Intro:
How Research on High Performance Relates to Dating Women — Repeatedly approaching and putting in reps is the most important thing to practice. If you do tons of approaches you will get better with women.
Show Notes:
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— Deliberate Practice
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What is it and what does it look like in becoming better with girls?
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— General Ability
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In sports research, they’ve found that it is remarkably easy to trainpeople who rank highly on measures of general athleticism. What is general ability when it comes to dating? What skills need to be developed to make it easier to succeed with women/dating? Naturals, in my view, often cash in on general ability.
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— Genes
- What genes matter? How to tailor dating strategy to one’s particular genetic advantages/liabilities?
- (1) Deliberate Practice: Thousands of hours of a particular kind of practice = mastery. See this interview https://www.youtube.
com/watch?v=zQoM7_CKsZo - (2) Genes: Success requires a particular set of genes. See this interview http://www.
psychologytoday.com/blog/ finding-the-next-einstein/ 201309/are-elite-athletes- marrying-elite-athletes
Nicholas says
September 4, 2019 at 4:34 PMIt’s good to hear examples of lots of other guys that grew through this program. As I struggle through this myself, I keep wondering if maybe it’s just impossible for me to get to where I want to be. Like maybe this stuff works for others, but not me. This podcast shows there’s a light at the end of the tunnel.
Robbie says
September 5, 2019 at 2:07 AMIt’s crazy to hear to from a guy as successful as you’ve been in the program so far that you think this stuff might work better for others than you. I can’t think of anyone it’s worked better for than you actually! It just goes to show how much of a distorted view of improvement and reality we can have my friend!