"I still cannot believe this, what in the fuck just happened: It’s my first night out in New York, the night starts shitty and I get dumped by a girl who first showed interest then ditched me. Motherfucker. Steve Aoki is playing live here, getting me into the mood, lots of hotties. Long story short: After basically „waiting“, dealing with all of her friends shit, going to a house party with this chick and having to deny doing cocaine, I fucked this super hot blonde girl, skinny and tall, damn she was hot as fuck!! I literally pulled one of the hottest girls in this mf club to her place and she … [Read more...]
What Women Really Think About Your Beard
My friend Wesley, over at iManscape. wrote an article around that subject that focuses on what women really think of men with beards. He broke down information from many studies into an easy to read article covering the topic and threw in some tips for the men. Some of the data might surprise you... https://imanscape.com/what-women-think-about-beards/ … [Read more...]
The most embarrassing text I’ve ever sent
Over the years I’ve been a dating coach I’ve developed an opinion that other dating coaches love to fight me on: you should listen to feedback from women, but don’t take their advice. If you’re going to catch a fish, you don’t ask the fish how to catch it. Girls will be correct about their subjective opinions (since it’s impossible to be wrong about them) but they’ll be wrong about how you should attract them. Use their feedback about your shortcomings, but get dating advice somewhere else. I learned this lesson the hard way when I was in my early 20s living in San Francisco. I had a first … [Read more...]
The truth about confidence and rejection
If you don't feel confident in your dating life, it says nothing about your character. It's just an indication that you need more practice so you can stack more wins. There's a lot of nonsense out there on what confidence is, or what it takes to develop confidence. Confidence is the thoughts and feelings that result from a series of wins stacked together. It's your expectation of how you'll perform in a given situation, and it's different from self-esteem, which is your overall evaluation of yourself. I was reviewing Mate by Tucker Max yesterday and found a brilliant definition of … [Read more...]
The Importance of Teeth for Your Dating Life
While the right personality, temperament and confidence are probably the most important factors when it comes to successful long-term relationships, when it comes to attracting a woman in the first place, how we look and take care of ourselves, such as taking care of our dental health, plays a much bigger role that most guys overlook. And there is also a huge new trend developing around dental tourism (and especially Mexico dental tourism as the prices are so cheap and travel so cheap from the USA too) so that is another way that a lot of money can be saved. And research has shown that one … [Read more...]
What’s the Dork Forcefield?
When I was starting out as a dating coach, I got a lot better in every area of my life. The advantage I had is that I was constantly seeking other guys who were successful socially and comfortable around hot women. It offered a two-for-one benefit because I was always surrounded by people trying to improve, and it created the mastermind effect. A mastermind is a coaching group of like-minded individuals and mentors who network, share advice, and support each other, with the intention of helping everyone in the group advance both individually and collectively. As far as I’m aware, the … [Read more...]
I used to be fat
I used to be fat. It didn’t happen overnight. I had played sports and been active my whole life, but once I graduated college and started working a finance job, I settled into a routine that was killing me. I’d go out at night, crush beers, eat a California burrito, get too little sleep, then repeat the routine. I didn’t care. My main focus in life was learning how to talk to women. I told myself that I could eventually lose weight if I really cared about it, but it wasn’t really that important. After all, I didn’t want to date shallow women, if they didn’t appreciate my personality, … [Read more...]
Making Money from Scratch as You Tutor, Sell and Rent Resources
You've probably thought of this pretty important question: How can I leverage resources if I myself do not have a lot of money? There are actually more than a few ways to make money using very little capitol at all. Tutoring Anyone remotely confident who doesn't have much money, and who doesn't work more than 50 hours a week, should be tutoring. That’s step number 1. Tutoring pays between 40 and 75 bucks an hour in cities like Manhattan. You’re going to be paid $100 an hour to tutor 10-year-old kids. You don't have to be an expert in chemistry because these are very elementary, basic … [Read more...]
The Magical, Mysterious Art of Selling the Dream
Okay, in reality it’s not that hard to sell the dream but far too many marketers, salesmen and business folks miss the mark. It’s costly. Think about in it terms of conversion rates. Not selling the dream causes bad conversion – few prospects become clients. However, when you effectively sell the dream, conversion rates not only go through the roof but up-sell because it's literally effortless. Sell the Vision Don’t try to sell the product or service, sell the dream. Don’t sell the technicalities and the specs; sell the vision that includes the person you’re pitching to. Don’t stick … [Read more...]
No Excuses: Don’t Let Your Shortcomings Stop You
The people who get what they want out of life are not much different than you. Look at me: You guys are paying to hear what I have to say because of the things I have done in my life and because you want do the same things that I do, like getting rich, having fun and getting lots of girls. Do you think I am successful because I am perfect, because I am better than you? Fuck no - it's because I don't let my shortcomings stop me. This is not something I normally do because it doesn't help me move towards my goals, but in this context it's appropriate to help you guys understand how I … [Read more...]
