We’ve all been flaked on. Regardless of how good-looking, charismatic or genuinely interesting we may be... sometimes the inevitable “letdown text” comes in, leaving us high and dry. Sometimes it’s no biggie, but let's be honest: sometimes it's a total bummer! On average, however, men have to deal with it on a much more frequent basis than us women - so it would behoove you to prepare for this and, better yet, prevent it. Yes, I feel bad when I flake, but these days, especially in … [Read More...]
What should I do when a girl cancels a date?
It’s a situation we’ve all been in: you recently met a girl and things seemed to click. You set up a date, and she either tells you she can’t make it, or cuts off any contact whatsoever aka "ghosts" you. When a girl cancels a date, you may find yourself in a painful situation. But how do you react? The worst thing you can do is to show that you are upset or angry. Guys often do this by texting something emotionally charged, or demanding an explanation for why she cancelled the date. The … [Read More...]
3 Ways To A Read Woman’s Subtle Social Cues…
Social cue: a verbal or nonverbal hint that guides conversation and other social interactions. I want to go in depth regarding the importance of recognizing social cues and understanding why an engaging and successful interaction with a girl completely depends upon them. The importance of this topic can't be overstated! Social cues are an example of behaving the way others anticipate us to, and living up to expectations of how we're supposed to interact with each other. When we behave … [Read More...]
The Truth About Height
Guest Don't let something you can't change become an excuse. I am not a small guy, but I've had a unique experience. I am 5'11 170 pounds, and I am only attracted to tall athletic girls, 5'8-5'11. That means that they're taller than me when they wear heels, so most of the time I meet a woman out, she'll be taller than me. Tall girls have issues about being big, but a 6'5, 240 pound guy makes them feel small. Most women who are 5'8 and up want to date really tall guys so they can feel small … [Read More...]
How to Push/Pull and Build Sexual Tension…
For most men searching for dating advice, the stages of development when it comes to being comfortable creating sexual tension are as followed: Stage 1. Boring nice guy with no edge Stage 2. Creepy Pepe Le Pew sex maniac Stage 3. The perfect balance Most guys start in stage 1 because of normal social and sexual fears that need to be overcome on a boys path to becoming a man. Stage 2 seems awkward and riddled with adversary but there's no way to skip it. My golf coach used to … [Read More...]
13 Text Messages to Never Send Me…
I'm writing this article from the most unfiltered point of view I can to give you, single guys who are looking for "hot women" the best and most truthful peek into how these girls often operate. I don't make the rules - I simply just like to call them out. Enjoy! Whether we like it or not, texting has become the norm. More than the norm, actually - it has now surpassed the importance of a phone call within a dating scenario, in my opinion. A text message is a fleeting, … [Read More...]
Why Getting Rejected Is Good…
Why is rejection so scary? Our society does a great job of instilling shame in men. Growing up as kids, and even into our adult lives, we’re told toxic messages that can hold us back for a lifetime. Sometimes this shame originates from the people around us. Our parents or friends tell us these messages explicitly: that guy’s a player and you shouldn’t be like that. Or they could be more subtle messages from the media and movies: in order to get a girl to like you, you need to be nice and … [Read More...]
8 Keys To Bottle Service (From a Bottle Service Girl’s Perspective)
I was a bottle service cocktail waitress at a popular nightclub in San Francisco for 6 years. I've been around the block :) There are typically a few types of guys you will run into that buy tables. Once you have a better perspective of what everyone else is doing, it's easier to understand where you fit in and whether or not you're the type of person who would enjoy bottle service or if it makes more sense to meet women somewhere else. The 4 primary types of dudes who you'll see getting … [Read More...]
Why Do I Suck With Women?
Guys who suck with women fall into a few of the same categories over and over. Sorry, but you're not a special snowflake. But this is a good thing: we've figured out the exact reasons why most guys suck, and we know what the fix is. 1. You have social anxiety Whether this means you have approach anxiety or a general uneasiness in all social situations, this is one of the more common reasons why guys don't do well with women. How could you make a woman feel comfortable with you if you … [Read More...]
What makes “naturals” different?
By naturals, I mean guys who – without studying game -- consistently attract hotter and higher quality girls than what their looks and social status would normally predict. Almost every natural I know has one important thing in common: a versatile, adaptable personality. Naturals intuitively adjust to the social situation at hand. They sense the emotional vibe in a room and act accordingly. They understand how to relate to different people in different ways. At work, they are … [Read More...]
