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The 3 F’s: How to Become An Expert At Anything

by Robbie Leave a Comment

I love when someone tells me that something is "simple, but not easy." Many of the best things in life fit this saying. Fitness. Nutrition. Confidence. Meeting women. Day game. These areas have simple rules for success, and then they require hard work applying those rules. Expert performance is the same way. It's simple, but not easy. How simple? The path to becoming an expert can be broken down into three steps that anyone can understand and apply immediately. 1. Focus This doesn't mean a general sense of focus. This is referring to taking a microscope on the skills that comprise … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: become an expert, Inner Confidence, meet more women, meeting women, Robbie Kramer

Why Getting Rejected Is Good…

by Robbie 21 Comments

Why is rejection so scary? Our society does a great job of instilling shame in men. Growing up as kids, and even into our adult lives, we’re told toxic messages that can hold us back for a lifetime. Sometimes this shame originates from the people around us. Our parents or friends tell us these messages explicitly: that guy’s a player and you shouldn’t be like that. Or they could be more subtle messages from the media and movies: in order to get a girl to like you, you need to be nice and submissive. People mean well when they give us this kind of advice. Despite their good intentions, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: dealing with rejection, fear, get rejected more, getting rejected by women, meet more women, meeting women, rejection, social anxiety

5 Ways To Always Be In Style

by Carly Leave a Comment

Women pay attention to your clothing. Your personal style can signal your positive, attractive traits, or it can repel hot women away from you. What's the minimalist, easy way to make sure you always look good? It's simple. Keep items in your wardrobe that will always be in style, and nail down your fundamentals. 1. The White Shirt Any combination of crew-neck/long sleeve or long sleeve/v-neck will work. You could even explore different styles of dress shirts if you want to. Make sure you get a few of each style that works for you. White gets dirty easily, and to a woman, there’s nothing … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Fashion, Uncomfortable Tagged With: always be in style, meet women, meeting women, style

9 Ways to Create Enough Time and Money for a Quality Dating Life

by Robbie Leave a Comment

Recently, I asked for an update from some of my coaching clients in the Leverage Program.  I noticed that almost all of the guys who are lagging on the dating front are also worried about their finances. While it’s true that guys often use money as an excuse, I actually do think that it’s hard to get your dating life handled if your finances are also not in order.  Financial difficulties are an emotional drain that affects our self-esteem and cause us to project insecurity to everyone around us. The relationship between money and dating is an issue I started to think about in junior … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Dating & Attraction, Lifestyle, Wealth Tagged With: become dynamic, easy money, get better with women, get laid, getting hired, how to be cool, make money, meeting women, passive income, Robbie Kramer, save money, starting a business, taking risks

You Should Dump Your Girlfriend

by Robbie 1 Comment

Guest post by Jay, Leverage Program member It’s easy to fall into the trap of letting a girl who isn’t really a good fit for you stick around because she prevents you from feeling lonely. We all feel lonely at times. It’s part of the human condition. And for guys who aren’t naturally good with women, it’s normal to feel lonely most or even all of the time. When you start developing your skills, having success is inevitable. You’ll start to get numbers, you’ll start to get dates, you’ll start to make out with women, and you’ll start to sleep with ones you like. Once you start … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, dating advice, get a girlfriend, get better with women, get laid, get laid more, girlfriend, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, seduction, sleep with her, taking risks, threesomes

If You Play it Safe You’re Boring

by Robbie 1 Comment

When you look at guys who are great with women, or anyone with peak social awareness, they perform a bunch of smaller actions that add up to an arsenal of social skills. These discrete skills combine to form a killer ability to communicate with others and assertively get what they want. When we’re teaching you to improve your dating life, we focus on a lot. Accumulating as much practice as you can and playing the “numbers game” is part of it. Developing your character is also part of it, and it can seem overwhelming to go from where you are now to the success you really dream of. While … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, building confidence, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, meeting women, playing it safe, Robbie Kramer, social skills, taking risks

Inner Confidence on Elite Daily: Yes, Women Actually Do Pay A Lot Of Attention To The Way You’re Dressed

by Robbie Leave a Comment

At the end of the day, being dynamic is your greatest sales pitch ever. The end-all, be-all is becoming a man who’s witty, charismatic, driven, spontaneous and grounded. This is the whole package, and women will pretty much do anything to be with a man who’s dynamic. If you don’t know how to dress, it immediately sends out a signal you’re not dynamic. Continue reading on Elite Daily. … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Fashion Tagged With: become dynamic, building confidence, date more girls, dating advice, elite daily, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, how to be cool, how to dress, Inner Confidence, meeting women, men’s fashion, peacocking, Robbie Kramer, social skills

Do you agree too much?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

A common mistake that guys who don't have well-developed social skills make is that they are too agreeable. They don't want to tell girls no. They don't want to make polarizing statements. They'd rather go with the flow than rock the boat. They avoid controversy. At first glance, this seems like it's a good idea. If you aren't a social genius or a beast with women, why take a risk that has a chance of hurting a relationship or creating tension? Here's the problem: when you're in the middle, you're vanilla. You need to be polarizing to be attractive to people. You need to filter some … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Uncomfortable Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, building confidence, Inner Confidence, meeting women, Robbie Kramer

Why is approaching so important for building confidence?

by Robbie Leave a Comment

You've heard me say it over and over, but if you expect to get results and you're not crushing approaches or already dating multiple women, it's just not gonna happen. If you wanna get good at basketball you've gotta take a ton of shots right? You can't expect to show up at the court, stand around with the ball and expect to improve can you? Well, that's what many of you guys are doing, and then whining that you suck and the program isn't working. That line of thinking is actually offensive to guys who have put in the work. Robbie crushed 10k approaches by the time he was in his late … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Procrastination, Social Skills, Uncomfortable Tagged With: approaching, authentic dating, building confidence, date more girls, dating, dating advice, daygame, get a date, get better with women, Inner Confidence, leverage, meeting women, Robbie Kramer, social anxiety, social skills

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