sex.