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8 Keys To Bottle Service (From a Bottle Service Girl’s Perspective)

by Genevieve 10 Comments

8 Keys To Bottle Service (From a Bottle Service Girl’s Perspective)

I was a bottle service cocktail waitress at a popular nightclub in San Francisco for 6 years. I've been around the block :) There are typically a few types of guys you will run into that buy tables. Once you have a better perspective of what everyone else is doing, it's easier to understand where you fit in and whether or not you're the type of person who would enjoy bottle service or if it makes more sense to meet women somewhere else. The 4 primary types of dudes who you'll see getting tables in the clubs these days When you understand the four different types of guys that girls … [Read more...]

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Should I Lie to Get More Women?

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Should I Lie to Get More Women?

Guys often ask about lying to women, and if it's an effective strategy to reaching their attraction goals. If you want to be the guy who lies to get women, you can totally be that guy. No one is going to stop you, and you may see some short-term results. We're definitely not going to be the ones to moralistic on you, because we understand where you're coming from. The thing is, it's not the most effective way to get women. At first glance, lying may seem like a shortcut, or a "hack" in the system. However, hot women have very good BS detectors that have been honed through a … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Social Skills Tagged With: authentic dating, become dynamic, being real when meeting people, date more girls, dating, get a date, get better with women, get laid, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, should I lie to women?

How To Decipher A Woman’s Body Language To See If She Likes You

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How To Decipher A Woman’s Body Language To See If She Likes You

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Texting Advice: Should You Send Her Sexual Texts?

by Robbie 1 Comment

Texting Advice: Should You Send Her Sexual Texts?

Here's another example: … [Read more...]

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The Art of Peacocking

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The Art of Peacocking

Most of us have heard about peacocking: the idea of wearing an outrageous outfit or set of accessories to get a girl to notice you at a bar. Traditionally, peacocking might mean wearing black nail polish or goggles or Matrix-style trench coats to get attention. I’ve even seen dudes dress up in full-on costumes in a lame effort to stand out from the crowd. They stand out from the crowd, all right. That method of peacocking might work for some people but for the most part, it’s absolutely ridiculous and makes you look like an idiot more than it gets you laid. Go for Subtlety Less … [Read more...]

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The Secret to Being a Social Beast: Breach the Dork Forcefield and Hang with the Cool Kids

by Robbie 1 Comment

The Secret to Being a Social Beast: Breach the Dork Forcefield and Hang with the Cool Kids

People ask me all the time, “What’s your secret to dating hot chicks, and how can I be more like you?” I can tell you, and I’m going to in just a minute, but you have to understand that you’re not going to become a social master in a day. Pulling your ideal chick is the result of a massive body of work. That body of work is essentially a lot of social practice: dating a lot of women, meeting a lot of women, having a lot of friends. So, what’s my secret? I have a massive amount of practice, experience and repetitions under my belt. And I hang out with people that add tons of value … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: cool kids, Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, dork forcefield, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

The 3 Stages of Cool

by Robbie 4 Comments

The 3 Stages of Cool

The ability to integrate with the cool kids is crucial to being able to attract hot girls. A lot of people think that “cool” is a group, and when we talk about “cool kids,” it’s slightly misleading. “Cool” is not a group. It’s a way of being, and there are three stages to it. Stage 1 of Cool: The Trimmings This is the most basic level of cool, it’s the entry level. And when I say “trimmings” I’m talking about your clothes and your physical appearance. 95% of the time, geeks and nerds are wearing clothes that are too big for them and it instantly gives them away as not … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Confidence, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Inner Game, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: cool kids, Cosmo Kramer, date more girls, dating, dating advice, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, how to be cool, how to dress, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

The Easiest Way to Become More Dynamic: Stop Dressing Like an Idiot!

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The Easiest Way to Become More Dynamic: Stop Dressing Like an Idiot!

At the end of the day, being dynamic is the greatest pitch ever. The “be all” and “end all” is becoming a man who’s witty, charismatic, driven, spontaneous and grounded: he’s dynamic. Being dynamic is the whole package – 360 degrees of awesome — and girls will pretty much do anything to be with a guy who’s dynamic. If you don’t know how to dress, it immediately sends out a signal that you’re not dynamic. Your appearance is the easiest and fastest way to communicate a message to others as to whether or not you’re worth spending time with. To a hot chick, if you don’t know how to dress, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Access, Blog, Connection, Dating & Attraction, Fashion, Lifestyle, Procrastination, Uncomfortable Tagged With: become dynamic, Cosmo Kramer, dating, dating advice, dress better, get a date, get better with women, get laid, get laid asap, get laid in la, get laid in vegas, get laid on tinder, how to dress, Iner Confidence, Inner Confidence, men’s fashion, Robbie Kramer, Robby Kramer, Robie Kramer

Meeting Women Through Tinder

by Robbie 3 Comments

Meeting Women Through Tinder

For all of us who are feeling as though their online dating lives have been dim and dismal lately, we finally have something better, more simplified and modernized than more traditional sites like Match and eHarmony. There is no denying it: Tinder is the newest craze in the dating world. If you’re not familiar with tinder, you’re a nerd living under a rock and I’m not going to bother explaining what it is. Due to the platform, the strategy is slightly different but all the rules of dating and more specifically, online dating, still apply. Building Your Profile: My favorite part about … [Read more...]

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