Most guys know what it’s like to struggle with conversation skills during a day game approach.

How many of these feel familiar?

• The "I have a boyfriend" response

• Only getting brief responses

• Not knowing where to take the conversation ("I run out of things to say")

• Having boring conversations

If you can relate to any of these, it doesn't automatically mean you're doing anything wrong. It comes down to a different problem: having a day game conversation is really fucking difficult.

I've had a LOT of day game conversations and I'm really fucking comfortable having them, but they are still hard, even for a seasoned veteran like me!

If you're really good at it, it can be a more effective way to meet women than via bars, online dating, or any other method. I've met everyone else in the dating industry, and here's the thing, even for these guys who are really fucking good, it's difficult.

Day game is essentially forcing a conversation with someone who wasn't expecting to have one. Your challenge is first to get them to want to have that conversation, second to enjoy it, and third to neutralize their social programming about talking to strangers.

So we know that day game in its simplest form is difficult. Trying to have an extended conversation during day game is even more difficult.

The Antidote:

I first thought about this idea after I noticed that a lot of my clients were struggling in their day game conversations. So by using the concept of leverage, I figured why not eliminate the conversation altogether?

Looking back on all my approaches, the path of least resistance from approaching to getting a phone number and from texting to setting up a date occurred when I didn't try to connect at all. I didn't even try to have a conversation.

It was the simplest version of the word-for-word templates I advocate for guys to use. All I would do is walk up to a girl and say:

"Hey, I saw you and had to risk embarrassing the hell out of myself to come over here and flirt with you. I'm Robbie. I promise I'm only one third creepy. I'm in a rush, but I think you should give me your number, and if you don't like me, give me a fake one. I'll never know the difference."

I hand her my phone, get the number, and I'm out. You don't even have to get her reaction or wait for a response. They'll hopefully smile and laugh, maybe give their name, and then they're going to put their number in your phone.That's the whole conversation.

It takes 20 seconds to a minute to deliver.

The psychology behind it is simple:

1. You're being direct. Because most guys aren't ever direct, you demonstrate your confidence.

2. You're calling out the fact that you're doing something that's a little bit strange and socially awkward by saying you're risking embarrassing yourself.

3. You're showing her you're not creepy, because the "1/3 creepy" line communicates "I'm not creepy because I know type of approach is a little bit creepy."

4. You're removing her worry that you'll linger and force a conversation she doesn't want to have by telling her that you're busy and you'll let her quickly get on with her day.

5. You're getting her phone number without any pressure by telling her to give you a fake number if she's not feeling it. It's direct, it's nonchalant, it's fun, it's flirty, and it works.

This is simple to execute. If you're struggling to have conversations during your day game approaches, use this minimum effective dose. That's it.If you'd like to learn more about the day game protocol feel free.

We talk about why this simple version of day game is the best, and how to move the interaction forward using social media after you've gotten the number.

What to do next:

Reading this blog is a good first step to understanding female psychology, but most guys get caught in analysis paralysis mode by actually studying too much online content. It’s way more effective to study content that is custom tailored to your specific sticking points than reading random articles and watching self help videos. Men fall into three distinct buckets on their journey to attraction mastery.

Bucket 1 - Attraction Aspirant: You don’t consistently generate attraction. You might find yourself in a pattern where dates are rare, and when they do happen, they seldom lead to deeper connections or second dates. You’re conscious about your spending, wary of being perceived wrongly, and perhaps your style doesn’t quite express who you truly are. 

Bucket 2 - Chase Changer: You generate attraction but you find yourself chasing the women you really want instead of getting them to chase you. You are uncertainty in making bold moves. While you're attractive and successful, translating that into dating confidence, especially with high-value women, remains a challenge. Self-sabotage and hesitancy can often be the barrier between you and the dating success you seek.

Bucket 3 - Selective Strategist: You find dating and initiating connections relatively easy, but the challenge lies in attracting those who truly excite and inspire you. It's about understanding the subtle dynamics of high-value dating and leveraging your strengths to create not just any connection but the right one.

To see which bucket you fail into and to get a tailored action plan to improve, answer these 10 quick questions.